Ever since I was like 10 he's sworn by this like its the only thing he has to live for. Ive never slept with a guy or thought about it or looked at any dudes. Because of him running his mouth all over town I've had to stop socializing altogether. I feel kinda bad because if he really knew me, hed up and kill himself or something. What Im asking is I need help with coping strategy. Can someone help me come out of the closet and tell him Im straight?
2006-10-07 15:53:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
simply point out he's your mom's ex. of course he's gonna talk trash. i've met that type. small minded turd.
2006-10-07 16:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow talk about a bad role model for parenting.
Since you are older now try talking to him directly. Tell him you aren't gay and you'd need him to stop saying things like this because it is affecting your dating with girls. Explain to him what his words and actions have done to you and ask him to stop and maybe even apologize. If he wont and is just a jerk then it's time to get a little tougher. Having someone run around saying your gay when in fact you are not is actually slander because unfortunately in our world and in some places it is NOT acceptable and it does affect your life and job prospects. If he wont apologize and start acting reasonable call a lawyer- explain the problem and state you have spoken to him and he wont stop. Tell the lawyer you need to sue him for slander if since his spreading these lies is affecting you socially as well as for career. My guess is if you call one more then one you will find one that will 'speak' to him or send him a letter on your behalf that will put an end to his mouth once and for all. Usually a simple threat is enough from a lawyer to shut most people up, and if not you do have a solid case for sueing his fair and square and you will win.
2006-10-07 16:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by Answerkeeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your stepdad is the gay one. And for him to be telling people all over town that you are is plain wrong. If I were you I would just blow it off who cares what people think. YOU know who you are and your sexual preference. Maybe get ahold of some playboys and tell him this is what I like. I like women not men. I have never liked males and I have no idea where the you got the notion that I do from. Other than that maybe get a girlfriend. I am sure there are some girls at your school that you like. But the main thing is to let him know how you feel. Make him tell who he has told that you are straight. I really dont think its your fault. If not tell your mom and let her know she should dump the a****** and find someone else.
2006-10-07 16:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by vidamar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How come Mom hasn't stepped in and told this jerk off?
Just blow this creep a kiss and tell him it takes one to know one. Kidding. Seriously, if this guy is really talking
around town then slap him with a slander lawsuit. Make him face the judge and explain himself. People who know
you won't listen to that guy. Start socializing again. If he keeps it up file a complaint of stalking and harassment
with your local police department.
2006-10-07 16:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to show him (and the rest) is prove it by your actions. The fact that you have quit socializing may confirm that you are gay in his mind. Do what comes naturally, and stop worrying about something you have no control over (certainly easier said than done).
2006-10-07 15:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by Your Best Fiend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother. My guess is he had fantasies about you and that's what started it. He's in the closet, not you. Time will tell. Quit defending yourself to others.
p.s. some women like the challenge of thinking they are getting a gay guy in bed. Use it to your advantage.
2006-10-07 15:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by Chloe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
file a civil law suit on him,for deformation on .and because you stopped socializing, he wont think it is so funny having to go to court,and pay you 1,000 s of dollars,then you can be laughing all the way to the bank,,if your under 18 call child protection for verbal,mental,emotional abuse.
2006-10-07 16:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by tysgrandma99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be gay and is just trying to deny it to himself and is taking it out on you.
Like I always say... the biggest homophobes are secretly the biggest homo's.
2006-10-07 16:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the man that was plowing your mom thinks your gay then you probably are if known since you were a little fruit I mean kid then again you might just be metro
2006-10-07 16:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, because it wouldn't work with someone like him.
If anyone asks you about the matter tell them he's(your step dad) the one with the problem... and that's why your mom kicked his butt to the curb!
2006-10-07 16:07:31 · answer #10 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to shut up or you'll sue him for slander the day you turn 18.
2006-10-07 16:02:58 · answer #11 · answered by novangelis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋