His dog is 14, and was diagnosed with stomach cancer. Since being put on crafate and pepcid, he has had no further bleeding, but is crying with pain over what is presumed to be arthritis. He is stiff. Vet is giving him codeine and amantadine. My BF is trying to do everything to get this dog to hang in there. I made a vague reference to euthanasia, and was harshly scolded. Then he is telling me I am being hostile. All this recent lashing out is baffling, as I have tried only to be supportive (my dog was euthanized last week, on the 31st.). I said to him that he tended to lash out when severely upset or worried about anything, and he hung up on me. I hate when he hangs up on me. He was very angry with me. I only meant to tell him that I am trying to be supportive, and to ask him to understand that I am still grieving my dog, but to please not take it out on me? I think he needs to let the dog go, and that he is in denial. It's hard to watch him...Is all this normal? Hurts!
2006-11-07
17:45:08
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