I'm planning on proposing to a girl and since I'm a pretty traditional guy and she's a pretty traditional girl, I want to ask her dad/parents for their blessing before we get married. The problem is, he lives 4 hours away and I'm not sure how I'm going to get away from her, sneak up there to talk with him, and get back without her knowing what I just did. The other problem is that without calling and talking with them ahead of time, I can't really be certain they'll be home when I can get away and don't want to drive up there to visit an empty house. I suppose I could call him ahead of time and say that I'm coming up to visit but since her sister just got married, I'm pretty sure he would know what to expect once I got there... All of this being said, is it ok to just call her dad and talk with him about this or is it still the best to do it in person?
2006-10-29
02:55:49
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BJ
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