So my MOH stepped down as she was constantly upsetting me not showing up to things and really not being there. Her reason for not coming to my Stagette is because, (her and her BF broke up 2 months ago. But they also broke up before that 4 years ago for 3 months and she dated another guy, and is already interested in another. She is not going to her ex BF's brother's wedding which is the same day as the Stagette ( she feels as though she should be there), instead she is having a day of mourning she says and felt it would be to hard to be there and show me her support. Am I out of line to be upset?
2007-06-15
04:41:25
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asked by
bridetobe77
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Sorry forgot to mention she stepped down as MOH, she also hated her dress, and shoes, that all the other Bridemaides like. My sisters are theother two Bridemaides and my other Friend who has drove for hours to help with things deserves the Honour of being the MOH.
2007-06-15
04:56:38 ·
update #1
So there is three weeks untill the wedding what do I do next? her Mom is doing are hair and the Officiant is staying at her house?
2007-06-15
05:20:37 ·
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She's a basket case. You are better off without her drama.
Good luck
2007-06-15 04:44:51
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answered by Blunt 7
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If she has already stepped down as MOH and her mom is still doing your hair and the officiant is still staying at her house, then just give the honor to the other friend, your sister or one of the bridesmaids. You are better off without this person being your MOH cuz she is self-centered and you obviously cannot count on her when you will need her the most. Dont focus any more of your time on her and dont let it ruin your wedding. You're lucky enough to find out now and still have time to replace her. Even if you end up not actually being able to get another woman for an attendant, dont worry about it. Lots of weddings have fewer male attendants than female and vice versa. Just focus on the women who are there for you and enjoy your day. Congrats on your marriage.
2007-06-16 19:43:04
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answered by Anonymous
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No, you are not out of line to be upset. What is up with that? Is she jealous of your wedding?
Why don't you ask her if she is still interested in being your MOH? She may want to step out. If she says she still wants to be in your wedding, then I think you will just have to realize that she is not going to be really be there for you. Try not to get upset and ruin your wedding. You will have a wonderful wedding and you can count on your other friends and the other members of your wedding party. Best wishes to you..
2007-06-15 11:49:47
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answered by Patti C 7
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If I were you, I could really care less about this other woman. She seems like a whackjob if ya ask me. What is she mourning over? breaking up with her boyfriend? tell her to grow the f$%k up and get over it, there's another guy she already likes. I think she's just jealous because all the attention is not on here right now, but you.
2007-06-15 12:03:58
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answered by mannasox 4
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sounds like she's more into herself than being a friend to you. don't be mad at her, just invite her to the wedding and find yourself a moh who can really be there for you and who will appreciate the compliment that goes with it
2007-06-15 12:08:39
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answered by twosey ♥ 5
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So give it to the friend who deserves it. What's the big deal? Stop making this about her, and start making it about you. Its your wedding- dont let anyone ruin it.
2007-06-15 11:59:51
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answered by orange blossom honey 4
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I think she should buck up and support you for your wedding and your Stag party day! It's not about her.. it's YOUR wedding. If she doenst come, she isnt a true friend.
2007-06-15 11:52:16
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answered by Mildly Me 3
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No your MOH seems self-centered.
2007-06-15 11:45:02
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answered by Anonymous
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I think Blunt said it best!
2007-06-15 11:47:57
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answered by kateqd30 6
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I would be pissed
2007-06-15 11:56:33
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answered by always_sweet_b 2
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