I still wear the ring and the wedding band on occasion. He's a g0od dad. How do bring up the subnject after sooo long?
2007-12-14 21:30:57 · 12 answers · asked by runninwithscizzorz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
What are you talking about?
2007-12-15 03:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you mean bringing up the subject of marriage. Let me write a little poem:
First comes love
Then comes marriage
Then comes Mary with the baby carriage
I guess you didn't follow that did you? It is the same old story that tons of girls get stuck in.... Now you have a child, no marriage plans and your significant other couldn't care less . I would give him an ultimatum that wedding plans should be made soon. You are the mother of his son and if you were good enough to give him a son, then you should be good enough to marry...If he resists...I would pack my bag and leave.
2007-12-16 09:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a hard situation, if you have exhausted all options of fixing it, then it is best to try marriage counceling. In those sessions the therapist will ask if either of you feel as if you do not want to continue on in the relationship and why. That is a very calm and adult way to handle it. You have a baby together and don't want this to get out of hand. Or turn into an angry life together for your son.
2007-12-18 14:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is between the toughest inquiries to ever answer. I even have been with my husband for 8yrs now. we've a boy from first marriages and a 7yr previous woman. numerous rigidity and extremely litttle love. final 3 hundred and sixty 5 days i found out he were speaking to a various women individuals till now it have been given any the place else. i stayed or permit him stay. many reasons to pass any other way and a few to stay. infants are continually the biggest to stay reason. take time to think of it out. in the adventure that your particularly unhappy your newborn will sense it. good success and sorry if no longer plenty help..
2016-11-03 08:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by brijshwaer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you need to sit down and talk. If you can't do that and talk like adults then I would either leave or go to counseling. Don't stay together for your son though. Growing up in a loveless household is worse than growing up with a single parent.
2007-12-16 10:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by mynxr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and talk. If you can't have a serious conversation with him, then you probably do not have a serious relationship.
Obviously there are other things going on, but you really didn't give much information.
If you want to save the relationship then do whatever it takes, counseling included. If not, then leave.
2007-12-15 09:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by Reba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this something that marriage counseling will help? I would try to work things out before leaving him. Did he do something unforgivable, or do you just feel like you fell out of love? If the latter, sometimes marriages just go through rough patches and you might be able to work it out. How long have you been married?
2007-12-15 01:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by duritzgirl4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you or he leave the family home? It needs both of you to sit down and talk with each other concerning the future of the family unit and or seek professional advice.Best of wishes.
2007-12-14 21:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by 121aloraphotos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two can't sit down and talk like adults about the situation and what you both need of the other, id say leave him a dear john letter and bounce
2007-12-14 21:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by **drew** 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is a good dad try 2 work it out cause the one u will really screw up is your kid ,,,
2007-12-15 03:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by john travolta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication and go and get some advice.
2007-12-14 22:30:13 · answer #11 · answered by Kaye B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋