I'm having a lot of trouble deciding whether to choose my best friend (of 18 years) or my sister as my maid/matron of honor. My sister and I are very close, but she has two kids and another on the way, plus she lives 6 hours away from me- so I don't think she would want the responsibility of planning a bridal shower, giving the toast, etc. When she got married 5 years ago, she didn't have bridesmaids, and HER best friend at the time was her maid of honor (although she has said many times that now she wishes she had chosen me instead- we weren't as close back then as we are now). I definitely want her in my wedding, but I don't want her to be hurt if I choose my friend instead of her as my maid of honor....and I know sisters are forever, but I know my best friend will be 'forever' as well. I don't know what to do. Any advice??
2007-03-07
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