My husband and I live with my elderly parents w/DS (6 mo). My in laws have only visited twice (during DS's first 2 weeks of life) and always expect us to go there. I compromised and said we'd visit once a month (it's a 20 minute commute but my husband and I both work and I have errands to run on the weekends), sleeping over like they want us to.
But now I'm fed up with it because they NEVER come visit us. They claim they're not comfortable in our small apt. and want more than a few hours with DS. My husband sides with his family. BUT I'm fed up bc when we're there, they're always busy getting ready for a party, to head out, to go to a friend's house, etc. They only spend an hour or two with DS anyways when we're there for a full weekend!
I find it rude and disrespectful that they should do this to us. How can I get my husband to understand how unfair this is? I've tried talking to him about it but he doesn't get it.
2007-12-03
01:10:19
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