Singles & Dating - 28 November 2007

i dont know if this is normal that this is just a false alarm...

i have a bf (for almost 8 mos. now) and he has 2 sisters.... everytime i tell him to stop that habit of being close to other girls he always tells me "u knw that im closer to girls than guys" but im really thinkin if he's just trying to get me to believe him or just really the fact...

its not that im insecure but its not really normal for me to know such a guy hu is like that...... its kinda giving me an impression that he's such a flirt.....

he's always chatting in YM w/other girls til dawn..... he tells me they are just friends... most of the time he dsnt SMS me anymor... its like he only text me once a day..... i dnt text him lately bcoz im really getting tired being the 1st one to start the conversation...... and he's like that (texting almost once a day)... he asked me y i didnt text him anymor n i told him i was tired blah3.... and he risons me that he was used to me being the one to text 1st.....

argh.

2007-11-28 23:51:36 · 14 answers · asked by essence 2

Ok there is this guy that my bf is already jealous of because we are so close. He's like my brother though, he helps me with stuff when i get offstep in my walk with god and all that. My bf won't admit that he's jealous either. Well the friend is going through a health problem and its worrying me, so i tend 2 tlk about it alot n cry sometimes. I have noticed that he doesn't know what to say. Do you think i shouldn't tlk 2 him about it since he's already jealous of they guy?

2007-11-28 23:19:56 · 9 answers · asked by science geek 2

I do practically everything for my woman. All I ask is she keeps the ice trays full. Is that so much to ask?

2007-11-28 23:12:38 · 17 answers · asked by Just me 2

He's done this in the past and is scared and it is killing me I just dont know how to make him see sense. Up until this happened everything was great its been over 2 years and now he's freaked out and I dont know what to do

2007-11-28 23:09:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-28 22:53:33 · 16 answers · asked by lys a 1

my boyfriend has straight F's in school..
and he ditches alot with his friends and
im trying to help him and im askin
him if he could please stop ditching and TRY to
bring up his grades....and now it seems like
hes mad at me and he just doesnt want to
try..right now hes probly talking smack on me to his friends
but do you think i should just butt out of his buisness?
i really care about him and i just want to see him succeed..i KNOW he can do it..he just doesnt try..
we've been dating for almost a year now,
and i havent scolded him or anything
ive actually been crying about it all of today, and he knows it too..
he just makes excuses to not talk to me while im crying
>.<

2007-11-28 22:37:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-28 22:18:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so we went to this party thing and i had sex with my boss and now i dont know what to do

2007-11-28 22:08:53 · 14 answers · asked by christina r 2

Right, I know this sounds naive, insecure, childish etc., but do men always look at other women and if so, what does it mean.That they fancy them, have no respect for you, fancy the other woman more than you? It's just I was talking to this bloke today and we have kind of started a relationship. Has told me he wants me etc. but these other girls passed and while he was talking to me he looked at them, not lingering look, but he looked all the same. It made me feel like he found them more attractive. Am I overreacting?

2007-11-28 22:05:29 · 16 answers · asked by susieboo 4

ok, the past 2 months of my life have been a NIGHTMARE. one night i went to sleep and my bf of 5 years told me how much he loved me and asked me to spend forever with him and were planning a trip to boston. And the next day i woke up and got "hit by a brick wall". I found out from the other girl that my bf had been cheating on me for 8 months. He knew this girl had hpv and he still continued to cheat on me! when i found out he begged, cried, pleaded. He went completely physco for a few days and when i told him id give him a second chance.(stupid me). he said nevermind and already had another GF!! He even turned his family against me, which we used to be close. I have never done a single bad thing to this guy. What a nightmare. What is this guy doing? Does he know how horrible this is?

2007-11-28 21:50:01 · 19 answers · asked by brittknee08 1

I'm so lost - my recent dating history has been an embarrassing mess of misunderstood messages from men. They'll do and say all the things that make me think they want to get to know me, but it seems the moment I respond they act like they just took a wrong turniing in a bad neighbourhood.

Don't get me wrong - I have plenty of admirers and I'm known for being a hard nut to crack (such an elegant phrase...), but I can't seem to convert any of these admirers into relationships! If men say "You turned me down but my door is always open", or "You're really hard to leave, I had such a great time", or "I feel so good when I'm around you, you engage me fully", that's got to be a positive sign, no?

It seems I can't win - if I ask them directly if they want to get to know me, they act affronted. If I don't, I end up making a fool of myself.

What's going on? They aren't commitmentphobes, in that they've all had long-term relationships. What am I doing wrong? What should I do right?

2007-11-28 21:46:00 · 6 answers · asked by pendinas2004 2

what do these thins mean? thanks

2007-11-28 21:42:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i first met him at 1998
he came and say something funny
i laughed and he goes away
he was always talking to my companion at university
he was always looking at me
i though he likes me and i found out that he humiliated me
his best friend was singing to me
he was always nervous when i was around
their friends teases him about me
he said me that another boy likes me a lot and i go crazy
he said that its not that i m beautiful but i m too sweet
he teases me and make me angry
he has nice blue eyes
he is a bad boy.......
he never ask 4 my phone number
i steal his phone no from the white pages
i called him but i did not say who i was
he rarely talk to me always his friends asking things about me
when he finally talk to me and look into my eyes i melt
i have not saw him for about 2 years
i steel remember him


am i psycho?

2007-11-28 21:32:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 20 year old lady. I love a man who is 22 years older than me. I know what you are thinking: what could you possibly have in common? We have everything in common. I love his personality so much. I just don't want people to think it is so wierd. I finally found my soul mate and want to spend the rest of my life with him.

2007-11-28 21:29:28 · 23 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2

2007-11-28 21:29:25 · 8 answers · asked by ~RS~ 1

I broke up with my ex. We got back together next day. I broke up with him a month later. He visited a month later, and we hooked up. He told me he missed me, I told him it was mistake. Then, I threw aside all practicality aside (we are long distance), and told him I wanted him back. He told me to think about it. I did and I let him know. Well, he didn't want me back. After many days of crying, I have finally accepted that he doesn't want anything from me. Everytime we broke up, he asked me if we could stay friends, but only if that wouldn't be wierd for me. Well, I contacted him today through AIM in an attempt to at least stay friends and have him in my life. He honestly seemed interested in talking until he had to go away. He came back and talked until he had to go away. Told me that he would talk to me later. He came back, but ignored me and when I talked to him, was very distant. I blocked him, thinking he probably hates me I unblocked him to see he signed off. But it was very late

2007-11-28 21:22:41 · 4 answers · asked by laconversacion 1

Now, this may sound a very weird and a funny problem but here is what happened..... It happened a few days back, it was my last week in the school...so I decided to propose the girls I had liked throughout my school life.....I thought that it couldn't have hurt now as I was about to leave the school...so I proposed a girl....and as I had expected I was turned down.....I proposed 10 girls and all rejected me......it didn't hurt because i didn't like them now.... I had proposed so that if any girl had accepted, we could have had a nice relation.....but anyways the real problem started the next day. I reached school and 7 out of those 10 girls said that they were sorry and now they all accepted my proposal. So, now I have seven girlfriends and I don't know what to do. I can't just go and say "Listen, after you rejected me i said I LOVE YOU to someone else!!!!!!"
What should I do....................please help!

2007-11-28 21:22:07 · 6 answers · asked by dudeshere 1

2007-11-28 21:08:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys can anyone explain wht is in man's mind and why are they looking at the woman's lips while talking. Not to everyone only to specific person.

2007-11-28 20:43:37 · 16 answers · asked by Buju 2

Hi,

Im committed to a Guy. He was my school senior. We studied in the same school and Im his favourite teacher's daughter. He had left to US 3 months back. He will be meeting me only in Jan 2009. He is too busy nowadays to spend time to chat with me.. He says that there's no new or interesting stuffs to talk about and hence he spends very less/no time to chat with me.

I value his relationship more than anything...there is more than 2 yrs time to get married. My fear is that I need to share a strong bond with him to an extent that he talks to me whenever he comes online. He has refused to get a mobile in US since he feels he does not prefer to buy one. Hence, the only mode of contact is Chat Messenger.

Can anyone tell me as to how I need to make the chat more bonding and interesting and fresh everyday so that we remain acquainted as we had been before he left for US??

Please help and please guide.

2007-11-28 20:26:56 · 7 answers · asked by sandhy 1

This letter sounds quite typical from this guy (we like eachother, havent had the chance to go out on a date yet) And he wrote me this "Sarah,

Hello--how are you?? I just figured out how to access my e-mail from home...they have codes we have to get to check it from home. Have you decided what you are going to do for your Birthday ? After I finally got home today my Mom told me that you had called. I would call you now but you might be sleeping, so I'll call you tomorrow.
I have 5 days off work !

Goodnight "
It sounds like he is trying to get somewhere in that letter? I dont know if it is just me tho..what do you think! ty :)
only thing that makes me mad is he didn't call me today like he said, he allways does that and I do NOT understand! I mean, he would not willingly tell me he IS going to call me unless he planned on it right?..but he is crazy infatuated with me..

2007-11-28 20:13:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would you prefer?

2007-11-28 20:11:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

well m in a 3 years relationshp with a muslim girl who is far away frm my sight! on 24th of this month she called me for a while and told me that boy i need some time to think more deeply about our relationship as in future we both might have to face many problems...like relegion and parental facts..... well dis is my 5th month entering islam...i mean i have acceptd islam .... my problem is that she's not kalling me and her cell is switched off..she switched off because she wanted her time..thats what she told me.... then why she didnt call me yet...she wnted a 7 days period bt yet... :( i try to self anhilate bt failed...because i always loved her like anything..kindly tell me ... i have no patience nd my emotions are like always high... being a man i cry like anything and morova i stop eating foods .. i dnt knw wt is written in my faith bt can you pray once for my relationship.... i vl die seriously..help me please i beg you all! love you all.... hw will i wait..... alone...like this

2007-11-28 20:10:27 · 30 answers · asked by I๓ρєяเãl ãяc° ™ 2

I recently broke up with my bf of 2.5 years. he was a total jerk and he cheated on me. This is my second long term relationship (I had another of 4 years) and I feel that I have enough experience to know what I am looking for in a future partner now. I have started getting sweet with an old high school friend (I am 21) and he is just the sweetest most tender person ever. I know that he is interested in a relationship with me. Should I get involved with him so soon after a huge break up?

2007-11-28 20:08:44 · 13 answers · asked by patty 1

when a boy flirts with some one else and you get a little jealous but not much and whatever he does with another girl he cant knock you down because you know deep down that everythings going to work out you will be together, and whatever you do, however stupid you say it is, you cant shake that feeling, its like a gut feeling only so much stronger. and the look he gives you when he stares deep into your eyes just confirms it and tells you that he still loves you .........has anyone else felt this way ?

2007-11-28 20:08:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating a girl and she keeps telling me she wants me to fart in front of her. does that seem wierd to you? because it does to me. Why is that?

2007-11-28 20:07:23 · 3 answers · asked by pc 2

I like her very much and she knows, i dont know what is love??she talk to me but its only me to make call, she have boyfriend as she told me some time I jelous, some time i think i am interfering her. i dont want hurt her but some time i feel to be hurt sooner or later though, i am very happy when i talk some time i think i should not talk may be she will ignore me that i cant bear, i am scared of it, today i assume let her be happy..i wished not to call any more then suddenly i look at her photo (that is with me since we met put on god place and talk with both of them) i was so scared and thought i should not look at her photo i was wondering and looking for a place to put it but cant find she is so far the place she is i dont know so i cant return it even i have stolen these photo from where we worked togather....i dont know how to handle her photos i am so scared.....i am not calling her since one week.. i like her very much...pls help

2007-11-28 20:03:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Crush on my RA...?
I know RAs and residents aren't supposed to date. But I have a crush on my RA. And it's hard to know whether he likes me back or if he's just being an RA. Like he comes over to my quad asking if he can borrow our oven (we all have ovens in our quads), he asks if he can watch a football game in our quad (we do have the biggest TV screen but why not just go watch it with the boys?), and when he had to interview someone for a paper he came to our quad. He has 7 different quads where to chose from where there are boys and girls, yet he always comes to ours. I don't know if he is just being an RA, or what. Or like with the TV thing. Am I reading to much into it? Like do guys just don't think about "Oh I should go there just to be around" but maybe for him it was just really about the TV screen? What do you guys think I should do?

2007-11-28 19:35:06 · 6 answers · asked by rockgurl 1

Well.. See I am a freshman in college and I was out with some girlfriends.. While we were out I met this cute boy who was my PERFECT type (look wise) Conversation never got too deep seeing as he was working :-X but I ended up talking to him on and off the next day and he was a true sweetheart... I also found out he is 2 years younger than me and in high school still... I think hes a great guy but i wonder if i should even pursue things because he is younger and we are totally different places in life.. he still has a curfew and is 16.

2007-11-28 19:29:07 · 6 answers · asked by Kelly D 1

do i sound like a forgotten angel??

2007-11-28 19:24:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous