Growing up, I always promised my cousin I would make her my maid of honor when I got married. However, lately I do not support her lifestyle. She doesn't have a job or car and does not seem to care about her future. She is also very immature. I love her to death, but I don't think she can handle the responsiblities of the job and she surely will not be able to afford the dress, shoes, etc.
At the same time, I have a best friend of 7 years. She is also friends with my cousin. She disapproves of her lifestyle too. We both agree she is headed down the wrong path. However, I really want her to be my maid of honor. She is responsible and someone I can rely on. She has a job and would be able to afford the dress with no problem.
Who should I pick? I'm worried about hurting my cousin's feelings, but she really isn't showing me her ability to be my maid of honor well. Also, I'm afarid of what our families will think. We are very close and I know my mother
2007-06-06
05:46:07
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