It's going to be a ceremony with family and maybe a luncheon after. Since technically my husband and I are already married, what type of dress should I wear? It's a very special occasion for me but I don't think a full-on wedding dress would be appropriate. I'd appreciate the help.
2007-03-07 06:15:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Double congratulations to you! You get to marry the same person all over again. How romantic. Listen, even though you were married in a civic ceremony, does NOT mean, you can NOT have the all-out full wedding of your dreams if you want to and if you can afford it. If that's what you want - it's totally appropriate - if it were not appropriate, the Catholic church wouldn't even consider letting you have a ceremony in their church.
However, if that's not your style (some brides do the civic route because they are embarressed to wear a big poofy wedding dress and being the center of attention all day, with everyone looking at them) and you are one of those shy types, then you can go to a place like "David's Bridal" and find a very simple light color gown that doesn't scream: "Here comes the BRIDE!!!!". You can get something elegant, but subdude. They have even a cream colored suit or dress would be fine.
However, if your primary concern is "I'm already married, therefore I'm not entitled to a real wedding dress" NOT TRUE. If you want a full on wedding gown, do it. They also make full on wedding gowns that are not the "princess" type. Go to a discount bridal shop and tell them what you really want and what you were thinking and they will bring you several options.
What should you choose after that? Choose the one that calls to you. That's what is most appropriate.
2007-03-07 06:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by f w 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to wear? If you want a wedding dress, then that would certainly be appropriate. You don't have to do all the attendants and flowers like a regular wedding, but a small bouquet with him wearing a boutonniere would be all right. Don't deny yourself something just because you think it may be inappropriate. This is your life, and your memories. What do you want to remember? What were you married in at the city hall or where ever you were originally married? Was it a nice dress? Maybe that would be good too. If you're not hiring a photographer, then get someone that's good with a camera to take some pics for you. Good luck, and have a good time.
2007-03-14 17:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I don't agree. You had one ceremony and now you are having a formal Catholic wedding...and a wedding dress in totally appropriate, with a maid of honor and a best man....and it can be as simple as you want or as elaborate. Then take some wedding pictures....and think about the pictures your parents are in with you...you may want them to dress up too. Your family will probably appreciate it more if you go to a little trouble to make it nicer.
2007-03-13 15:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by samantha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a big deal of it as if it was the first time you ever got married. I think a nice white long dress nothing with a slip under should do you justice. Like the wedding dresses you see the brides wear on beaches. Something sleek but comfortable. I hope you understand what I am saying check out david's bridal!!!!
2007-03-14 17:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by DePressed08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since as far as the Catholic Church is concerned you are not married, a white dress and full blown wedding would be appropriate. It you are going to to it you might as well do it up in style.
2007-03-14 08:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As Stephie Stewart of fireyourweddingplanner.com would say, "It is your wedding, act like it!" You can get married in anything you want. I fiance's cousin got married in a bright red dress. A friend from my church got re-married in a cute, short, ivory dress from Macy's. She also had a church wedding even after getting married in a civil ceremony many years before. If you don't feel comfortable in a full blown wedding dress, then go for something you are comfortable in. Even if it is the "little black dress", it is your choice.
2007-03-08 13:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by tigris321 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is your first marriage in The Church so there is no real reason that you cannot wear a wedding dress in the ceremony. I might suggest an off white or ivory instead of the pristien pure white but you could do that too if yu want. Just enjoy it and do it your way, whatever way that might be.
2007-03-07 14:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Most people get married civilly and have the wedding so it's ok if you want to wear a wedding dress. If not you can get a really formal dress. Nordstrom has some really nice dress here:
http://shop.nordstrom.com/c/6003709/0~2376776~2374327~2374331~6001765~6003709?cm_ven=google&cm_cat=apparel&cm_pla=generic-dresses&cm_ite=formal%20dresses
2007-03-07 15:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If this is your first marriage, I see nothing wrong with wearing a wedding dress. I am not sure I would do a big fancy one, maybe something elegant and simple. Or maybe if your mother still has her wedding dress and it would fit you, wear that. My husband and I eloped, but I would love to renew our vows and wear my mothers dress!
2007-03-14 10:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by hopetohelpyou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically, you and your husband are not married. A civil union does not count because, while it is recognized as binding according to political law, it is not a union consecrated in God's Law.
A couple is "married" only through the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony. A full wedding dress is indeed appropriate - and will be expected - by your guests.
2007-03-09 13:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by Daver 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋