I'VE JUST ABOUT HAD IT WITH PEOPLE DOUBTING THAT I'D BE A GOOD PARENT, DESPITE ALL THESE OTHER PEOPLE MY AGE HAVING KIDS & IT BEING OK FOR THEM. I'M TIRED OF PEOPLE TELLING ME TO "GET AN ABORTION" AS IF IT'S THE ONLY SENSIBLE OPTION DURING THE TIME I HAD A PREGNANCY SCARE. I want to prove that I AM very capable of raising a kid.
Therefore, I am on a 12-mo. plan. I am working extra hard to build up savings, pay off student loans & credit cards early, & put myself in a spot so that by the time my 12-mo plan is complete, I will be financially secure enough to afford having a kid without having to work more than 1 job. The savings will include money allotted for hypothetical prenatal visits, baby supplies, etc. This is the best hypothetical way that I can prepare for being a parent. There's other preparation too(such as babysitting for my friends' babies), but I'm focusing on the financial end here, since everyones' #1 concern last time was me not being financially able enough to.
2007-10-03
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