Singles & Dating - 25 November 2007

we dated for 5 months befeore I begun to suspect he was married. he has been denying it and insisting that him and I will get married in January. but some times when I call him he wont pick up the phone. later he will call and pretend all is well. I got fade up despite the love and I have warned him so many times before. Then he did it again on friday and saturday. so I sent him text to say I am fade up and I believe he is either married, seeing someone else or both a and b. no response to date. I am going to his city this week and he knows that, how am I supposed to behave if he gets in touch with me? There are things I am still not sure of and if there was a chance of us staying together, I would gladly do so because I love him. I don't know what to do but I know I am also ready to move on instead of being lied to. But If I am wrong I would try again. Anybody please help me.

2007-11-25 20:12:18 · 8 answers · asked by justme 1

I've been in a serious relationship for 6months now. However, i've not told him about a bank loan that i have and it's eating me up when i put in mind that he has revealed his skeletons to me and i cannot do the same.The reason is because I want to pay it up on my own as it is my debt and don't want him to feel like he needs to help me out. It may take me 2yrs to pay and as we are considering settling down together before then, when would be the right time to tell him ?

2007-11-25 20:09:27 · 6 answers · asked by shi b 1

2007-11-25 20:00:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

well tomorrow there is an event i want to go to in a club in london, my aqauntant friends are going but im not sure if when i get thier they wil accept me in thier group to dance...
im not tha confidant and dancing is not a very fun thing for me (due to my confidance!!) but i really want to try and let it go for this night...
however i may get to the club to find they are not thier!
so i will be by myself...what do i do in times like this, its also a large club so mayb slighlty hard to find them, help please!
should i go, or should i stay at home like usual ):

2007-11-25 20:00:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is really happened to me.Im in love with a girl she loves me alot.Unfortunately she got married(arranged) to another guy.She still loves me.Im very depressed by this.Our past n sweet memories are dwelling in my mind.Im unable to bare this pain.But when i ask her about pain,she says not having like me,she is normal.Im weeping like anything,im unable to control my emotions. Then wat is the difference between she n me.How to change my mind from her how to control my thoughts.But if our past comes into my mind i cant stop crying.Is im wrong by loving her too muchhh. Need serious answers plzzzz......

2007-11-25 19:54:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am recently single and do not enjoy my life home alone !

2007-11-25 19:52:03 · 9 answers · asked by tenderdeb627 1

This question just came up in a converstation with friends and is it ever okay? Does this still apply to your ex's best friend?

2007-11-25 19:50:56 · 9 answers · asked by Alice N 1

I have a very very good friend, who I've known for years, she's generally a very nice chirpy happy girl, and we get on very well.
When we first met, yonks ago, we were like 14- I shot straight out and asked, if she would go out with me- just out of curiosity, and of course 14 y/o boys say some right stupid things, either way, she went all shy- i felt well nasty- and she didn't say yes, but she told me she wouldn't say no...since then we've gone to films and things together, I buy her a valentine every year, and I'm always her driver if we're going anywhere, but we've never considered it a relationship, and I've always thought she could do much better. She's had boyfriends(one of whom she says she still likes) and i've had girlfriends, but I have always had this niggling crush I can't get rid of, what would you do?
Do I ask her again and see if she still feels about the same?
Or do I keep my crush a secret? 8D
What du think could happen either way?

2007-11-25 19:42:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes when I go over to a hot girls house to have some fun, her parents give me weird looks and asks me questions. Her dad would ask me why I like her and I don't know what to say. I wanna say "cuz she's hot", but I can't. What should I say to get along with the girl's parents? They're too overly protective of her! this girl is really good looking

2007-11-25 19:40:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm only 153 cm and 17.5 years old. Everyone around me are taller than me. my confidence is slowly withering away because all my friends are 160+cm and i'm scared that i wnt ever get a boyfriend, let alone get married. I dont want to go out with my mates anymore because one of them said that they only hang out with me because i make them look tall and good. it sucks and i want to grow taller so bad, but i've past puberty and theres probably no more chances left of that, cheers.

2007-11-25 19:25:20 · 10 answers · asked by little.clown 2

Im in love with someone who steals from me and never calls.

I feel second best, and he flirts with other girls.

Somehow I just cant stop being in love with him.

I guess the sexual chemistry is just too much~

~I cant wait to screw him.

2007-11-25 19:13:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last week, I went out with the guy that I like, he knows that to cuz my best friend told his friends when she was drunk! Now we could talk for the first time and I really liked it. He asked for my phone number and the next day he send a message, but since then he didn't reply at my message!
Why does it take so long?
I'm really desperate, my best friend who knows him says he's really picky!

2007-11-25 19:11:43 · 7 answers · asked by Saar 1

i asked this boy out and he said yes so we have gone out for 3 months he has not ever huged me so my m8 asked him to hug me and wont listen to me then today i asked my m8 to ask him to hug me and he huffed and put one arm around me he didn't even bother talking and saying bye and all my m8s boy friends gave them presants on there 2 week of going out i have not even got one


WAT SHOULD I DO???

2007-11-25 19:09:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-25 19:09:30 · 6 answers · asked by Kat 3

I was the one that told him to pick up the phone because I feel so sorry for a poor black girl

2007-11-25 19:05:02 · 5 answers · asked by blackoil 1

I know it wasnt easy for him to deal with my insecurity. I was being really difficult when he had to leave town for work. we had been together for 1 year, out of nowhere he broke up with me through text. i tried to call him, but he wouldnt answer my call nor my text.

i was about to break up with him, because i felt that he's no longer comfortable being with me, i asked to meet so that i could say it in person, face to face and make it a mutual decision....

but he texted me first, just minutes before our rendezvous. Now, i feel disrespected, dumped and yet i still miss him....

It's only been 1 day, and it hurts so bad. Please say something to me to make me feel better...how to make this pain go away? this is my first heart break...

2007-11-25 19:02:51 · 7 answers · asked by Duddette 2

We met at work. He's the most beautiful thing I've ever seen. He's a model. Right away we connected physically. By that I mean, whenever I was near him he would flirt with me, touch my arm, or grab my waist, etc. One of the first things he did was take my arms and put them around his neck and gave me a chocolate. He's very sweet. However, I know he has a history of flirting with women at work and then losing interest quickly. But we've kept in touch mostly because I wanted to. I'm not sure how he feels. Anyways, he wanted to come over once but I never called him back because I wasn't ready for sex w/him. I knew thats what he wanted. So for the past 2 yrs, no contact. Meanwhile he moved to NYC and I still live in Chicago. Well recently, I decided to call him and he just so happened to be in Chicago for Thanksgiving. He came over. We kissed (for the first time), and soon we were naked, but no sex. He said he wanted to get to know me better first. Should I feel insulted or glad about it?

2007-11-25 18:59:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, why? Describe and explain.

This question is only meant for whites, native citizens of Western nations.

2007-11-25 18:53:57 · 6 answers · asked by Binary Ostracism 1

I feel stupid typing this, but...
There's this guy I know. When I'm with him he's usually really flirty and playful. He playfights with me and leans on me and holds my hand. And he's never like that around other girls (says his bestfriend). But then when I'm talking to him on aim or something he usually says stupid things and blocks me for no reason. And I honestly mean no reason.
He tells his friends I'm 'boring' and 'annoying' but even the ones I've just met tell him he's lying and that they can tell he HELLA likes me.
But it's so stupid, and he's so bipolar.
Is this normal? Am I missing something?

2007-11-25 18:53:10 · 4 answers · asked by adilicious 4

2007-11-25 18:51:24 · 10 answers · asked by 043&counting 1

2007-11-25 18:47:50 · 9 answers · asked by blehblah6 1

o....my best guy friend was head over heels for me for 1 and a half years or something. But i liked this other guy and eventually we started going out. my bff always told me about how he hated the fact that i was with this other guy. he and i always have had this weird bond and were always close. i stuck with my bf. we are still going out. but now, my bff has a girlfriend and they are perfect for each other. it drives me crazy and i dont know why. did i make the wrong choice? can i fix it? i am usually happy with my boyfriend... but sometimes...idk. everyone had always assumed that my BFF and i were gonna start going out...i always thought so too. but something pushed me away. we were always so close. until we both found a boyfriend/girlfriend.

2007-11-25 18:36:56 · 11 answers · asked by lizzy loves life. 2

It is fair for guy to lead girl on knowing he'll never persue further than online conversations because his lack of trust for woman? Calling them backstabbers and such yet still talks to me? I don't find this fair at all and am very angry at him? Yes i am. Especially since he's been married before and trusted "a woman"; and then calling me his true love and can't even get a date and treated poorly and less than might as well say like dirt and i'm suppose to stick around. Help me to get out?

2007-11-25 18:33:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-25 18:29:58 · 21 answers · asked by thatguy 1

How many of you want to roll over and hurl when you see a black male with some fat, unattractive white women?. Why do they continue to degrade themselves like that? I am a black guy to. Why do blacks even remotely consider hooking up with whites? Why? Status symbol?Its not natural at all.

2007-11-25 18:25:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

His friends always like, jostle him and go all 'oooh' when im around him, and he always gets mad and tells him to shut up. He knows I like him, but hes really shy and nerdy and hes like, my best guy friend. We have awesome chemistry, but do you think he likes me, or his friends are just humoring me? >_< He looks me in the eye alot and sometimes blushes and looks down when his friends tease him.

2007-11-25 18:24:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

First off, I'm 17, in my junior year of high school, and I know right now it shouldn't matter yet, but I was just wondering how I can overcome this.
Every once in a while I will start to like a girl a lot, but later on if I find out she is rich, I have trouble asking her out. I am middle class, and not really close to the poorer or richer side. What is it that makes me so hesitant to try asking out these girls and what can I do to fix this problem?

2007-11-25 18:22:00 · 15 answers · asked by +/- 2

2007-11-25 18:18:37 · 22 answers · asked by Bad Boy 1

ok so heres my story. Me and my bf of 5years have been apart for about 1month 1/2 i guess.. we were planning on being engaged and moving into together,, we were really close and had alot of memories behind us. Well, anyways he ended up cheating on me and when i found out he went crazy and freaked out when i left him. He begged and cried and told me i was the only person he could ever love and he was going to wait forever for me to forgive him because he wanted me in his life forever, well ....... when i decided to give him another chance, which was like that next week... he was already seeing someone else. Ever since they have been together, he has been totally over me. Didnt even bother to sat happy thanksgiving after weve spent the last 5 together. Him and his new girl are moving really fast, She already met his parents. whats going on here? how can a man be so cold hearted. I dont want him back i just want to know how a person can be so cruel?

2007-11-25 18:16:17 · 28 answers · asked by brittknee08 1

I bet it would be pretty lame going on a date and not being able to give her a ride home. Ugh, this stinks not having a permit just yet. Curse my mother dearest for not allowing te birds leaving the nest...

2007-11-25 18:10:09 · 13 answers · asked by eddie_spaghetti1357 1