And not tell my fiance what I'm wearing for our wedding day, I'm no good at keeping secrets!
2006-10-29 06:51:39 · 45 answers · asked by emily_jane2379 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
hello. I think many, many people share your urge to tell secrets.
I gave my wife her anniversary present 6 months early cuz I just bought and couldn't wait. I'm like a kid a christmas.
I think maybe you have so much joy you're gonna bust if you don't share it.
but there is hope. just for today, think how his jaw will drop when he sees beautiful you. I guess he'll wonder? what the heck did this goddess see in me. I better say I do before she figures it out.
so, you don't have to carry that burden till you get married.
you just have to carry it today.
then the next day you only have to carry it that one day.
you can do it.
wish I could see the dress.
frankiechocolate@yahoo.com
2006-10-29 06:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by frankiechocolate 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem i tell my fiance everything.....I keep telling my self that his reaction at the wedding will far surpass any temptation to tell him what im wearing. Then I call one of my friends or my mom and talk about the wedding. i hope that helps
2006-10-29 15:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by KT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just close it. Keep it closed. Then when the day comes and your fiance sees how wonderful you are you will pleased with yourself and glad you did. It's hard but think of the joy he will get from how beautiful you are. Good Luck!! Have a lovely day!
2006-10-29 09:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would makeup a lie and tell him something that you wont wear on your wedding day and your fiance will be shocked to see that you told him a lie and you'll live happily ever after.
2006-10-29 07:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell other people you love and trust. Tell your mom, sister, aunt, best friend, girlfriends, cousins. That should hopefully get it out of your system, so you've told as many people as you can, without telling him. He most likely won't find out, and even if you did tell him, seeing you in your wedding outfit will make him breathless and he'll just stare at you in beautiful wonder anyway, as you walk down the aisle.
2006-10-29 06:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by SunShineShoes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to come to your senses and realize that one who cannot keep a secret will ruin all surprises. Don't you want your wedding day to be special? Keep thinking to yourself about how surprising and special it will be when he sees the dress on you... if you keep your mouth shut.
2006-10-29 06:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell someone who won't telll your finance. It's always nice to talk to someone about something only you know. Think of it like a game. How long ca you keep a secret?
2006-10-29 06:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found it really hard too, because your meant to be able to talk to ur partner about everything, yet u cant share ur dress until the day... catch 22 situation. lol
The only way i found that helped was to tease him with the prospect of ur dress... say things like "ur gonna love it" it does get easier as the time passes, and believe me, when he see's u in it he will love it no matter what...
2006-10-29 07:05:19 · answer #8 · answered by storm.minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whjen you want to tell him think off something you can tell him/. Try telling him that you still need to get it or say something radom then he will think what on earth are you on about but then you can start a new topic and forget about the dress
2006-10-29 07:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not tell him and there will be no secrets between you both - a wonderful way to start married life eh?
2006-10-29 06:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by Longjohn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋