was it worth the wait? was it a lot of pressure to perform well or do the right thing in bed? or was it simply magical and you have no regrets?
2007-06-15 09:04:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I would really like to see the answers for this! Since im waiting until my honeymoon =) feels great to know that i wont be getting AIDS or herpes!
2007-06-15 09:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Caribbean_girl 3 · 5⤊ 4⤋
Over all? Yes, it was worth the wait.
He was a virgin and I was not. But the pressure to perform was bad, and our first time together was terrible. Magic? Uh, no it was not magical. It wasn't even really special. If we could change what happened, we would have done things differently. We still would have waited until our wedding day, but how we chose to go about it would be VERY different.
2007-06-15 16:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It was well worth the wait. My husband and I didn't have sex until then, but we did have other partners, and what a mistake premarital sex was! There was no pressure, because you should be relaxed around the other person. Magical and no regrets.
2007-06-15 18:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were both virgins when we got married and giving ourselves to each other was the best wedding gift. It was totally worth the wait, no pressure, it was completely magical and we have absolutely no regrets.
2007-06-15 18:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jellybean had her little bean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We waited (we were BOTH virgins on our wedding night), and I would say it was completely worth the wait. Like a previous person said, don't push yourself to jump right into bed as soon as you are alone. The wedding day is tiring -- I actually took a NAP when we got to the room, so we didn't actually have sex until later that night.... but it was completely wonderful and "satisfying" for both of us. I've heard/read that most times the "first time" can be a disappointment, but it was everything I'd hoped for and more, and I'm sure he'd say the same thing.
If I had to do it all again, I'd do it the same way!
2007-06-15 16:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Totally worth the wait, and no, there wasn't pressure to perform because we actually do love each other and were happy to be together.
2007-06-15 16:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by sparki777 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It was worth the wait but don't rush into it after a long wedding day you could be too tired. You want to remember the moment.
2007-06-15 16:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by Carol 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i didnt wait until the wedding night, but my husband and i have been together for 8 years, and only have slept with each other.
we did not have sex for about 2 months before the wedding.
even though we had already had sex prior to the wedding night it was still special and a great memory.
it was better than before
2007-06-15 16:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by Awesome Rockin Mom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My fiance and I have had sex before. We are getting married on June 29. We decided to go the whole month of June "without" so it would be extra special on our wedding night..
Oh, and a little note to Caribbean girl....just because we had sex before marriage, does NOT mean that we have AIDS and herpes. Ugh...some people.
2007-06-15 20:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
completely worth the wait. there is no pressure at all, and its not akward like okay this is why we're here. it just happens and its special because its the first time. and since its your wedding night its something you'll never forget all the details. like day and how you felt and who you where with. i'm glad i waited.
2007-06-15 16:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by stephanie 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋