My fiance and I had a great sex life till we moved!!!I dont know if its the stress from the wedding planning or the new place? Whenever we start having sex...either i go completely dry or he stops performing....its really weird...I dont know what to do??What happened to out great sex life?????????Please tell me what i can do to make it better?? or doesn anyone getting married have the same problem??
2006-11-17 05:16:48 · 10 answers · asked by Babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
okay i agree with fizz, i have an almost simalar story..my boyfriend and i moved in together and it just stopped, i think it had to do with seeing eachother so much more frequentlly. so we decided to get to eachother in other ways, we did whatever we could to turn each other on and then walked away about a week went by and finally neither of us could take it anymore and it was the best ever!!!! Just try everything you can to look your hottest and sexiest and do things you know pushes his hormone buttons and then tease him alittle in the end its all worth it!!
2006-11-17 05:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by tinkrenee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only problem you all have is the stress- you have let it get the best of you. Planning a wedding is stressful enough but to add moving is a whole other thing. Try taking a break from it all. Quit unpacking (if you havent already), put down the wedding planning notebook. Grab your guy and spend a night away. Bring some of the romance that first brought you together back into the relationship. Go to some places that you both truly enjoy and ten check into a hotel. After some drinking and dancing, eating and flirting, you two will be acting like in the beginning. Sometimes we all need a break. But it is temporary, and will get better. Once your wedding is over, and you are completely moved in, things will start to slide back to what you remember.
Dont focus on the act of sex, let it happen naturally. Dont plan it, dont force it, and improvise. If you get dry- grab the KY- if he limps up, find other ways to make him rise to the occasion. Nighties, high heel shoes, make up, pedicure, sexy foods, whatever it takes.
Also, take care of your health- drink tons of water and stretch frequently. You body drying up may also be a sign of lack of fluids in your body as a whole.
2006-11-17 06:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-17 05:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At one point or another I believe that all couples have the same problem, but it's up to you to decide what to do with it. Talk to your fiance about it. Maybe there's things that you can do to spice up your love life. It could be also that he has a lot of things on his mind. You won't know until you both sit down and have a good conversation. When my fiance and I were going through that stage, it had alot to do with stress at his job and jitters. We talked it over and decided to change the atmosphere and try new things.
All I can say is don't let it get to the point were you both are strangers to each other. Be up for changes and trying new things.
Good Luck...
2006-11-17 05:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by inland102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving and having a wedding are two of the most stressful events in life.You have both in such a short period of time.
Many adjustments are taking place right now and is leaving no room for romance.
My advice to you is to go to the local novelty shop, get something pretty to wear, buy a movie and buy a couple's game. Spice things up and get his attention. Do not ask him about the bills, or the boxes or the satellite dish installation, put both of you FIRST .
Good luck
2006-11-17 05:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going through two of life's most stressful events at the same time. Just relax. Focus on loving eachother. And in the midst of planning your wedding, remember that planning and working on your marriage is more important.
2006-11-17 05:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disallow your selves from sex for 2 or 3 weeks. You can do everything else, but no sex.
Combine this with watching erotic movies.
You will both be almost dieing for the deadline to come to end
2006-11-17 05:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by fizz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's stress...That's normal... Your bodies just seem intense.... If I was ya'll, i would go to the spa and try realxing.... Remember sex mean pleasure.. Weddings and Movings sometimes mean stress.. Pleasure and Stress doesn't mix and can lead to pain.. trust me..
2006-11-17 05:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITs the stress of getting married. You two probably dont' want to get married to each other.
2006-11-17 05:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
he likes men, you are a lesbian sorry to say
2006-11-17 05:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋