we used a condom but it broke... i didnt ejactulate in her and was quite a ways from it...how ever i am 15 and she is 16 we have learned our lessons and will never have intercourse until after marriage... could someone out there help me im very worried as is she..
2006-10-07 16:02:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The condom broke? What? Ok, please go get a condom or the box to the condoms, somewhere on the box or actual condom it will say that condoms are only 98% effective. So it doesn't matter if you used a condom or not or whether it broke, birth control fails and yes, she could be pregnant. Unless you and your girlfriend are ready to be parents I suggest you put sex on hold for a few years.
2006-10-07 16:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Christina K. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How long ago did this happen? If it happened less than 72 hours, she could get the "morning after pill"....I believe you can go to a clinic for these. However, because she is 16, I don't know the rules about her getting it without parental permission.
You sound responsible and very mature for your age. If you ejaculated away from her then of course the chances of her getting pregnant are much less likely than ejaculation inside her. If she can't get a hold of the morning after pill, she'll have to wait for a missed period and then take a pregnancy test. Just be by her side. I'm sure she's just as worried. I know you two never plan on having sex again till after marriage but getting antsy to have sex again will likely come around again, and to be extra cautious, you both should plan on using some other type of birth control (like the pill). Good luck.
2006-10-07 23:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Kimchi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age don't matter so don't use that excuse, if U didn't want 2 risk it , Why have sex? if Ur having sex Ur chances increase to some1 who's not having sex even if U didn't ejaculate there's a chance 4 pregnancy, buy an over the counter test and check. U should also avoid doing anything where the chance for using the phrase " I've learned my lesson" can be used. Just breath N B wiser. Good Luck ;D
2006-10-07 23:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Nitemuse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long ago did this happen? If it was more than 24 hrs, it's too late to use the morning after pill.
Pre-ejaculate can contain a small amount of sperm, and it only takes one sperm to get a girl pregnant if it reaches an egg.
You need to know where she was in her cycle. If she was in the middle of her cycle (10-16) days, then you have a higher chance of pregnancy. It was smart of you to use a condom, but poor planning not to have a back-up plan if it broke.
Go to planned parenthood with your girlfriend and get her tested for pregnancy. If you can't afford it, they will do it for free.
They will also teach you both how to use birth control correctly, including how to put on and take off a condom.
2006-10-07 23:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by phantomlimb7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she could be pregnant there is always a possibility. some times there is something called pre ejaculation where a small amount of sperm is released. if she would like you can get what the call the "morning after pill" or "plan B" it is a pill you can take to ensure you will not conceive the morning after you have intercourse. i believe you can take it up to 72 hrs after intercourse. in California there are free health clinics you can go to to get the "pill" if your not sure how to get it and it may be something your interested in i would talk to your parents. it would be better to get help even if you get into trouble because it would be better than possibly making a potentially huge mistake
2006-10-07 23:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iwantsomeonetoeatcheesew is a creep times infinity.
you will need to wait until she is going to have her period in order to find out for sure. if it is late, then she should try an at home pregnancy test, then proceed from there.
in the future: read the instructions on how to put on a condom correctly, this will prevent it from breaking.
2006-10-07 23:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fifty-fifty. Use a back-up method. Like foam, or the pill. She could also use a ring or a patch. You guys are too young to taking these kind of potentially life-altering chances.
2006-10-07 23:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by DeDe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still have pre-***. Get a test at a clinic or drugstore when its time. I think its after the missed period.
2006-10-07 23:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by sweettea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex, then there is always a chance. Just have her take a test.
2006-10-07 23:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by lightningviper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have sex if you spread your legs and stick it in condom or no condom you can get pregnent the only way not to get that way is do not have sex do not have sex DO NOT HAVE SEX DO NOT HAVE SEX DUMMY
2006-10-07 23:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋