Help me settle an argument I have been having at work - to buy engagement presents or not to buy engagement presents, whats the etiquette? My husband and I didn't have a proper engagement party, we just went out to dinner with friends, a real impromptu sort of thing. I think that buying engagement presents, kitchen tea etc etc is really materialistic, especially when the people will get wedding presents as well. I think its asking a bit much of your guests to keep getting you things. I'm probably going to put some noses out of joint with this question but does anyone else think that its really materialistic? If you are getting married for the sake of love it isnt about the presents! Some weddings these days seem to be more about money than anything else.
2006-11-30
13:19:56
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Arianrod
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