Just got dumped, for the first time in a long time. Most of the ends of my relationships happen the other way around, but when I have gotten dumped in the past it has always been for the same reason. "too sweet", "too good for me", or my favorite, and the case this time, "too good to be true" I have spent most of my romantic life trying to be the best man I can be: I'm loyal, open, caring, thoughtful, kind, and supportive. Most of the time it ends because I get tired of being taken advantage of, but then there are cases like these.
I've made my choice regarding the man I want to be, and won't become a manipulative *** just to get laid, so don't recommend the "stop being so nice." I just want to know why, and when, it became the norm for women to not want a man like me in their lives...
I'm guessing that she has self-esteem issues so that she can't accept that I could actually be so good to her, or that she doesn't deserve such treatment, but I'm at my wit's end...
2007-11-28
14:21:09
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