Crush on my RA...?
I know RAs and residents aren't supposed to date. But I have a crush on my RA. And it's hard to know whether he likes me back or if he's just being an RA. Like he comes over to my quad asking if he can borrow our oven (we all have ovens in our quads), he asks if he can watch a football game in our quad (we do have the biggest TV screen but why not just go watch it with the boys?), and when he had to interview someone for a paper he came to our quad. He has 7 different quads where to chose from where there are boys and girls, yet he always comes to ours. I don't know if he is just being an RA, or what. Or like with the TV thing. Am I reading to much into it? Like do guys just don't think about "Oh I should go there just to be around" but maybe for him it was just really about the TV screen? What do you guys think I should do?
2007-11-28 19:35:06 · 6 answers · asked by rockgurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Right now the only thing you know he is offering is friendship. That's a rather nice gift. Accept it and don't expect much more.
If more does happen then make the most of it, but be cautious. RAs are generally students as well. Don't make things awkward while he is your RA. Once you are in a different living situation you can go for the gold if that is your wish.
2007-11-28 19:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RA suck bro, but alote of the girl ones are pretty cute. Our RA was lame
2007-11-29 03:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My gut feeling is that he's over at yous for a reason, watch for the signs and the things he says. Trust me.
He likes the attention.
2007-11-29 03:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i'm officially labeling myself retarted for the moment, lol. What is an RA?
2007-11-29 08:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by armystrong21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him over for a movie and just ask him. Guys generally don't play coy - ask and ye shall recieve.
2007-11-29 03:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by Socks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him alone, and cut out the games. find out what he really wants, and tell him how you feel.
2007-11-29 03:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by The Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋