I would be happy with a small wedding, but SHE wants a huge one with all her church friends, thats why shes flipping most of the bill. She has already shot down my dress, flower &color choices. The big problem is she wants NO alcohol. Our package at the hotel INCLUDES a cocktail hour, a glass of wine at dinner, and a champange toast. Also the beverage minimum is $4k. She forbids any of it! Even the toast! She wants to toast with apple cider, and serve fruit punch and water ONLY, not even soda. We are going to lose about $7k by forfitting the alcohol, the hotel won't change their minimums just because we choose not to have it. She is a big part of her church, and says that we arent "allowed" to have alcohol, but the reception isnt at the church, its at a hotel! Also, my family are drinkers and want to have a good time, they are really upset about this. She doesnt even aknowlege that I have a family, its all about her. I cant speak up cause she is paying for so much! What to do?
2006-11-17
05:59:36
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