My family and I were preparing for a wedding, he showed no interest. I would ask him to give me his opinion about the dress, guest lists, food matters, etc. I get no response or reaction would be one of an annoyance. I confronted him, saying you don't appeared to be the happy groom to be, what's wrong? His response, What do you expect me to do jump up and down for joy". You know I was floored. I had a "get to know you" luncheon with my mother in law to be after the luncheon I knew the wedding was off. She expressed her concerns:how can I be a good wife if I have never been married, in so many ways she labeled me as a tramp because I broke up with him earlier in the year. I should have considered his daughter's feelings because she is A student, wants to go to college and no behavioral problems. The next day he put the wed off, he wanted to wait to get a better shift, third shift would hurt our marriage and without any regards to my feelngs as I sat on the bed crying.
2007-06-15
03:24:07
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Moe
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