Weddings - December 2007

I met me fiance online, she messaged me one day, and although we live in different states, we long distanced it for & after just under a year, we moved in and got engaged.

Our culture, needs us to be engaged b4 we can live together.

We've been living together ~6mons, and since after the first month i've come to feel/realize that she's not the one. She's absolutely great in every respect, family, friends, etc, etc..but i don't feel it for her at all anymore. I feel we are intrinsically different, i want different things. I just graduated from professional school a year ago, this is my first time 'out' and i feel as if i just want to be on my own. Its my mistake, i proposed, but i am so unhappy in this arrangement i don't know what to do. I've told her how i feel, 3 months in, she told me to give her time, but i just want out..i feel i'm wasting each others time.. We live together in a condo i purchased for us to live in, i'm so unsettled, i don't feel right at all.

2007-12-14 05:27:11 · 18 answers · asked by R T 1

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2007-12-14 05:03:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband got rejection again 3rd time on dependant visa?
hello my question is my husband got rejection again on dependant visa even if he did increase his savings as visa officer told him last time. but still they gave him same reason. so wat i have to do nw

2007-12-14 04:49:43 · 3 answers · asked by aashu 1

Ok - I'd really like some input/perspective from a few non-drinkers on this one. A good friend I've known since childhood is a Christian minister. I'm not religious, but I do my best to respect others' beliefs - especially friends and family - even if I don't share those beliefs. However, I'm having a hard time respecting the rationale behind my friend's decision not to attend my wedding. He's opposed to drinking alcohol under any circumstances, so he refuses to attend an event that serves alcohol.

Why can he not attend and drink some of the many non-alcoholic drinks available? His decision not to come hurts my feelings, and it reeks of "My beliefs are superior, and I'm better than you".

I have (religious) non-drinkers in my family. They're all happy to come to the wedding and drink water, coffee, sodas, and punch. Am I over-reacting, or is my friend's behavior as rude and arrogant as I think it is? I think that his snub looks far worse than being seen near alcohol.

2007-12-14 04:21:15 · 31 answers · asked by SE 5

So in a recent conversation with family about weddings, I commented that one biggest pet peeve about weddings are the "simon says" songs that everyone seems to play. Ex: the electric slide, the humpy-hump song, the chicken dance, etc. I can't STAND these songs, they annoy me tremendously and have vowed that I dont want the dj to play them at our wedding (even if someone requests them).
I'm not much of a rowdy partier, and I want my wedding to be more casual and classy. I would prefer to have a majority of songs be classics like Sinatra, 40's, 50's and 60's music. A little more love and less rock'n'roll.
Some people think its rude to restrict song play?
What do you think?

I know ultimately its our wedding and my fiance and I will do whatever we want, but I am just curious to see how others feel about it.

2007-12-14 03:31:42 · 36 answers · asked by Mrs. Bethy O. 4

Has anyone ever been to Wedding that had one or did you yourself have one? Tips, advice?

2007-12-14 03:03:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to get married where is it legal

2007-12-14 02:48:36 · 11 answers · asked by sexxyblackdiva24 1

My fiance and I are so very alike in many ways. However, the way that we differ most is that I am a planner. I like to plan things way ahead of time, and take things step by step. My fiance likes to do everything in the last 5 minutes when he absolutely has to. He does this with everything from the bills to Christmas presents. We set a wedding date but I cannot get him to start looking at locations or anything with me. We are trying to move in March of next year and he doesn't even want to start looking at anything until that is over because he says it's too stressful. But if we are going to have a wedding the week of Thanksgiving next year in a tropical location, I think we should start booking a place now, especially since we HAVE to do it that week because of his kids and their school schedules. He seems to think that it will all just work itself out and shouldn't take more than 5 months to plan. I think we need to send save-the-dates in advance to give people time to save.

2007-12-14 02:46:44 · 16 answers · asked by Deanrijo 5

I am 20 years old. My mom was married 2 years ago to a man that she has been with for 14 years. Our family tends to be very traditional with events such as weddings. To be honest? My moms wedding was BORING! There were about 300 people invited, and my mom didnt even get to dance becuase my grandma told her she "HAD TO" go around to all of the tables and visit with the guests.
NOT my kid of wedding.

I dont dance! but I dont want to spend my wedding walking around saying hello to people who i havnt seen since i was in diapers. My fiance and I have not set a date yet (I'd like to finish college, i have 2 more years) but we have a binder and notebook that we're putting some ideas into.

I dont want to go TOO overboard, and I wont have a lot of money (not near as much as my mom) for the wedding. My fiance and I will have to pay out of our own pockets (My father passed away, and my step father wont help)

(More details coming...)

2007-12-14 01:06:59 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4

Someone told me that if you get married in a pure white dress that it means you are a virgin and if you get married in a ivory dress that means you were previously married and you are getting married for your second time and that if you wear a colorful dress that means you have kids and/or this is your thrid or fourth and so on wedding.

2007-12-14 00:58:09 · 28 answers · asked by Tiffany 3

Concerned about her relationship, a woman approaches her doctor and says, "Doc, I'm getting married this weekend and my fiance thinks I'm a virgin & I'm not! Is there anything you can do to help me?"

The doctor says, "Medically, no, but here's something you can try. On the wedding night, when you're getting ready for bed, take an elastic band and slide it to your upper thigh. When your husband puts it in, snap the elastic band and tell him it's your virginity snapping."

The woman loves this idea and knows her hubby will fall for this. They have a beautiful wedding and retire to the honeymoon suite. The wife gets ready for bed in the bathroom, slips the elastic band up her leg, finishes preparing and climbs into bed with her man.

Things begin to progress - her hubby "slips it in" and just then she snaps the elastic band. The hubby asks, "What the heck was that?"

The wife explains, "Oh nothing honey, that was just my virginity snapping."

The husband cries out, "Well snap it again, it's got my balls!"

2007-12-14 00:06:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm getting married in 2009, and planning ahead. I wear two diamond rings, one on each hand. One is my engagement ring, the other was a gift from my 18th birthday. The 18th birthday ring is tight, and therefore leaves an indentation around my finger. I don't want these marks in the photos of my wedding, so need to know roughly how long before the wedding I should remove the ring. So far I have removed it for a week, but it's still really clear, and the skin under the ring is shiny!!

Does anyone know how long it might take for the indentation to fade?

2007-12-13 22:12:46 · 17 answers · asked by English Rose (due 2nd May) 6

me and my bf wants a victorian vampire wedding you know everthing nice and pretty nothing ulgy and scary so can anyone help PS i dont care if you call me a freak cuz i am one lol

2007-12-13 20:22:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi,
My partner and I plan on having a small intimate wedding, with just close family and friends. My partner is not close with his siblings. They live five minutes away and still they only see each other on special occasions. (You can just imagine how much he sees his aunties and uncles). On his side we plan on inviting his parents, siblings, and their children, which will total 15 people. My problem is that we are both very close to my brother and all my aunties, uncles and first cousins (we see them every weekend). My family that we plan to invite will total 19 people. He doesn’t want to invite many of his friends just his close ones which is 6 including their partners. Where as I have 18 close friends I would like to invite, as I have been friends with them all for years. My parents think his side of the family will think it is rude that I have invited all my aunties, uncles, and cousins and he has only invited his siblings. Is this wrong?? Will it look bad him inviting 21 people and me inviting 37??

2007-12-13 20:17:34 · 19 answers · asked by pinkheels01 3

Okay... I've been married almost 5 years (together 7). When we first got engaged, we were 20 and still very very young (obviously), and college students. We could not afford a big fancy ring, but I never really wanted one either. The ring I have now is 1/3 carat and was $450 for the set. It is very basic round solitaire. Anyway, he told me it was only temporary and he would eventually get me a larger one. Am I horrible to want an upgrade? Like to a 0.75 carat?

I don't want to change the whole ring, just the actual diamond.

2007-12-13 19:54:08 · 25 answers · asked by Just Tryin' to Help 4

my friend got married to a man from another country and no one else knew this except me. Im so scared if this particular guy cheat her. help!

2007-12-13 18:37:57 · 15 answers · asked by rose 1

2007-12-13 18:24:15 · 17 answers · asked by rose 1

I am getting married on March 1 of next year and i have 3 bridesmaids and the 2 have gotten there dresses and the last one hasnt and she seems to be putting it off. And its almost less than three months and I kinda have this feeling she doesnt want to do it. What should i do.

2007-12-13 18:09:28 · 22 answers · asked by Cathy 2

Hello I am a Guy 23y5m...
My parents planing to get married as i am the only Bachalor left in my friends group of my community... normally in my community the guys are married with in 23 or max 24...
I am MBA started with my Job last 6 months...
I earn good but still have hunger to to earn better and do Phd...
I beleive my concentration will be diluted if i get into Marriage and family life...
What should i Do... ????

2007-12-13 17:37:18 · 21 answers · asked by vikas j 2

In a wedding instead of bridesmaid.... like if one of the bride's closest friends is a male?

2007-12-13 17:33:23 · 15 answers · asked by hereceivedacall 3

place to honey moon? We are planning to stay at the economy resorts because of price, we dont really look for super fancy rooms especially since we will be in the parks, MOST OF THE TIME!!!! wink wink!!! LOL!

2007-12-13 17:16:22 · 13 answers · asked by DJ C 4

Ok I need help finding a tiara for wedding any ideas? Preferrably not a way expensive one.Also I need ideas for what kind of shoes and tiara would look the best with my dress here is the link for it. http://davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=2630&prodgroup=10
what other jewelry would you wear with this dress? And do you think an updo would look best or half up half down? Sorry for the tons of questions but I am so damn indecisive and I need to get stuff decided on. Only 5 1/2 months left!!!! Thanks everyone!!!

2007-12-13 16:15:59 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6

me and my fiancee want to buy wedding rings, we want to have our names written on the wedding ring
do you know if this can be done

thanks

2007-12-13 16:11:19 · 27 answers · asked by Student 2

We are looking to get married in the next few weeks. Nothing fancy. Just us probably. Does anyone know of a decent afforable place in bucks or montgomery county pa?

2007-12-13 15:43:13 · 4 answers · asked by k 2

Hi All,
Marriage is one of the major events in someone’s life. It can be either love marriage or arrange marriage. There have been lots of discussions on both of these. But the other one marriage within relations (e.g. marrying with Mama's daughter) is very little discussed.

Please share your views, pros and cons of marriage within relations.

2007-12-13 14:56:39 · 11 answers · asked by Dreams Unlimitted 1

So far here is whats up.....
my bride's maids dresses are coral
the wedding is on Sept. 6th
I want the theme to be "A Southern Flair" as far as food is concerned
the wedding ceremony will be outside....
the reception is at a museum/ under a tent

What tips if any can you give me? Also do you have any pics? I am very visual. Thanks for your help, it sucks planning a wedding alone! LOL

2007-12-13 14:53:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just recently got engaged........... Since you are now married, what advice do you have for a newly engaged person like me. What red flags should I take note of before i walk down that aisle.....

2007-12-13 14:42:24 · 38 answers · asked by kiki 2

thats the color of the bridesmaids dresses...any ideas about linens or other color options for the flowers?

2007-12-13 14:34:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think that it doesnt exactly matter what hand it's on it matters that you love each other. i know about the myth that the vein leads to the heart.

2007-12-13 13:00:28 · 13 answers · asked by alinab8s 1

I'm haveing a small church wedding in the fall. Its friends and close family only so I want it to be fun and not the reg boring music you here at weddings

2007-12-13 12:42:44 · 11 answers · asked by ?? 2