I have recently found out that I am going to be a father, and I am the happiest man in the world. I want nothing more than to give my child every opportunity in this life that I was never given.
The day my child is born will be the day my life will begin, but with all these thoughts of joy, there is still a part of me that is scared to death. I was a victim of physical, psychological, and emotional abuse from both my parents through my childhood. I have always truly believed that I am nothing like my parents; but I am afraid that I too will become a hazard to my child.
I have always loved kids, and have been active in the lives of many kids. I know I can become the kind of father that I wish I had, but at the same time, no matter how hard I can try, no matter how much therapy I get, I can forget my childhood.
What can I do to make sure I do not become like my parents? Please no 'just don't do it' from those who were not abused.
What other things can I do to become a great dad?
2006-11-12
14:24:36
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