Pregnancy & Parenting - 7 October 2006

My sister says its probably just hiding or sleeping and sometimes i think its dead cause i don't feel anything? Can you give me some advice. But i haven't started having any really bad pains or bleeding. Please help me first time mom

2006-10-07 16:37:07 · 16 answers · asked by chubby 1 in Pregnancy

Ok I had sex sat like at 1 am in the morning and when i had sex we didnt use protection we never do, but this time he lost control and came, it was all over my leg and inner thighs and when he pulled out their wasn't only a lil on his penis after he pulled out, but I suppose to come on my period tomorrow cause i went off my last period on sep. 13 and i count 23 to 25 days lata and I suppose to come on tomorrow.I had sex two days b4 i come on can i still get pregnant though? I really fill like I am and I really need help.

2006-10-07 16:37:06 · 8 answers · asked by MsDiv06 1 in Pregnancy

my friend thinks that she could be pregnant... she's 12 years old....she doesnt know at to do. if she tells her parents, they would kill her, they are the sritctist parents in the world! she wants to get an abortion, but isnt that murder? she is my best friend, and she really needs your help.
Thanks soooooo much!

2006-10-07 16:36:45 · 21 answers · asked by hcohottie 2 in Pregnancy

2006-10-07 16:32:24 · 11 answers · asked by Samantha H 1 in Pregnancy

2006-10-07 16:31:19 · 8 answers · asked by RICHARD K 1 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

I'm 4 months pregnant with #3. My first child has a diff. father who has no contact w/ us. The 2nd and this 3rd baby is from the man who I've been w/ for over 4 years. We didn't plan on the 3rd, weren't prepared for it, but we ended up pregnant. He immediately told me to get an abortion b/c he thinks we can't afford this child. Well yeah we wouldn't be able to NOW if we had to send all 3 kids to college tomorrow, but that is years ahead of us. After demanding I get an abortion up until a couple of weeks ago (which I did not - abortion is something I personally can't do) he does not mention the pregnancy at all, doesn't care to know anything and even got mad at me yest. for telling MY parents - I'm 4 months along!! He says he now feels trapped in our relationship (we aren't married), not that he was ever going to leave before the pregnancy, but now he feels he can't leave even if he wanted to. I fear now that after the birth he won't love baby, I know he already thinks less of me.

2006-10-07 16:30:04 · 25 answers · asked by october g 3 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

the person has fever.

2006-10-07 16:28:27 · 16 answers · asked by vvpp 1 in Pregnancy

2006-10-07 16:23:16 · 11 answers · asked by dolphinangel 1 in Newborn & Baby

I tested positive for pregnancy. I have been having really dark blood, almost black, for about 3 days now. Is this common? It is not heavy at all.

2006-10-07 16:20:08 · 19 answers · asked by Carlen 2 in Pregnancy

When I first went to college I found it weird the amount of kids that did not know how to do laundry. I Saw so many pink shirts that weren’t supposed to be pink it is not funny freshman year. My mother taught me in like 6th or 7th grade and by 8th I had to do my own every week. If I did not wash my clothes I had nothing cleaned to put on. Also I met kids that their parents still cleaned their rooms and brought the food to the table and cleared it.. They had no idea how to do anything for themselves. Even after college I found people that couldn’t even make something simple to eat for themselves so the ate out all the time not because they want to but because they have to that is just sad I am a parent now and I know my daughter will clean her room and learn to wash clothes because I am not doing it for 18 years or GOD forbid later

2006-10-07 16:17:09 · 14 answers · asked by Big Daddy R 7 in Parenting

2006-10-07 16:15:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

WHERE IN THE HELL R THE PARENTS TO THESE PRETEENS AND TEENAGERS WHO R NOT USING PROTECTION AND R PREGNANT OMG MY DAD WOULD HAVE WHIPPED MY BUTT IF I WOULD HAVE GONE OFF AND HAD A BABY AT THAT YOUNG OF AN AGE I HAD MY FIRST CHILD AT 23 AND DONT GET ME WRONG I LOVE HIM BUT HE IS A HANDFUL! I COULD NOT IMAGINE TRYING TO RAISE A BABY THAT YOUNG!FOCUS ON YOUR SCHOOLWORK AND SPORTS ETC ETC YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE CHASING BOYS AROUND HAVIN BABIES AT 12 13 14 ETC ETC! TELL YOUR PARENTS TO GROW UP AND WATCH YOUR LITTLE BUTTS!

2006-10-07 16:11:51 · 14 answers · asked by lita 5 in Pregnancy

2006-10-07 16:10:59 · 19 answers · asked by its just me! 2 in Trying to Conceive

on wednesday. I agree with most of the "rules" they are setting forth for me as a parent in my own home. One I am having a problem with. They are asking me to sign a contract which states that i will not allow my child to watch television, play video games or watch movies during the week except for about 20 minutes a day. I am refusing to sign the contract because as an individual I find it disturbing that the public school system thinks it can tell me what i can do in my home with my child. Or what my child can or cannot do outside of the confines of there particular school house. As a responsible parent of course I limit my childs exposure to television and video games, because it is my choice to do so, and my opinion that it can be detrimental if watched in excess.

I am refusing to sign on mere principal, just as I refused to sign a statement stating that I would never send my child an unhealthy snack to eat at school. Again mine and my childs choice.

What is your opinion

2006-10-07 16:10:03 · 43 answers · asked by ? 6 in Grade-Schooler

2006-10-07 16:08:37 · 23 answers · asked by dolphinangel 1 in Newborn & Baby

GIRLS!! If you have sex without birth-control...YES, you could be pregnant. If you think you ARE pregnant?? Go to the dam Doctor!!!

2006-10-07 16:02:39 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

we used a condom but it broke... i didnt ejactulate in her and was quite a ways from it...how ever i am 15 and she is 16 we have learned our lessons and will never have intercourse until after marriage... could someone out there help me im very worried as is she..

2006-10-07 16:02:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

K I'm so goth and a cult member and my Mom is Jewish and she always call goths evil devil worshipping freaks. But she knows I am (not just cuz I wear all black and "weird" makeup) but I'm a cult inaway but she never tries to change me she only insults me and says I need to change but never asks me where I go, why I'm late for curfew (12 mid night is my curfew), she always cover up for me at school, let's my bf stay the night I'm not complaining but I don't get it. What should I do except for change cuz that's not a option. It's like she wants me to be someone else then who I really am.

2006-10-07 15:57:23 · 8 answers · asked by outlandishb13 3 in Adolescent

my brother is dark skin and his girlfriend his brown skin. the baby is light skin with grey eyes.her mom and our mother is light skin is that why the baby came out light skin? but she had a another child by a someone else before she met my brother and the guy is light skin ,do you think i need to tell my brother that i don't think the babies his?

2006-10-07 15:57:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

Ever since I was like 10 he's sworn by this like its the only thing he has to live for. Ive never slept with a guy or thought about it or looked at any dudes. Because of him running his mouth all over town I've had to stop socializing altogether. I feel kinda bad because if he really knew me, hed up and kill himself or something. What Im asking is I need help with coping strategy. Can someone help me come out of the closet and tell him Im straight?

2006-10-07 15:53:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting

2006-10-07 15:49:28 · 11 answers · asked by andrea v 1 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

I was blessed enough this week to have been offered a job at her Christian pre-school where they also look after infants-2 year olds for day care.

I am in the 1 year old class where most of them recently turned 1. Right now, I'm just learning the schedule, but I would love to enrich their experience. I'd love to help the parents feel good about their decision to go to work. I wan't them to say, "I love the new teacher in my daughter's/son's class!"

We send info sheets home at the end of the day. It gives the parents typical info like: what they ate for breakfast and lunch, diaper changes (wet or BM) and their nap times. But I'd love to add to the comment section. Currently, the other teacher does not add comments unless the child is sick. SO, I'd love to know what sorts of things you'd like to hear. ALSO, what would you like me to teach your child? You know, if you were able to stay home with your child, what sorts of activities do you think they are capable of doing?

2006-10-07 15:44:01 · 9 answers · asked by 30 year old 2 in Newborn & Baby

Hello,

I am new to this bulletin thing. So hello to all!
I am 31 weeks pregnant and in need of some advice. Yesterday i went to my prenatal appt. where they decided to do a follow up pap smear, which they told me they wanted to do later in my pregnancy when i was only 3 months pregnant. This was because they got abnormal results when i was 3 months, but they did a colposcopy at about 3 months after those results and said things looked ok.

Any ways. they did the pap yesterday, and afterwords i was up and about all day. Literally i did not relax for the day from 8 am to 11 pm, so then when i layed down i started to experince what felt like cramps all through my belly. at times my belly tightened so much i couldnt breath. I need to know should i worry? Has anyone else experinced this? could the pap smear cause me to go into early labor? please give any advice. this is my 1st pregnancy. SO i am confused!!!

2006-10-07 15:40:07 · 9 answers · asked by kalismommi@verizon.net 1 in Pregnancy

2006-10-07 15:34:21 · 4 answers · asked by Michael M 6 in Pregnancy

on welfare and foodstamps. she said her career is the welfare. she dont want a job. and she sells her foodstamps to get liquor and cigarettes and hoochie outfits. what should she do ??

2006-10-07 15:32:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting

I have a 1 month newborn is it safe for him to enter to pool we live in Texas and it is still very hot but I am curious to know when it is ok for him to go in to the pool.........

2006-10-07 15:31:51 · 19 answers · asked by Lexy320 2 in Newborn & Baby

I have a friend looking to adopt a baby Japanese girl. She has not had luck with any local agencies yet, so I was hoping to help her out thru the internet. Anyone know of a website to adopt babies from Japan?

2006-10-07 15:26:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

i havent gotten my period since august 17th, and have had several pregnancy symptoms since then. my husband thought i may be pregnant, so i took a blood test 3 weeks ago. it was negative, but the symptoms still came. i went back to the doctors and they said i was fine. im now leaking discharge from my breast, and they have almost doubled in size ( so it seems!). i have nausea, lower back pain, food aversions, everything i had with my first pregnancy, but everything is coming out negative. any thoughts?

2006-10-07 15:26:11 · 7 answers · asked by agreiri 2 in Trying to Conceive

i'm five months pregnant, i work as an inside sales rep, need to make good enough money to keep me from falling behind, I have a few bills that are past due because i have no income, my dissability insurance has no been activated yet and what they offer is not enought to pay my rent...i need to work home from immediately.

i'm been told to stay in bed until the baby is born.

2006-10-07 15:24:27 · 11 answers · asked by rossy 1 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

2006-10-07 15:23:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy