Heres the deal. Getting back with an ex, and the thing is I am a very pretty woman who is tall and carries her weight well- to a point.
I'm 5'9 and 240 pounds. He is attracted to me but I know my weight affects my health, self-esteem, and his attraction and concern for me. It seems to be a big deal to him because he was once fat(now very fit) and he hated himself for the rejection he experienced at that time. I should add that I do not date someone if I am not happy with them, but that means I don't really date overweight guys for the most part. Flab turns me off. But I am fair and don't date someone I want to change. What should I do about this resentment of being asked to change- asked to not demanded to. I want to feel better about myself and be healthy, but I resent this man for being a guy telling me I'm not what I should be. I agree with his conclusion- I need to lose it- but I can't shake the feeling of hurt and resentment since it seems selfish of him.
2007-11-13
03:36:28
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