Weddings - May 2007

my bf of 4 yrs(engaged 2) has a short fuse.He has never hit me but has smashed a few things when pissed at me.He likes to yell and sware(i never at him) when fighting with me.He does not call me names but he will say things like "I can't take this f-cking sh-t anymore find someone else" or "go to f-cking hell".Now he does not talk to anyone else like this just me.At the end of yelling with me he will always say to himself loud enough for me to hear"i need to get out of here" meaning move out.Why do i stay? Both my parents have died and i am only child i have no family.I moved out off state to be close to his family so i don't really have any close friends i just know a few people from work.I'm so sad all the time but if i leave him i will be alone and don't know if im just overreacting as i have no one to talk to about this.

2007-05-23 14:06:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some people check their registries daily to see what guests have bought so far. Do you?

2007-05-23 13:02:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend is only 18 years old he has a 4 year old by his x girlfriend me and his x girlfriend DONT get alone at all i am pregnant right now i just found out yesterday my boyfriend name is Tray and he went to his x girlfriend house to pick up his child for the weekend his x is not over him he told me when he went there to pick up his child his x was wearin a thong
and a bra and he told me she said that she was horney and that he dont got to worry about his child because she is at her grandmas house he said he left right away she called the house the next day at asked for tray and said they had to talk i told her to come over here and talk TO him she said ok when she got here i was bout to hit her but i didnt i just started tellin her things like she can kiss my *** cause my man aint feelin her so she need to get over him then she called me a ***** i said u want to no what a ***** is come here and she said whatever i said **** u was thAT THE RIGHT THING TO SAY ?

2007-05-23 12:40:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our bride just moved to another state (Texas), but the wedding will be back here in California but not at home, down south about 5 hours. So we will be travelling into town a few days before the wedding, and all the guests will shortly be arriving also.

There just won't be time for a full out bridal shower, so we are trying to think of fun alternatives?

All ideas (positive) welcome!

Thanks so much!

2007-05-23 12:40:17 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica G 1

I would like to have deep peach shower boquet and the bridesmaids ivory poseys! any idease anyone im worried that they wont go i dont want just ivory as it will be to bland. ive done invites in mango calla lillies and orange sweet favors. i have only seen this theme once and as ive not seen it since im worried the colours wont go!

2007-05-23 12:40:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Things like bridesmaids & decorations

2007-05-23 11:32:17 · 18 answers · asked by Cheese 2

2007-05-23 10:50:29 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am looking for ideas on when I leave my reception. I was going to have a night wedding so when we left our reception I wanted our guests to hold sparklers. But now my wedding is going to be during the day due to the expenses. Any different ideas that we could do??? besides bubbles, confetti and rice? Thank you so much!!!

2007-05-23 10:45:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting married next year. I have alot of family members that im close to. How do I include them without hurting their feeelings?

2007-05-23 10:32:28 · 19 answers · asked by KIMBERLY J 1

My boyfriends mother won't come to our wedding stating she can't afford to so she said and also she wants my bf to come say he is sorry for yelling at her she had continually lied to me about his life and he confronted her now she and his two brothers (groomsmen) won't come I don't know what to do I just went over there to get our lawnmower and she told me wedding haha he told me there wasn't going to be one I didn't say anything another ? HOW DO I GET HER TO STOP LYING?

2007-05-23 10:31:18 · 13 answers · asked by melissa s 1

The wedding is for a woman I work with. We're not particularly close at all and I told them my girlfriend & I would go mainly as a way to seem like a "team player" at my job. The wedding is this Sunday (Memorial Day weekend) and we are desperate to back out without being impolite. Is there any way possible to do so?

HELP!!!

2007-05-23 10:09:53 · 19 answers · asked by hortha71 3

I need help with ideas for a theme. I have no idea at all... the colors will be seafoam green and azalea(a deep pink) and the accent will be silver. The flowers will be tulips and/or calla lilies. Any help will be greatly appreciated..the wedding is at the end of july..thanks.

2007-05-23 10:04:19 · 9 answers · asked by Goldie 3

Hey, I am not religious and my boyfriend is a non-practicing Catholic but we want to get married in achurch. (a Non-Catholic church). How would we go about this? How much do you have to pay to get married in a church. Any ideas for a non-religious wedding ceremony?

2007-05-23 09:35:08 · 10 answers · asked by ashley h 1

My fiancee and I are trying to decide on a location. It will only be us our parents and siblings. All together 11 people. We thought about Key West, but we live in Tennessee and that's too far! I just want to be married on the beach. What do you think?

2007-05-23 09:01:27 · 11 answers · asked by jrhod263 3

2007-05-23 08:37:17 · 60 answers · asked by Russ 3

me and my fiance have a 4 year old son together and at our wedding i want to have a special dance with my son anyone know a good song from a mother to her young son

2007-05-23 08:19:06 · 8 answers · asked by jenn p 3

How come Spring is the most popular time of the year to get married? What about the beautiful fall?

2007-05-23 06:55:45 · 39 answers · asked by kathy 2

I am getting married in south africa next week and my fiance has just found out that i am going to need proof that i am not already married...howin the world is this possible? and within 2 days (i leave on friday).HELP!!!

2007-05-23 06:52:40 · 5 answers · asked by goosie 1

2007-05-23 06:47:05 · 21 answers · asked by mj58 2

What's a good amount to spend on a wedding gift for a friend who has lived with her boyfriend for over 3 years? They have everything so I was thinking on a gift certificate.....

2007-05-23 06:45:47 · 13 answers · asked by jessie 5

2007-05-23 06:29:23 · 8 answers · asked by beehappy01 1

My friends are getting married. They already have a house and some gadgets. I refuse to go by the wedding registry.

2007-05-23 06:10:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I are getting married on Valentine's Day 2008 at Sandal's Grande Resort & Spa in Antigua. One problem...It's a couples resort! I tried the sneaky route by trying to book my single same sex friends as "roommate" couples, but the resort caught on! Plus, My mother is single, and I don't want her to feel like we banished her to another part of the island because she doesn't have a significant other. I would like my guests to be able to stay somewhere close, but all inclusive as well. I'm currently working with Groople Group Travel, but it doesn't look good. Any advice?

If you got married at the Antigua Sandals...where did your guests stay?

Last but not least, any way around that wedding day pass thing if your guests aren't "allowed" to stay at Sandal's?

2007-05-23 06:07:02 · 5 answers · asked by Kim W 1

What do you suggest for A classical[s] Music to be played at My wedding.Church... PS" Must be Classical .tks

2007-05-23 06:04:14 · 8 answers · asked by whoeddy 1

My fiance and I would like to marry in a church that happens to be catholic and has sentimental value to him. I was baptized a catholic but now I am a Christian and my fiance was baptized non-denominational and is now more along the lines of agnostic. I know Catholic churches are very strict in their rules but i am also aware some accept money for the ceremony. We really like the church (building) and that is why we want to get married there, but I am wondering if the pastor would agree to such a thing, and if so would we need to go through counseling.

2007-05-23 05:41:30 · 23 answers · asked by Oli 3

2007-05-23 05:26:16 · 24 answers · asked by oopsboy 1

I paid for their dresses, so I was wondering if I should give them something small, and if so, what should I give them? Thanks

2007-05-23 03:29:35 · 41 answers · asked by mannasox 4

We have been engaged since February but we are planning to get married in October 2008. As much as I'd like a traditional church wedding, my family and friends are scattered about, as are his, and I'm afraid we won't have much turn out in a traditional wedding anyway. Plus, I'm not too keen on dealing with all the pre-wedding drama that is often involved with having bridesmaids and all that crap. But, at the same time, I do want our immediate family and maybe our closest 2 friends involved. We've been toying with the idea of a Vegas wedding. So what are the pros and cons of Vegas versus the pros and cons of a traditional affair? Basically, which type of wedding is easiest to plan and pull off? Because I don't want to be a Bridezilla!!!! So what is your advice for me? What should I do?

2007-05-23 03:22:20 · 16 answers · asked by Beth 4

This was a topic on a radio station this morning. So many woman called in and said yes they would turn down the marriage proposal if they didn't like the ring.

2007-05-23 03:07:14 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, my fiancé and I are having problems trying to plan our wedding. He listed a question last night, you may want to check it out: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Al1ZiOU8KF7B6ItvmDDjlDPE7BR.?qid=20070522215007AAqKv0N
So our problem is that his family won't all make it to the wedding, since they are in Western Canada and the timing is bad with graduations in the family or they don't have the resources to come here. And I don't want to have a wedding with my 30-40 family members and only between 4-10 of his. I will feel really awkward with that.
I'm considering a destination wedding, and only having the guest list include my parents and their significant others, my two best friends, my fiancés two best friends, his parents, his sister and her husband, and maybe grandparents, But I'm afraid my family will resent me if we do that.
I'm not opposed to my fiancés idea, but I think it's too hard to exclude my family from the wedding if it's in the same city they all live in HELP

2007-05-23 03:00:27 · 9 answers · asked by Kayleigh♥ 4