My husband and I are expecting our first child, a girl, on Christmas Eve and so he is working lots and lots of hours to help pay for her. How do we find time to reconnect as a married couple and what are some good ideas?
2006-11-16 23:43:01 · 9 answers · asked by tinakay_83 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Start to pay attention to the little things that we take for granted. Leave little notes to each other, and set aside time just for the two of you and stick to it. Let each other know that you appreciate each other. Say I love you often,be supportive of each other.
2006-11-17 00:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by mk_goosen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a "spa night" at home. Run a bath, light candles, and play relaxing music (classical guitar or instrumentals). Turn off the phone and the TV. You might need to "lure" or "trick" him into the bath. Take turns scrubbing each other's backs. Then take it to the bedroom and just lay on the bed, listening to the music and enjoying the candles, and what happens next, well...
My wife did this for me and it was better than any spa.
2006-11-17 01:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Spellympics 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find time to talk and to laugh. Maybe take a getaway weekend to a nearby bed and breakfast -they are quaint, quiet and romantic. Or just cook together and enjoy each other's company whenever you can. Best wishes...
2006-11-17 00:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You definitely have to find the time to talk. If he is in the shower, be in the room too and talk to him. When you get into bed, take the time to talk and touch each other. It doesn't have to be sexual. Even if you are just sitting watching TV, touch each other.
2006-11-16 23:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take him out on a date and check in a cheap hotel for the night and fill in the blank.
2006-11-17 00:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait till he get bk from work... n have dinner with him.. Or u can heat up the food by the time he has his shower... Try ur best to welcome him bk after work... talk to him during dinner...
2006-11-17 01:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a cozy, intimate dinner at home.
2006-11-17 00:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to take just one day off because you need him & because you love him.
2006-11-16 23:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get divorced
2006-11-17 00:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by hotman_nc_32 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋