2006-11-16 23:22:09 · 36 answers · asked by Anil P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
true love
2006-11-16 23:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well,
Bliss of marriage is the most wonderful thing in the world. But to enjoy it for ever and become the best friends and associates of each other requires some conscious efforts from both husband and wife. Here, the guidelines are for the husbands. If they are ready to play their part well their marriage life can be transformed into an ideal one. In Lao Tzu’s words being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
1. Follow the policy – a wife is always right. Wise people say that you can't win an argument with a lady. In case you fall into some argument with her realise your mistake, and surrender fast by keeping your hands up for a moment.
2. It is very necessary to understand the desires of your wife so that she is able to put more enthusiastic efforts in the success of marriage. Every wife wants to live life according to her own style. Understand what that is and help her to live life in that way.
3. Every wife loves a strong and wealthy husband. So try your best to become such a husband. If you are poor and weak you will generally be kicked.
4. Love your wife. Make girl friends, but be in limit. Never be a lusty animal. Such persons can't enjoy a happy marriage life.
5. Even if she is having several deficiencies she is the person who is best fit to become your fast friend. Share every thought with her, often have friendly gossips.
6. Don't force your love on her like a gun-trotting goon. Give her beautiful flowers and nice gifts time to time.
7. Now and then embrace her warmly. Never care even if she is angry or upset. A warm embrace from a husband always soothes and relaxes a wife.
8. Wives have a lot of things to say and most of the husbands gets impatient, and ignore her. It is immensely negative behaviour. Listen to her by giving her time almost daily, or a few days a month if you are busy.
9. Beware of criticising her. Criticism of a wife always brings negative results. Improve her or get your work done with praise and affection.
10. Do everything you can to help her develop her personality. She may need your help to look more beautiful, to dress up nicely, to boost confidence, to shine talent etc. Be there always at her side.
11. It is a sin darling if you forget her birthday or marriage anniversary date. Women love these dates, especially marriage anniversary date. So plan some fun.
12. Avoid emotional entanglement with your girl friends or any other person. It may sap up your energy as well as destroy your marriage bliss.
13. Praise her before others. It is a wonderful technique to boost her morale. And she will pay you back with more love, and inspiration.
2006-11-16 23:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by sriram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bliss of marriage is the most wonderful thing in the world. But to enjoy it for ever and become the best friends and associates of each other requires some conscious efforts from both husband and wife. Here, the guidelines are for the husbands. If they are ready to play their part well their marriage life can be transformed into an ideal one. In Lao Tzu’s words being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
1. Follow the policy – a wife is always right. Wise people say that you can't win an argument with a lady. In case you fall into some argument with her realise your mistake, and surrender fast by keeping your hands up for a moment.
2. It is very necessary to understand the desires of your wife so that she is able to put more enthusiastic efforts in the success of marriage. Every wife wants to live life according to her own style. Understand what that is and help her to live life in that way.
3. Every wife loves a strong and wealthy husband. So try your best to become such a husband. If you are poor and weak you will generally be kicked.
4. Love your wife. Make girl friends, but be in limit. Never be a lusty animal. Such persons can't enjoy a happy marriage life.
5. Even if she is having several deficiencies she is the person who is best fit to become your fast friend. Share every thought with her, often have friendly gossips.
6. Don't force your love on her like a gun-trotting goon. Give her beautiful flowers and nice gifts time to time.
7. Now and then embrace her warmly. Never care even if she is angry or upset. A warm embrace from a husband always soothes and relaxes a wife.
8. Wives have a lot of things to say and most of the husbands gets impatient, and ignore her. It is immensely negative behaviour. Listen to her by giving her time almost daily, or a few days a month if you are busy.
9. Beware of criticising her. Criticism of a wife always brings negative results. Improve her or get your work done with praise and affection.
10. Do everything you can to help her develop her personality. She may need your help to look more beautiful, to dress up nicely, to boost confidence, to shine talent etc. Be there always at her side.
11. It is a sin darling if you forget her birthday or marriage anniversary date. Women love these dates, especially marriage anniversary date. So plan some fun.
12. Avoid emotional entanglement with your girl friends or any other person. It may sap up your energy as well as destroy your marriage bliss.
13. Praise her before others. It is a wonderful technique to boost her morale. And she will pay you back with more love, and inspiration.
2006-11-16 23:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by Life's Good!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI anil if u want to become a good husband than never tell a lie to your wife. Appreciate every moment of life together weither it is good or bad.Becoz in the relation ship truthness is most important thing.After that u will see that u become a good husband.
2006-11-17 18:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by SAPNA D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rule no1 never cheat on her
care and love your wife,
understand her needs - emotionally, and physically,
be there for her when she needs you,
take her opinion into consideration,
dont treat her as your cook and cleaner, she is much more than that,
respect and adore her,
appreciate her efforts - be it dressing up, cooking or whatever she does, it may not be exactly what you like - but shes trying.
be a good listener
share your ups and downs with her
know what she likes and doesnt like
remember wife is called 'ardh angini' which means half of you - so treat her like you would like to be treated.
also remember if you want a 'Seeta', you have to try to be 'Raam'
good luck and i wish you all the best
2006-11-17 00:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by GorGeous_Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shud not be selfish. If u really want to become a good husband, u need to sacrifice all your fav things and start doing what your wife wants to be. examples, never touch remote, watch all serials/movies/comedy shows/game shows of her choice. Let her satisfy first in bed then u go on, help her in kitchen, help her to select the dresses, call her after reaching office and before leaving office, and many more.
2006-11-17 01:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by udayy2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women love attention and as long as you give your wife love and attention that is all she needs. Not material things, just put her first before anything in your life and she will be happy! When women start to feel like their husbands don't pay attention to them anymore-that is when they cheat! Make her feel like she is the most sexy person for now and the rest of your life together.
2006-11-17 00:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by ataman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be a good husband or a good wife. Only one requirement:
Care about the feelings of the other. That's love.
Women hate husbands who tell lies.
2006-11-17 00:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all love ur wife frm the bottom of ur heart.if u hav kids then take care of them and plz try to lesson down the stress of responsibility frm her shoulders.try to make ur wife realise tht today also u r the same man who used to love her frm the very day they met each other. be her best frnd dont let it know to the public tht u 2 r married.plz be youthful .. dont ever let ur wife feel lonely. indian women feel very bad when they leave thr house and come to a new house. make her bel tht u love her only. listen to her recall ur lovely days together. stay healthyand yes this valentine day give her something which is really special.let each day be a day of beginnig
2006-11-16 23:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by romantic anu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're a good person to begin with that shouldn't be much of a problem. But then who is really good?...So then be as honest as you can with your wife. Say what you mean, and mean what you say. She may not like it but at least she knows where she stands and where you're coming from. In a relationship lying is the killing poison.
2006-11-16 23:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for ways to make her happy on a daily basis - even if she doesn't return the favor right away. When you start concentrating on her happiness, you will become a good husband.
2006-11-17 03:27:05 · answer #11 · answered by Chrys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋