She caught me coming home a lil drunk and smacked me...I promised her I wouldn't, but it was a guys night out so I thought she would understand.
2007-11-28 14:02:47 · 60 answers · asked by artiyom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she has a right to be mad but not the right to slap you. It was a bit minor for a slap.
2007-11-28 14:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's ever OK to resort to physical violence. I'm surprised at the number of answers that say it was OK. How many girls who thought it was OK to smack their guy for coming home drunk would think it's OK for their boyfriend to smack them when they came home drunk? It needs to work both ways.
If your girlfriend was upset with you, she should have waited until the next day when you were sober, and discussed it with you. If you kept coming home drunk, and it was a problem, then she should end the relationship. Smacking someone solves nothing.
2007-11-28 14:10:58 · answer #2 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A girl shouldn't hit a guy unless she expects to be hit back. I know, I'm going to get all sorts of hate mail for saying this but it's true. I don't like being hit so I don't hit anyone. Some girls seem to have been raised with a princess attitude and think that they can run around smacking guys. This should stop when she meets her match.
2007-11-28 14:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by c d 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Physical violence going either way is never ever acceptable. You need to tell her that in no uncertain terms. And you have no need to even apologize for being drunk unless you acted like a jerk. Otherwise, you need to think carefully if you want this chick in your life. Sounds like a nutjob in the making.
2007-11-28 14:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by CB 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's never okay for her to hit you. You got drunk but it was your choice to do that. She can't TELL you what to do. She can tell you what she'd LIKE you to do...and she can complain if you choose to do it differently, but you aren't required to obey her, and it's not up to her to 'punish' you.
It is never okay to hit your mate. It's not okay for a man to hit a woman, and it's not okay for a woman to hit a man. There should be no differentiation. If she did something you didn't like and you smacked her...all of these people who are saying you deserved it would be FREAKING on you for hitting her. There is no difference. She shouldn't have hit you, period.
My personal feeling on it is that if she knew you were going on a guy's night out...making you promise not to drink was unrealistic to begin with. Maybe next time...don't promise something so impossible. Tell her you promise that IF you drink, you'll get a safe ride home but that you can't promise more than that. (and if you do drink next time...DO get a safe ride home!)
2007-11-28 14:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Never make a promise you can't commit to. It doesn't matter how big or small it may be, a promise is a promise. If she's forcing you not to drink, then that's a completely different story.
2007-11-28 14:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She really shouldn't of done that... i am a girlfriend and i dont care if he comes home drunk... not totally trashed but a little drunk is ok.
2007-11-28 14:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by ✿Chica✿ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no you didn't deserve to get smacked. If she smacked you for something that small, imagine what she would do if she caught you cheating!
2007-11-28 14:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by Tre 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
She has no right to smack you around ev en if you are at fault Physical violence should not be tolerated by neither sex
2007-11-28 14:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by lala 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you were having fun. It happens, and it's not the biggest thing in the world. She should be happy you had a good time. As long as it's not something you do regularily.
2007-11-28 14:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by flowers4eden 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is violence and you should draw a line in what you tolerate. Unless she thinks it's OK for you to *****-slap her, then what she did was wrong, and you should make that clear.
I'm surprised at the number of girls who think it is OK. To them I say, "Don't come playing victim when someone *****-slaps you!"
2007-11-28 14:11:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋