Weddings - December 2007

mark has a 7 yr old son that he has joint custody who he is totally detacated to. He gets such joy from being with his son its all he can talk about. We are to be married next mon. and looking at houses to buy and I happened to just say something about a nursery and he just ignored me. Later he said to me he hoped I would not try and push him into having a child and if I wanted one it would be a deal breaker. I was in shock as he loves his son so much and wants to be with him 100% I guess i just thought he would what one with me too. When i asked why all he gave me was excuses nothing that made any sence. Now his child was planned not an accedent and was the only reason that keep his marrige going as long as it did. 1st marrige. So can anyone tell me why he would be so against having a child with me when he loves his 1st child so much?

2007-12-15 09:17:01 · 44 answers · asked by Gfhf F 1

Is it wrong to have 6 bridesmaids and only 4 groomsmen??

2007-12-15 09:00:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend is getting married and i told her i would help with the music. does anyone have any ideas for cute love songs. all answers are apreciated. thank you.

2007-12-15 08:56:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've seen plenty of articles on the etiquette of women wearing white to a wedding, but nothing with regard to male guests or the wedding party.

We're getting married on the beach on a tropical island, and I (the groom) am planning on wearing a white suit with a red shirt (complements the bridesmaid dresses) and a white tie. I am also planning on having the groomsmen wear white suits with the same red shirt w/o the tie. Is this ok?

2007-12-15 07:57:33 · 7 answers · asked by Mike 1

2007-12-15 05:13:38 · 16 answers · asked by ENIS H 1

My friend lives in Brisbane with his fiance. The are both from the UK as I am. They want to get married there next year and have asked me to perform the ceremony. Is this possible?

2007-12-15 05:11:30 · 5 answers · asked by Caz2000 1

If you know what I mean?

Was it an automatic feeling, or did you consciously decide?

Like suppose I have a great guy friend who has always loved me, but although I like him, and respect him and he is a good friend, I never reciprocated. Now, many people say I should give him a chance.

This is what prompted my question: Do you just *know* or ..... is it a conscious decision. Coz, if I want, I can surely just consciously decide right now, that my friend is the one for me. But this wasn't an *automatic* thought & feeling - if you know what I mean? It was a conscious decision.

2007-12-15 05:08:12 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6

my fiance took her engagement ring off to go to sleep and when we left to take her home last night she left it in my bedroom and i would like to know if i should be upset

2007-12-15 04:36:21 · 20 answers · asked by Joe K 1

Mitigating factors: Christmas week wedding, airfare upwards of $500/person, and I'm an attendant in the ceremony.

2007-12-15 04:24:02 · 18 answers · asked by increasek 2

he doesn't know how to dance and i want him to learn so we can dance together at our wedding. I have tried convincing him, but he wont do it. I have spoken to him about how important this is to me, but he seems to think that dancing in one spot is alright for our first dance. I think he is embarrassed to go to a class. Any suggestions.

2007-12-15 04:16:35 · 27 answers · asked by pinkheels01 3

I'm getting married in Florida next year, wondering if anyone can tell me how much it would cost to hire just one guitarist to play for a half an hour for a wedding. Any guestimates???
Thanks!

2007-12-15 03:22:08 · 5 answers · asked by *EmmaSurella* 2

I read in a newspaper that a boy is giving his girlfreind, a twelve thousand dollar ring........I know its stupid to ask such questions but I wonder what will the girl think?

Is the ring price' ok for an engagement ring?
Just ladies' opinion!

2007-12-15 02:42:16 · 57 answers · asked by Kokujo- Evil Pervert & Genius! 3

I still wear the ring and the wedding band on occasion. He's a g0od dad. How do bring up the subnject after sooo long?

2007-12-14 21:30:57 · 12 answers · asked by runninwithscizzorz 2

2007-12-14 20:29:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-14 19:18:55 · 13 answers · asked by icy 1

he is thrifty or insulted he is cheap?

2007-12-14 17:04:23 · 25 answers · asked by ? 4

We would like to have a place where we can bring our own food.

2007-12-14 16:31:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i saw this ring i wanna get to let her know i wanna marry her ! should i get it and what is a cool way to give it to her!

2007-12-14 15:29:35 · 12 answers · asked by anthony t 1

So many women ask me when I'll get married, and why am I NOT married so I decided to get a cute pink t-shirt that says in chocolate brown:

" UNAVAILABLE PROUD OLD MAID."

That way no one can bother or feel pity for me.

It just bothers me they say "oh how pretty you are and what a nice personality you have. how come you don't get married what's the problem?"

2007-12-14 12:21:36 · 3 answers · asked by DREENA 2

We are getting married in March and because of financial reasons we can't have a traditional reception.....but we want to serve a little something after the ceremony.....the ceremony is at 1:00pm....any ideas?

2007-12-14 11:04:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-14 09:44:52 · 14 answers · asked by phatchick182004 4

Hello ladies,

Etiquette is important and when you do not abserve some common courtesies, you may offend some people. One piece of advice ladies: you do not want to piss off your mother in-law.

At this wedding that I attended, the bride had a very large bridal party. She had 7 BM, 5 of the BM and the flower girl was were her sisters, the ring bearer was her brother. One of the groomsmen was his brother. She didn't pay one red cent of the wedding, the groom pay for everything... 42k worth of it and she doesn't work.

At the rehearsal dinner, there were gifts for the wedding party mind you, 85% of the wedding party were his brothers and sisters. She had a handbag, some jewelry set, a personalized tank top, flip flops, an engraved customized compact mirror, potions and lotions ...about $70 dollars a bag for her sisters gifts (groom paid)

The GM gifts were some very nice personalized beer mugs. The groom also pay for her brother's tuxedo rental.

(continues)

2007-12-14 08:58:27 · 21 answers · asked by Blunt 7

but i was under the impression (because she told) she didn't want to go. so i replyed to the invatation that i would be alone. can i still bring her?

2007-12-14 07:50:46 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want them there....

2007-12-14 07:42:49 · 21 answers · asked by angieleverett76 1

going to do it tonight..

2007-12-14 07:41:11 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

YUP, back to the crazy friend. I am bored at work- me and my friend (who is in her wedding) our fighting over how many people are going to show up for her wedding.
It's just for fun (yeah, I am a B- I already know) And I am completely bored at work today! LOL
1. No invites yet- wedding is Jan 19th
2. 75% of the guest list is out of state
3. New England is getting lots of snow this year.
4. It's right after the holidays.
5. This is a redo wedding (she already married)
6. Only 17 people came to her shower and she invited like 60.
7. She short 6 grand so no one knows if the wedding is really happening...
8. She really doesn't have any close friends and is inviting EVERYONE she has ever known since childhood.
9. Not everyone gets a date!!

Facts- she is inviting 189 and thinks def. 147 will show. My friend thinks maybe 100 will show. I think 60 people might show. What your guess?
Hint- You figure from the shower 34 people will def show.

2007-12-14 07:30:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

... i need any ideas on decorations and such. i'm not sure where to start!

2007-12-14 07:23:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going to a straight-edge wedding in a couple months and just wondering if anyone else has ever been to one...or heard of it!

(Note: straight-edge means no drinking or drugs of any kind. It's usually a life commitment made by someone who had a problem with them in the past).

2007-12-14 06:39:03 · 21 answers · asked by kiki 6

is it true when purchasing an engagement ring it should cost the fiance one months salary?

2007-12-14 06:09:10 · 37 answers · asked by notyochic 6

I'm at a loss as to what to give them for Christmas. They are going to be married in March.

I don't have any idea what to get my brother for Christmas. Nor do I know his fiancee well enough. They live across the country from me and I have not seen their new house. But there is a coffeepot on their wedding registry that I could get them for Christmas.

Is that too cheesy or is it a good idea?

2007-12-14 05:44:16 · 27 answers · asked by Kelly 1