Weddings - December 2007

I'm sorry to ask such question here but i am just a bit confused about my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year n 4 months. We have had lots of adventures in our relationship that have made us stronger together each time... or so i thought... I'm confused about the fact that i am pregnant for the 3rd time this year with my bf's baby. I am only 2 months along. My whole family knows n he knows. My mom is ok with me but my father isnt. My mother says no matter what decisions i make she will stick by me as a mother. But my father wants us to get married no matter what cuz this is already our 3rd pregnancy. Unfortunately, i lost my first 2 before i hit 2 months, so this is real exciting for us. He has told me he is going to find a better job, find an apartment for us to live together and says he will maintain me and our baby so i dont have to work. I like everything he says he will do. I spoke to him about marriage n he said he's not ready, should i leave him for that?

2007-12-21 21:52:38 · 15 answers · asked by Señorita21 1

a friend has a problem, his girlfreind is demanding a huge sum of money for the perform of the marriage rite,the man is in his middle fortys and needs a family. the lady insists the man pays the huge amount or calls the the relationsip a quit, what should i tell my friend,he is in love

2007-12-21 20:28:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend was getting me this promise ring after xmas and we picked out the one i liked best and its now unavailable =[. i cant seem to find one that i really really like. so if anyone is super bored and would like to send me a few links... that would be great!

if it matters... i like white gold over yellow.. and would prefer it be a diamond ring... no more than $250!

http://www.zales.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2478939&cp=2071133.2109181&cp=2071133&categoryId=2109181&parentPage=search&searchId=21394130493

that is the one we picked out.. but in white gold. do you think it would still be in stores?

2007-12-21 17:09:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not that I want the '80's to come back with the huge leg o' mutton style sleeves! But no matter how ornate or simple the dress, once you get to the bust area they all seem alike. Why do you think they are staying around for so long? Nobody ever seems truly comfortable in them, and they are not flattering to all.

2007-12-21 13:40:41 · 18 answers · asked by Kalice 4

We'd like to have our favorite Chinese restaurant cater, complete with at least two tea options. I'm making 1000 paper cranes to decorate with and incorporate into the ceremony. I will display the double happiness character in a few places. I plan to order fancy fortune cookies as favors (American tradition, I know). Is any of this specifically offensive for any reason? Is it a bad idea to combine elements from different cultures? As we are regular, friendly customers, I am especially concerned about making the restaurant staff angry or uncomfortable. Can anyone offer any tips or suggestions?

2007-12-21 13:04:47 · 13 answers · asked by Twyla 1

Do you think it's ok to get married, when you are pregnant and showing? Or would getting married before you start showing be your preference?
Alot of stars are doing it now... what do you think about that?

2007-12-21 12:52:51 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a full time mom, business owner, and I have a part time job so I'm really looking for some game ideas that won't require me to leave the house tonight. I know that a scavenger hunt is good but I'm not sure what we should be hunting for exactly and I did hear about this one game where you carve cucumbers into penises but I need some other ideas. If anyone has some good ones, please do help me out and be sure to explain the game thoroughly so I can understand the concept. Thanks so much!!!!

2007-12-21 12:22:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering what people think.....

2007-12-21 11:01:53 · 30 answers · asked by kidfree 4

I haven't been to a wedding since I was very young (elementary school age), so I don't know who normally sits where at the reception, or if there even *is* a "normal." Specifically, I'm wondering if the bride and groom have their own table at the front/center, do their parents sit with them, where siblings sit, where bridesmaids and groomsmen sit, etc. I'm guessing there's more than one way it's been done, but I'm wondering what the more common arrangements are. Thanks!

2007-12-21 09:19:32 · 18 answers · asked by Galaxie Girl 6

Is it legal in your state? I think it is here in Mississippi.

2007-12-21 08:56:03 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hairstyle: http://www.kaboodle.com/hi/img/2/0/0/4b/d/AAAAAqEHGJ0AAAAAAEvVRQ.jpg

Dress:
http://www.maggiesottero.com/dress.aspx?keywordText=royale&keywordType=any&page=0&pageSize=8&style=V7018SA

Is it too "princessy" or would it look better with the hair pulled back?

2007-12-21 08:54:35 · 25 answers · asked by kiki 6

hAVE A DAY OFF WANT 2 GO RIGHT NOW TO GET MARRIED. oNLY 1 THAT REALLY KNOWS PLEASE HELP ME. TIMES RUNNING OUT FOR ME

2007-12-21 08:52:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so I'm having my wedding in May at a very nice country club. The dinner is going to be chicken(not sure what yet) and filet mignon. The cocktail hour is open bar, there will be a champagne toast and we will offer another hour of open bar after dinner. I feel like a lot of people expect weddings to be open bar the entire evening. That would cost us an extra $10,000 just for the open bar, which just isn't pracatical. What do you think of the 2 hours of open bar? is open bar all night expected?

2007-12-21 08:18:31 · 23 answers · asked by just me 4

I'm wanting to do mini tape measures for a wedding favor but I'm having a hard time finding them. I'd plan on personalizing them myself if I had to keep them inexpensive or do custom print if not too expensive. I want to have them say "love beyond measure" and our names/date of wedding on them. So far the ones I've found are too expensive or require a huge min. order. (only want approx 150 and looking for something around $.50-$.75

2007-12-21 08:05:30 · 4 answers · asked by kimski 2

I'm getting married so should i wear a tiara or not?

2007-12-21 07:16:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance' and I are in our 30's, with children, on a budget, and neither of us drink. We are planning a small wedding with just light appetizers, finger foods, and cake with an open coffee, and soda bar. We also don't want to serve alcohol at all. However, several friends that I have asked about it say they would not attend a wedding where they were not given a full meal with an open bar....

Is it an expectation now when one attends a wedding that a full meal will be served with an open bar?

2007-12-21 07:10:59 · 16 answers · asked by vaughnc5920 3

Can anyone tell me about your experience....?

I've heard horrible reviews, and a few good ones. I like some of their dresses. But I'm dreading customer service.

Thank you.

2007-12-21 07:10:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. http://www.vegaswedlockinvitations.com/diamond-blue-sephora-collectionbr20290-p-414.html

2. http://www.invitationconsultants.com/invitation.aspx?p_invitationitem=RFA3078FC686

2007-12-21 06:46:41 · 32 answers · asked by ddok 4

Should it be wedding band then engagement or the other way around?

2007-12-21 06:11:02 · 43 answers · asked by DDT 2

Help!

Ok so i am getting married next summer (yey)
My fiance has to leave the UK for 6 months (part of his work)
I have my final university exams in about 2 weeks
My parents are driving me crazy about the wedding
and one of my so called best friends hates me because my finace propsed to me (everything good MUST happen to her first)

I am so so so stressed! What can i do to free myself from all this stress. Please don't be horrible..this i serious.

Thanks

2007-12-21 06:10:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-21 05:47:52 · 13 answers · asked by Marissa1982 3

2007-12-21 05:17:47 · 11 answers · asked by Toni-Marie H 1

Please be hones as to how you were dressed let's say the first time you met your guy that you are now serious with to get married.

Were you dressed to the nines? Or casual grunge or in between?

My dad went to school, and he met my mother on a farm and of course she had the dirtiest clothes on as she was picking potatoes. I guess he didn't care about her appearance, but her work ethic and personality.

2007-12-21 04:59:30 · 49 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5

the passport I need to buy for the honeymoon will still be good? I have to buy the passport soon but if I buy one now and still have my old name once I get married it would be no good. Can I change my name anytime?

2007-12-21 04:27:40 · 20 answers · asked by Alexa's mommy ♥ 4

i am looking to release 2 white doves at my wedding. Someone told me "It's illegal to just let some doves go into "the wild" and not recapture them." is this true I live in TX will be married in a small town just north of Austin. Also I would like to know what a GOOD price to pay for a WHITE dove is. I have a lady trying to sale them for $50 each i just think thats a little High.

2007-12-21 04:23:47 · 6 answers · asked by Dani 2

2007-12-21 04:22:10 · 10 answers · asked by dani_elley05 1

http://derishnol.deviantart.com/art/Ion-Trinity-Blood-45314721

Isn't it stunning???

2007-12-21 04:03:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

my hubbys ex still kept the ring do women really go on to wear these rings even if there has been two or three broken engagements.i mean some women must get a collection of the things.do the rings still mean anything as in someone fiancee ?do men who buy a second or third fiancee a ring buy cheaper ones to save money in case its another flop?

2007-12-21 03:46:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do they say things like "I want to marry you" and then say things like "when I finish school (college)" or when we are more stable... I mean we have already started making plans- without the formal engagement- so how do I know if he really wants to get married?

2007-12-21 03:45:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I just got engaged last night! :) I'm not sure what to do with my promise ring I got 2 years ago...do I still wear it on my right hand, or is that going to be too much? I love it and I won't get rid of it, but I'm not sure if it should be a daily wear any more...People keep asking me what I am going to do, and I don't know what's "right," or "normal".

2007-12-21 03:35:19 · 11 answers · asked by jenn 2