Singles & Dating - 25 November 2007

Me and this guy started seeing each other and we both really liked each other. Then he decided he wanted to slow things down b/c we were moving so fast. He wanted to get to know each other better. Which was fine with me. He would still talk to me on i.m. every couple of days or so, but not at all as much as before. And he knew I wanted to see him sometime in the next couple of days. (We haven't seen each other in two weeks). but I haven't heard from him in a couple of days. so i sent him a message just asking him to be straight up with me. either he wants to get to know each other or he doesn't. he told me that he's been too busy and i expect too much of him. which i don't see how he thinks that if we haven't seen each other in two weeks and i almost always wait for him to make contact first. so i give him the opportunity to just be straight up with me and he says he's just busy. what do you think?

2007-11-25 18:04:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-25 17:54:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay heres the deal. He claims he cares a lot about me but he wouldn't care if I slept with other people!!?? We are everything a relationship could be but the label ... He told me it would bother him a little bit but he wants me to be happy. I asked him even if I slept with your best friends..and get this..he said me and him went to Iraq together so no it wouldn't... wtfffff????? can anyone fill me in?? by the way he's 30.


On the other hand...some of his friends are my friends and when I go out he always has one of them go with me to make sure no one messes with me..and he calls them to find out what all I did..and he almost beat up his friend he went to Iraq with because instead of looking out for me..he hit on me all night..

Me and his sis are bestfriends...he has no clue I know what he does and says to people..

So why does he act like he don't care to me..but does to them??

2007-11-25 17:51:09 · 10 answers · asked by AMANDA 1

My boyfriend and I currently have a long distance relationship and it seems like it's going to stay that way for at least nine or ten more months. Minimum. He asked me though if he could have sex with other women, assuring me that he still loves *me.* Also, he said he's fine with me having sex with other men, so long as I tell him about it. I see where he's coming from, due to the distance and all, but I don't know... We haven't been together for a terribly long time, and he is a male in his prime, but still... What should I say to him? Who should I think about--me, him, or us?

2007-11-25 17:50:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want to sound arrogant but as of lately it seems more men are being attracted to me. I, however, don't wish to have their attention.
I haven't changed anything. My additude, Style of clothes, personality, and looks have all stayed the same.
I want to stay friends with these people of course. So whats a good way to let them know thats all I want to be without hurting their feelings or pride?

2007-11-25 17:50:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Heres the low down.
*were 3 hrs apart*
*were not in a relationship*
*some would call us "buddies" but we don't look at it like that*
*we don't have sex with other people*(or so he says hes not,I know I am not).

I give him a lot of hell about if he wants someone else then tell me and I will let him go and blah blah blah...for the past yr or more I have been waiting for him to make up his mind..one moment he is so crazy about me the next mintue he has no time for me(says its cause of college/work ect.). I been letting it slide ..heres my question..would it be wrong if I just said the heck with him and slept with someone..to maybe A.get over him and B. someone/something different...

I am not a whore..I have been with him for the past 5 yrs only.(even though we were never in an official relationship..i was faithful.).he has had probably 7other girls..except since March its just been me.. would he think I was a slut?? Or more would others??

2007-11-25 17:41:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

How come every time I sign on to Yahoo! Chat I get bombarded by Asian women? They're mostly Filipina, but sometimes Vietnamese, Thai, Indian and even Palestinian try to chat me up. They ususlly want to chat cam2cam or exchange pics. Just what are they up to? Are they just practicing their English? Are they looking for a husband? Or are they trying to get me to send money or planning to misuse my personal information?

I've found that they tend to chat regularly with me for a few days and then they seem to stop signing on. Anyone know what they're up to?

2007-11-25 17:38:40 · 10 answers · asked by alex_from_sf 4

i really though i was ready though i am young but after i did it i feel weird... like i am no longer innocent. i was safe and everything but hwo do i get over it?

2007-11-25 17:33:33 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ 1

Ok... i've been with this girl for about 2 years and i have been racking my brains with this for so long. She means EVERYTHING to me, i would give my life for her. My question is, how can i tell her that i love her and show her how much i do without a simple "i love you"? I mean don't get me wrong, i still value those words a lot i just feel that what i feel for her can be described by something deeper than that, i'm just not sure what 'that' is. Do you guys get me? Thanks, and please serious answers.

2007-11-25 17:31:42 · 18 answers · asked by Lexus-Nut 3

Because my time is limited, I thought I would try online dating. I did meet a few nice men and had dates. Nothing really serious though. What really puzzles me is that 95 % of the guys that get in touch with me tell me they live in the states but do business in Africa. So far I have only met 2 guys that were born in the US. Usually they tell me they deal in electronics. And have a son/daughter but are widowed or divorced. Can someone please tell me why anybody has to go to Africa to get a job? What's going on? As soon as someone tells me they are in Nigeria or Africa doing work, I drop them. I'm sick of it. What gives? Are these ALL scams? This is getting ridiculous to the point where I want to stop online dating. I'm tired of it. The guys either want money, looking to get a green card, looking for a hooker-which I AM NOT!! Or just want to have fun but no meaningful relationship behind it. So can someone enlighten me? Are these all illegals trying to get into the country? Puzzled in ME

2007-11-25 17:28:03 · 18 answers · asked by Robin H 1

So what are things I should do and things I shouldnt do?
Should I breath in before or exhale?
Plus what if you both wear glasses? Any tips to make it special?

2007-11-25 17:25:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-25 17:20:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay theres this kid I like at my lunch period, he sits across from me and some idiot blabed i like him, and i do, Anyways, He talks to me alot and get concerned when i get bade grades, and he lets my wear his glasses, we have full conco's togather ingoring everyone else, Is there i way i can get him to ask me out,? or does he not like me

2007-11-25 17:19:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have wanted nothing but non-committed, casual sexual relationships with various women ever since divorcing my wife. I am upfront and honest with the girls I intend to sleep with about my feelings toward them and our "business" Would you consider that "man-whoring" or me being a straight up, honest kind of guy?

2007-11-25 17:19:09 · 45 answers · asked by john b 2

all these people have been asking this same question...so i thought it would be fun to join in!!!

Sooo what do you think of me?? and how old do you think i am?? andddd do u think i am pretty, cute, UGLY or average

http://s220.photobucket.com/albums/dd256...

http://s220.photobucket.com/albums/dd256...

*btw i am the chick in the blue top..and i am with these disabled kids who are cool as.

2007-11-25 17:18:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately i've watched porn with two guys and one girl.. I am an insecure person when it comes to my g/f but sometimes I wish she'd want to do that becuase i just think it's a huge turn on.. What should I do to try and convince her to want to her see if she really does fantisize about that and is just lieing to make me feel good..?

2007-11-25 17:15:14 · 22 answers · asked by Jeeze 1

a girl has a long distance relationship with a guy. during that time cheats on him with at least 13 guys in 1 yr. they break up because she cant be fuked having a long distance relationship. Anyway 6 months later he comes to visit cause theyre still friends and she has sex with him. even though theyre not dating or have any plans to do so in the future. is she a hoe?

2007-11-25 17:10:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My good friend used to go out with this girl who I just asked out and am going out with right now, and he told me that she gave him a handjob and he fingered her and lots of other stuff, and I feel so betrayed by it that I am thinking about breaking up with her. My friend apologized a million times to me and I still like him as a great person and friend (for telling me and being honest) and told him that but he pleaded to me that I not break up with her. I dunno if I am just feeling betrayed by her actions alone or the fact that she never told me straight up. I am rly considering and want to break up with her for it (even though I loved being with her soooo much) and my friend is telling me that I can only value something once I have lost it and not to throw it away. I just feel so betrayed and put off by it, so I am just majorly depressed by it. What do you suggest I do? Pls all suggestions help thx

2007-11-25 17:05:55 · 12 answers · asked by Seth 2

cave the capability to step on his friends that helped him out during bad times, for self benefit. or even do something very bad to his own family for his own benefit, like stealing a lot of money from his own family. what kind of person could do this

2007-11-25 16:59:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've loved my friend for two years, and I'm pretty sure he dosen't feel the same way. Everytime I'm starting to get over him, he pops out of nowhere and its back. How can I get over him?

2007-11-25 16:57:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner and i broke up last thursday. We had been together for just over 4 years. My partner had been under alot of stress with work, studies and organiseing and buying xmas presents for her family. We where supposed to be attending my cousins wedding this weekend which my partner wasn't to inthusiastic about. My cousins fiance and i have always got on well and my partner has often been jelouse of this.
We broke up cos she said she doesn't know if she still loves me like she used too!
We parted on good terms and i havn't been in contact since we broke up cos everyone has told me to give her space and let her work her thoughts out.
I want her back as i love her with all my heart and beleive we are ment to be together.
Firstly have i done the right things so far? and
how much time may she need?

2007-11-25 16:56:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know they just need to get sexually fulfilled but shouldn't they worry about who and what the guy was doing before he came over to see her? Who knows what he has done or what he may or may not have. That's the only reason I kind of see it as slutty. What do you think?

2007-11-25 16:56:44 · 4 answers · asked by Mike 1

About two years ago, I'd a quarrel with a girl and in my stupidity, I tore her pic infront of her mates.
Gradually my heart fell for her, n she came to know about my feelings too. Her best friend told me that if I'd not behaved in that way, she would have accepted my proposal. Well recently I called her and she talked to me in a nice way. But she is very reseved type,She doesn't talk much.few days ago i sms her in her sis mobile n as her sis was not at home she couldn't reply n as such i thougt that she was not intersted in me and send her another sms giving her a final gud bye but 2 my surprise i got a reply where she told that she couldn't reply coz the cell was not hers and asked if i was angry. i also came2knw dat She talks about me wid her best frd n told that she was hurt when i told that i will not sms her in future.3days ago i sms asking sorry 4 all incidents n she smsed me saying alls forgiven but she didnt rep 2 my yesterdays sms.does she loves me too?she knows i love her

2007-11-25 16:43:35 · 12 answers · asked by yahoo 1

Let's say you go to school together so you see each other all the time.
When you see each other, you talk for a long time, like even up to an hour. Both people seem to mutually enjoy talking. Lets even say you have each other's number, but neither person calls the other. You smile (on the inside and the outside) when you see them and they do you the same way. They can't pass you without making a comment and vice versa. They make general comments about watching a movie or grabbing a bite to eat, but as I said, neither person calls the other or ever acts on getting together.

What does all of this mean?

2007-11-25 16:42:03 · 10 answers · asked by curlygirl 2

the only women that I am really attracted to are middle aged. I flirt and hit on these women all the time, with some success, but am I wrong for it?

2007-11-25 16:42:03 · 26 answers · asked by b.kgrove 1

Just curious, how soon after you started dating before you said, "I love you"?

And, when you said it, in retrospect was in congruent with how you really felt?

And, please give your age.

2007-11-25 16:34:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-25 16:32:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I never found it or will find it.Each guy just wants ...... (you know what I mean )

2007-11-25 16:28:11 · 5 answers · asked by what ever ? 2

2007-11-25 16:24:52 · 62 answers · asked by jflsdkjflsad 2

I know we all say that the personality is what really counts, and whenever someone asks a question on here about getting a date, or how they look, half the people always answer with "they go by whats on the inside". But, it just doesn't seem like that is what we really do in real life.

How much do looks mean to you? Would you date someone that you do not consider attractive (even though they are really a great person)

Also, WHAT is it (physically) that makes a person ugly?

2007-11-25 16:23:58 · 18 answers · asked by curlygirl 2