This guy on my but gets too close and he tries to makeout and hug me. I dont like him that way and I told him to get away from me. Grade 8?
2007-11-28 13:20:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes hes in eight too, and I already tried to shove him off the seat but he tries to put his arm around me and like hold hands. I already yelled RAPE but he still didnt stop.
2007-11-28 23:28:54 · update #1
He does this to other girls too and they dont like it either, and no I dont think boys are vreepy I just dont like this guy.
Thanks!
2007-11-28 23:31:37 · update #2
im in 8th too, and i totally understand...one guy i kno tried to do that too, but i told him to back off. he was probably tryin to see how far you would let him go. thats what happened to me. do your thing-set him straight. tell him you dont like it and that you dont like him like that. he should listen.
2007-11-28 13:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by amanda:] 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, so Eighth Grade...Do you still think boys are creepy...or just this particular fella?
At his age he may not know this is inappropriate behavior to make unsolicited physical advances, even if he's just deliberately bumping up against you.
Tell your teacher in private, and ask them to have a talk with him. (That way it is on the record).
It may just be a case of him being new to his own feelings (hormones) and not knowing himself what to do about it in a dignified manner. I remember guys trying to look down my blouse when I was your age. I did not even know what they were up to, some other girl in my class had to "clue me in"!
Maybe he has heard other boys talking to one another, but did not get full details at home, about how to act around girls at this time in life.
Stick to your guns. Yell at him at the top of your lungs if he continues to do that.
2007-11-28 13:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by Cid Young 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea ur in 8th grade boys that age can b lil jerks
im in 9th iva always been mature never abuse girls like some ppl i know do
anyway tell him2 get the F*** away from u and if he dont listen give him a punch in the face and wen u go2 the principals office say he was sexually harassing u. that way it makes u look like the victum and u got 2 punch a guy u hate in the face!!
AMAZING IDEA RITE?!?!?
2007-11-28 13:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Fballa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is harrassing - YES in the eighth grade! Is he also in eigth grade?
That should not be happening, Don't be alone with the Guy,
Don't be afraid to ask or tell a teacher about it. you must stop his behavior . he will only get worse with no Guidance,
help him by telling someone .
Any advances toward you at your age is harrassment. and punishable-
2007-11-28 13:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by t m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question directly...YES..Now, do you have any older brothers or male cousins? You know what to do. Some guys only understand the hard way. Good luck.
2007-11-29 02:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Irish 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him to back off and he keeps it up, yeah that's harrassment. if you're at school tell a teacher. If you are at a club, tell the bouncers. Wherever you are, tell somebody in authority. This kind of behaviour is unacceptable.
2007-11-28 13:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a natural part of growing up.
Guys are just that way.
If it continues have an adult talk to him.
If that does not help it is called harassment.
2007-11-28 13:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by noyoungun 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well i think that he's justs playing around with you
p.s. don't get too close with im since you don't even feel comfortable now - good luck
2007-11-28 13:25:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think he is just feeling that you might like him back so much that you would kiss him. Or something else.
2007-11-28 13:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by Dragon-Rider 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Then tell him to get off of your butt ;););););)
2007-11-28 13:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋