Pregnancy & Parenting - 3 December 2007

i think i hate men! guys why are you such aholes!? i just found out i am pregnant and when i broke the news to my man he dropped me like a hot potatoe and skipped town! if i see him on the street im going to beat his azz with a bat! i thought he was perfect, he was always there for me. i cant believe he did this to me! i'm in shock. ive been with him for five years. he even ask me to marry him? i dont understand what went wrong. i feel bitter, angry, i can't even look at a man without wanting to hurt him. my life is pretty much screwed. help! i need advice.

2007-12-03 16:58:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

my son is 4 months old and he sleeps with me. I like it and he likes it! I nurse as well so that makes sleeping A LOT easier. Now my new problem is that he started rolling over and he loves that he can do this and does it all the time. He sleeps next to me so hes always in the middle. I worry now though bc of this. Tips? And please dont say move him from my bed :( I dont want to do that.

2007-12-03 16:55:31 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Newborn & Baby

She was mad at me. I want to teach her that she has to find other ways to express her anger. I also want her to think twice before running away again. ideas?

2007-12-03 16:47:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting

Do you like either of the names? How about spellings? Is Clara becoming popular at all? I'm looking for a name that is not overused.

2007-12-03 16:43:40 · 17 answers · asked by tiredbutwiredlove 4 in Baby Names

my father died recently, his name was Kenneth Edward. my brother needs a name simular for his new born daughter thats due in 2 weeks.. any ideas?

2007-12-03 16:38:22 · 32 answers · asked by angie babe 2 in Baby Names

i used protection and the condom broke right after that i toook a piss and washed myself in the shower his spurm went inside my body i suppose is their a possibility i may not be pregnant (im old enough)

2007-12-03 16:23:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

Should parenting be treated as a full-time job?

2007-12-03 16:18:24 · 12 answers · asked by Razor 5 in Parenting

If I say no he says he needs to tell me something and won't listen to me. I try taking away priveleges and toys but that only temporarily fixes the problem. He is the youngest of three and does have me wrapped around his finger. How can I get him to listen better without resorting to spanking him?

2007-12-03 16:14:02 · 12 answers · asked by momo3 1 in Toddler & Preschooler

2007-12-03 16:00:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

Ok, if you were pregnant with quintuplets what names would you name them (3 girls & 2 boys or 3 boys & 2 girls)

3 Boys & 2 Girls:

Jason Michael
Jayden Edward
Thomas Anthony
Lilly Antoinette
Emily Rose

3 Girls & 2 Boys:
Lilly Antoinette
Emily Rose
Carla Marie
Thomas Anthony
Jayden Edward

2007-12-03 15:59:08 · 23 answers · asked by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 in Baby Names

I looked at her bc pills today and the packet was full. Is she trying to trick me into getting her pregnant? If I confront her and I'm wrong, she's going to be highly pi$$ed.

2007-12-03 15:51:32 · 7 answers · asked by jeff b 4 in Trying to Conceive

ok i was totallly high and didnt know what was going on.. my bf had asked me to marry him and i love him and do want to marry him but just dont want to say yes so easily.. i wanna give it some time.. so today we were reallly high n ended up having sex.. we were using a condom at times n at times he wasnt wearing it.. well the condom teared.. (and i think he poked a hole in it.. but im not sure b/c maybe knows i will say yes to marrying him right away if im preg... which i still think is cute cuz we've been together for 4 yrs now.. so ofcourse i will marry him..)
well this happened today .. which is day 14 of my cycle.. but the thing is since my cycle is 30 days long.. i should ovulate on day 16 no? is there a big chance of pregnancy here?

2007-12-03 15:49:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

He is 8 years old now. He is immature for his age. He stutters in every sentence. He repeats a lot of things. He constantly yells out what he has to say instead of speaking it at a normal voice. He has an annoying voice. It's been like this since he was very young. He started speaking words around age 4. he did go to a special ed class for his problem, but he's out of it now. he is immature for his age. he likes watching baby shows for like 0-4 years old and find interest in the toys too. Is there a name for something that he could have?

2007-12-03 15:41:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Grade-Schooler

Ok. Well I've asked a few question a few weeks ago about c/sections as I might have had to have one. I tore BAD with ,my daughter and got stitched up HORRIBLY. Which in turn has left me with a very sore,tight, thick scare that goes 3/4 the way around my opening(sorry, I know) Any way I have decided NOT to have a c/section. My doctor said he would do an episiotomy (double one maybe, on both sides of my bottom hole). Once the baby is born I will go into theater and have it fix and stitched up PROPERLY this time. I have to have a spinal block for them to do this. My question is. Would you just go ahead and have the spinal block during labour? What are they like? I'm SO scared about having one, sticking a needle into my spine. YUCK. But in the end I'll have to have one any way. Any help would be much appreciated. Thankyou

2007-12-03 15:37:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

I am up early and up late - I'm running around for my business (I am a small business owner), and I constantly run errands. Tonight I even went to Costco for 4 cases of bottled water, five of those big a** poinsettas they sell there, two of their large wreaths, one large case of the vitamin water, and a big thing of oranges (not to mention about 25 "small" items) - all of which I picked up myself put on my cart, and then unloaded into my car. (someone was home to unload - thank God), but my husband TOTALLY chastized (sp?) me on my lifting b/c it could cause me to go into pre-term labor. I'm 40 and even though I'm in a high risk state, I'm not having a high risk pregnancy (I feel great except I have a raging case of carpal tunnel syndrome). The point is this: Am I pushing the envelope.

Opionions are great, but I would prefer to only hear from Professionals in the field and/or women who can truly provide sound recommendations. (remember every pregnancy is different).

2007-12-03 15:32:42 · 6 answers · asked by BMD 3 in Pregnancy

Imogen, Willa, Althea

2007-12-03 15:31:25 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1 in Baby Names

Is a vasectomy covered by most insurance companies in the US? BCBS PPO to be exact? Does a coinsurance apply here?

2007-12-03 15:25:14 · 2 answers · asked by s7e28w81 5 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

Hi Guys, Im 11 weeks and 2 days pregnant and am craving mashed potatoes with gravy!
What are you craving?

2007-12-03 15:05:46 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

I have an online friend who's abused by his dad. I know he's being serious, I know he is who he says he is (we have done webcam) I've been talking to him for a year. ( please dont say that he's lying, I know he isn't) He's 17 and lives in Texas, but he's asked me never to tell anyone or try and help. His dad tortures him and really hurts him, he's broke his arm and messed up his one eye for life. I'm so worried about him. Every night we talk, he's crying because his dad did something. I want him to be safe, but I promised him I wouldn't get involved. I live on Colorado, is there anything I could do? I know his full name and the city he lives in, but I'm worried that if I do anything he'll hate me. He said that his dad told him if anyone ever found out he'd deny everything and hurt him more then ever! What should I do?!?!

2007-12-03 15:04:18 · 18 answers · asked by Small♥Town♥Girl 6 in Adolescent

I got my depo shot on Oct 12 and i bled on November 14-26th . I've gained weight only in my tummy and i haven't been eating all that much because i've been nausea, dizzy, headaches, body aches. I had sex while i was bleeding .. First it was brown discharge for like 5 days then it was blood and it was clots of bloods like a size of a dime. I have this feeling i'm pregnant. I have a feeling that the shot is rejecting my body .. How can you find out if the shot is rejecting your body?? Should i get a blood test done to see if i am pregnant? Will it show up in my blood before in my urine?? Has anyone you've ever know got pregnant on the shot and whats the story ??? I could really use some advice??? Thanks ....

2007-12-03 14:56:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Trying to Conceive

x-mas is coming and im just not sure what to get him... any good ideas?

2007-12-03 14:52:49 · 31 answers · asked by ? 2 in Toddler & Preschooler

Her first name is gonna be camaya and her last crane.....whats a good middle name for her

2007-12-03 14:51:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Baby Names

kinda on a tight budget and theres only 2 more months to go!!

2007-12-03 14:45:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Newborn & Baby

boy or girl names are welcome
a name thats not overly popular
an original name but nice

thanks for your help!

2007-12-03 14:44:57 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Baby Names

I do drama and sometimes my mom thinks i am like impossible and really hard to deal with. I'll sit in a room writing poems or just thinking and she thinks thats weird. really im just an artist. i dont do drugs or anything im just weird and sometimes ill try and run away and say mean things. Is this because i am an artist at all? or am i just a typical rebellious teenager?

2007-12-03 14:44:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

i want it to be a christmasy, and its a girl!

2007-12-03 14:40:31 · 30 answers · asked by ncischix 1 in Pregnancy

After one month she started crying more and more.Now she is terrified and she won`t stop crying unless the teacher is one on one with her.The teacher told me that she is not ready for pre-school and she can`t give her attention all the time. I never had a full time babysitter but she stayed couple times with a sitter and she was fine.Now I can`t leave her anywhere by herself because she`s crying a lot untill I come to pick her up.I don`t know what to do-should I find a different school,wait,is she really not ready for any of this?(i signed her for dance class and the minute I left she started crying-even ,that first she was all excited).Thank You for help....

2007-12-03 14:37:12 · 8 answers · asked by aga 1 in Toddler & Preschooler

did anyone else begin to have migraines with auras... symptoms very similar to a mini stoke or TIA when they got pregnant because of the change in hormones?? if so, what did you take to relieve the pain???

very scary situation, numbness in one arm... cant talk straight... seeing lights and things move in the corner of your eye..dizziness.. thank god it's just a migraine though. but yeah back to the question, what'd you do for pain? and how often did it happen to you?

2007-12-03 14:34:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

2007-12-03 14:30:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

It seems like there are a ton of girls names that I like but I am having a boy. There are a couple that I like but none seem to be THE ONE.

2007-12-03 14:26:08 · 20 answers · asked by sunflowers 4 in Baby Names