Weddings - November 2007

What do you think? It will be a summer wedding but we have yet to pick the venue.

2007-11-12 08:34:55 · 20 answers · asked by BTB{06.22.09} 4

I'm looking for something either very simple or bit funky. Anything from a rental house to a rooftop bar would work I am just having a hard time finding anything besides a basic restarant or hotel typical wedding.

2007-11-12 07:58:44 · 4 answers · asked by emily h 2

My engagement ring is 18k white gold. I have found a wedding band online that I love, but we haven't had a chance to go look at it yet. The band, however, only comes in 10k white gold. Will the gold look different up against my engagement ring? Is the luster, color, etc. different between the two grades? I don't want to waste my time looking if the gold is not going to match. Thanks!!!!!!!!

2007-11-12 07:58:21 · 15 answers · asked by ♥uuɐuuǝɾ♥ 4

I have only just recently heard that some people don't believe kids should be invited at all, unless they are in the wedding party. Or that if they are invited, they need to be in their own room the entire reception. All the weddings I have attended, both for my family and other people, have been family events and the kids are just as welcome as anyone else, even on the dancefloor.

2007-11-12 07:53:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, I'm wavering on my wedding colors (eeek!). At first it was black & white, then black/white/red. Now I've seen some very pretty colored bridesmaids dresses over the weekend and I'm thinking of changing my what I had in mind as the colors.
I've not asked bridesmaids to be in the wedding yet, and nothing has been purchased besides invitations (which are plain white). So I'm still in a "no harm done" situation.
How many of you just knew your colors and were done with it? How many of you went back and forth a bit?
How did you decide upon your colors?

2007-11-12 07:24:34 · 11 answers · asked by nova_queen_28 7

she will be visiting during the christmas holidays. we really want to do this if possible... can anyone help with some very good and quick information... Thanx

2007-11-12 07:17:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents are relatively well-to-do and I am the only daughter. They have not offered any financial assistance for the wedding and I don't expect them to. But my fiancé's parents have already offered $. I know that they are hard-working and have paid for their 4 daughter's weddings in recent years. I know they mean well, but I am embarrassed to take if my OWN parents don't even offer.

I told my fiancé that if my parents don't offer, then we're paying it all on our own. I guess I'm stubborn because I think the reason they offered is because their family so LARGE and they expect more guests and they just want to help.

My mom knows our financial situation, and I'm afraid that if she finds out we accepted help from his family...it might cause some major tension. But if I tell her, she will think I'm asking for $. My mom and I are on good terms, but don't have a close mother/daughter relationship.

Any ideas on how I can handle this situation?

2007-11-12 07:14:21 · 11 answers · asked by mzsunrize 2

where can I faind dresses for bridsmeds

2007-11-12 06:58:34 · 10 answers · asked by magda 1

Can you have a maid of honour that has done nothing for you/ or lived up to the role?

I have sorted the dress, the bouquet, the venue, the trousseau etc

She has disrespected me at work (I am in charge when the manager is not there) I asked her a question, as to why she left the builing and did not sign out or report to me, she answered with her back to me.

I never asked her to be maid of honour, when I said I set the date to other workmates she said 'I will be your maid of honour'

Because she has disrespected me at work, I no longer want her as my maid of honour. Surely the MOH should respect the bride to be in all aspects

What do you think of this?

2007-11-12 06:48:48 · 6 answers · asked by Rebz 5

I am the maid of honor at my best friends wedding and I am writing my speech. So far it is about 3 minutes long with added time for laughs because some of it is funny. I would like to add more because there is so much I can say but I don't want to take toomuch time.

2007-11-12 06:45:28 · 15 answers · asked by LovesPets 2

OK, I just thought it would be fun to see what kined of dates I get from people. My boyfriend FINALLY asked me to marry him but we really don't have a clue on what day to "do the deed." I thought this would be a great way to get some ideas :)

2007-11-12 06:42:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm having a hard time deciding between tradiotional wedding music and modern songs. Are there any popular songs you can suggest for my wedding ceremony?

2007-11-12 06:11:53 · 7 answers · asked by Mrs C 1

I was going to put a picture of us in it? What else can I get them besides jewerly. I am not a big jewerly girl unless it was for the hair or something? Flip flops what else? My budget would be like $50 or $40 a girl. Something else for my matron.

2007-11-12 05:52:43 · 9 answers · asked by Kelsy 1

I always wanted to get married in a church but a friend of mine just got married (FYI .catholic church), and she said she had to pay $800! Now i dont know what that included? I thought you were just supoosed to give a donation?

2007-11-12 05:42:56 · 14 answers · asked by Me :) 2

I always wanted to get married in a church but a friend of mine just got married (FYI .catholic church), and she said she had to pay $800! Now i dont know what that included? I thought you were just supoosed to give a donation?

2007-11-12 05:42:14 · 3 answers · asked by Me :) 2

I was asked to be a bridesmaid in the wedding of my husband's male cousin. My husband was a groomsman. I am social with the bride- but not really a close friend. Also, the wedding date fell on my only daughter's 4th b'day. Out of family obligation, I accepted. However, a month prior to the event she told me she did not want kids at the wedding. Since both my husband and I were in the wedding, our close family members were attending, and it was my daughter's birthday- I was hurt. After consideration, I agreed to respect the bride's wishes, change birthday plans, and asked my mom to babysit. As the wedding approached, I learned that another bridesmaid was going to bring her 4 mo. old. There was also a 6 year-old in the wedding party. On the wedding day, fifteen children (ages 7-12) & 3 babies attended. My daughter is very well behaved (I know everyone says that, but I'm a school teacher-trust me-she is!), we are family, & I am completely hurt. How/Should I approach her now?

2007-11-12 05:30:06 · 49 answers · asked by Christina 1

ok so i have this close friend and she is supposed to get married and she has already picked out her bridesmaid dresses and we have all paid for them (im a bridesmaid).....so today she decides she doesnt like the ones she picked out in the first place and she wants to get different ones. she will not refund our money for the first choice of dresses because they are nonrefundable by the store, yet she wants us to pay for these also now. is it just me or is this her being inconciderate? and frivolous with money? and what do i say to her??

2007-11-12 05:09:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the best colors? how many people are in a wedding?

2007-11-12 05:08:29 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance wants to get married in early August. I say too hot. I want to have the wedding in late September or early October. She doesn't want to be cold. Any ideas?

2007-11-12 04:32:18 · 18 answers · asked by Ken C 2

I wanted to include registry cards in our invitations. So people would know where we are registared. Also so people out of state can purchase something online of they'd like. It this tacky?


BTB 7-5-08

2007-11-12 04:26:08 · 25 answers · asked by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6

OK, I'm getting married this coming summer, Well I live in Arizona and its pretty hot here in the summer time. After our ceremony and its time for the reception like after our first dance, meal...etc. Am I still suppose to keep the dress on? Its strapless but still hot. Is there another "party" dress I can wear or am I just suppose to wear it the whole time.

We are expecting the party to last awhile....due to both families being quite the partiers...

2007-11-12 04:15:26 · 18 answers · asked by ♥Angie♥ 3

I have a cousin who is 30 years old, she just got married in Jamaica on Oct. 24. This is her 3rd marriage(i know, crazy) anyways her reception is this Saturday Nov. 17. I was wanting to know, should I buy them a wedding gift, I just think it's kind of tacky to register for your 3rd wedding. This is her new husbands 1st marriage, so I kind of feel like we are obligated to get them something from their registry. But on the other hand I just think a card will do. What do you think??

2007-11-12 04:06:04 · 16 answers · asked by cm7882 2

My Cousin is getting married and I'm the maid of honor. She is having a hard to determining where she wants to hold her cermony and reception.

Our family lives in one part of the state and her Fi's in another. Our part of the state is quite expensive for living and even more expensive for holding a wedding reception. Most places charge at least $100 a plate.

Her Fi's family is located in a part of the state that is about 45-an hour away from us. She wants to have the wedding there, b/c it's a bit cheaper.

Yet, she doesn't want to make any of our family or her friends upset by an 30 drive to a church and then a 30 drive to the reception, and an hour drive home later on at night.

However, if she holds the wedding in our area; then his family has the same set of problems.

There is no place inbetween to hold the reception. Her and her Fi have searched, I've searched online and asked friends.....even her mother looked.

What do to? She needs advice.

2007-11-12 03:40:45 · 16 answers · asked by J'adore 4

If the bride and groom live in the state that the bride is from, but the to be grooms family lives in another state...where do you have the wedding if you are wanting a traditional church wedding??

2007-11-12 03:14:03 · 11 answers · asked by Shannon W 1

I am the maid of honor for my friend's wedding. I was planning on hosting one of her 3 showers (3!). One of the other bridesmaids has recently started to change my plans for the shower and take over planning. She decided it should be a couples shower for 20 couples, should be held at her house, and should have a casino, "lucky in love" theme. While this could be a fun shower, it is not the shower that I would ever choose to give. I am single and don't exactly want to be the only single person at this couples shower where we all celebrate how lucky in love everybody but me seems to be. And I'd rather not let the other bridesmaid have it at her house, because then she really is the host, and if I do all the work she will still get all the credit.

Am I being silly? Should I just let the other bridesmaid take over? I don't want to have a fight with her, and I don't want to add to the bride's stress by having two fighting bridesmaids.

2007-11-12 03:03:39 · 18 answers · asked by Carrie O'Labrador 4

Than having your ceremony at maybe a park, beach, country club or someone's yard.

I just got engaged and i want to start planning my wedding.
Any idea's on how to have a Great wedding at a Small price.

thanks in advance!

2007-11-12 02:54:50 · 10 answers · asked by sylvia713 2

I was engage for 2 years now. And I still haven’t met my fiancés parents been with this guy for about 3 years.
From the first moment we met I knew he was the one and I was just so happy cause he is a great guy but we have a big issue it feels that I am living my life by his steps.
I am so ready to start a family and he just doesn’t want to. Yesterday he told me that one of the reasons he doesn’t want a bb is cause he is not sure about us then why does he want to marry me?
I been crying forever about the baby situation and I can’t do this no more.... I am moving out today. He says that he will be ready to have a child but to be honest I don’t think so ... I am 25 will be 26 in April and want to be a young mom. I offered my life to this man but that’s how it is.

2007-11-12 02:24:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

We will be putting our wedding website link in our invitations, theres an option to RSVP. Should I turn that off and just address and stamp the RSVP cards or envelopes?

Should i leave the option to RSVP? What should I do?

2007-11-12 02:17:02 · 23 answers · asked by ? 5

My fiance and I figure that to save money and to eliminate the number of random people at our wedding (we are planning to have a fairly intimate wedding, less than 100 guests), we shouldn't have to let our single friends bring a "plus one".

Obviously, whoever is married, engaged, or has a significant other, will get a "+ guest" on their invitation, but seeing as how all of our single friends know each other and wont feel left out without a date, we feel that we shouldn't have to spend $100+ per plate on people we don't know.

What do you think? I've heard people tell me "it's your wedding, do whatever you want", and others who say that it's cheap to invite someone without letting them bring a date. Thanks for your opinion!

2007-11-12 02:06:17 · 26 answers · asked by Naughty ♥Angel♥ Mommy2B! 4

I've seen alot of questions about this and I'm just wondering. I'm not bashing your choices, but I am curious. If you are a bride and your best friend is a guy, why won't the groom accept your best bud as a groomsman? And vice-versa if the groom's best friend is a girl, why can't she be a bridesmaid?
I don't expect my fiance's sisters to stand with the groomsmen, they will be two of my bridesmaids. Am I too old-fashioned about this? Or maybe out of touch with the current trends?
It is totally your choice, and that is your right to do with your wedding, I'm just curious.

2007-11-12 01:53:18 · 12 answers · asked by nova_queen_28 7