it is in india -middle class families -
why we spend on outsiders -
2006-11-30 12:49:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
your choice, if you want to invite, you invite. if you dont want, make it only a close family affair. noone is stopping you. ppl generally get carried away with the the whole wedding thing coz this is an occasion of a lifetime(hopefully) and a reason for celebration with near and dear ones. no harm in treating the ppl you know once in a while. close relatives want it to be a day to remember. father wants it to be a gesture of their love for his parting daughter. the girl wants it to be a day to dress up to her best and display her beauty. the mother, her jewellery. the boy, his happiness. rituals are recited to reaffirm the power of the institution called 'marriage'. some ppl in india take it too far as an opportunity to show off their bank balance and the power of money.
2006-11-30 14:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by GAWD 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one invites outsiders in their wedding. Even in India. There people who are invited are either family friends or close friends. If you have a good relationship going on for years than during the wedding they are invited. And no body has their first night in public view.
And why blame only the middle class families in this even the upper class people do show off by spending lot of money on weddings. Its basically a show off and you can't help it.
2006-11-30 18:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wedding is a ceremony in which we celebrate our love and our vows with our family and friends because they are special enough to us to share this special occasion with. Husband and wife spend the first night (and every night, at that) alone because sex isn't something that you would normally want to share with your family and friends. This is a really strange question. Do people from India spend the first night watching the newlyweds have sex?!
2006-11-30 12:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
reliable grief thats an extreme view. you may desire to take a chill pill. Marriage immediately isnt what's replace into in biblical instances, the place a guy replace into required to marry his brothers widow. Slaves have been concubines, adult adult males observed women as sources. adult adult males had 2d different halves to produce infants or a slave to produce toddlers, mutually as nonetheless married to the 1st one. Pre marital intercourse is rampant, yet many instances your fornication is surely love between 2 people. issues take place, plus what are you going to do, take daily semen swatches from each lady in the international???
2016-12-29 17:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the U.S. a wedding can be for family and close friends--not outsiders. The vows need witnesses and friends to help you keep them. the first night is the private part.
2006-11-30 12:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by mistrhistre 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just imagine doing exactly reverse? Human beings are educated, cultured and hence some rules should be followed. Else what is the difference between street dogs and us? Behave like humans, not like.........
2006-12-01 00:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend - this is a world wide problem!!
My future wifes parents wanted to invite 30 people who we`d never even met!! What?
I am Australian, it happens everywhere.
2006-12-01 23:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by Richo Fev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because we want to show off
2006-12-01 03:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by Heera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would u mind rephrasing your question i have no idea what r u talkin about.
2006-11-30 14:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by Mr.cool guy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure what you're asking.
2006-11-30 12:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by iluvmynotebook 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋