Singles & Dating - 30 November 2007

Do women want a guy to be sexually assertive on a date? I mean do they want the man to take what he wants and go for it? Obviously he's attracted to you or you wouldnt be on the date in the first place! I used to believe looks werent important, biut couldnt bring myself to kiss a girl i didnt find attractive let alone anything else! It took me years to realise its not just whats on the inside that counts, after years of rejection and pain, ive now lost 100lbs in weight, it took me a year as ive been down the gym loads! Im a tall guy but girls used to call me a teddy, do women want sex with a teddy, i concluded NO! I was always a gentleman when out with a girl, offer to pay, hold doors, asking was she ok? could i kiss her? I now have a date with a hot 20yr old im 26! I asked my mates who've had many girlfriends, they say a woman acts like she wants you to respect her but if she's out with you and laughing she wants to get it on wiv you! Is this true? Ive been in love once, she hurt me!

2007-11-30 23:33:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

And this is a guy that I was with one night (like kissing..could have been more but I prefer to move slow). We live in different cities, far apart but do keep in touch now and then..but never discussed our feelings. One time before that night together we were online and he told me he was falling for me (but after a few drinks). What does it mean if he keeps in touch and tells me to keep in touch too? He calls me too. Do you think he has feelings for me? Also, he wants to come visit me on next vacn. The thing is, he has lots of friends and is a very friendly guy, so maybe I'm reading too much into it, at the same time I feel a vibe.

2007-11-30 23:29:04 · 4 answers · asked by sonia 1

and they always tell you how they WISH they could be with you, and they talk to you, but they are the most annoyign ppl on the earth because just to talk to you it is like they are on a secret spy mission and can only call u at theri convience when the spouse is gone, or else theyre hiding in a closet whispering on a cell phone. Who would want to be with someone liek that? do they not know how pathetic they seem?

2007-11-30 23:28:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-30 23:08:46 · 25 answers · asked by ee 1

Is it being uncomprehensive and irresponsible if we dont use protection when intimately engage with gf bf,,,,im talking when youre living together.........!!!!!!!as a couple

2007-11-30 23:03:25 · 20 answers · asked by angel81 3

I hope i don't sound like a pervert.. but i just turned 18 and moved into my boyfriends home. We go to bed in the morning so i see him in the daylight, i also cant get to sleep as quickly as he can. I stare at him for a long while and i find i just cant keep my hands off of him.

After a while i cant help but rub his naughty bits, is this a big problem i should stop doing?

I'd never do this while hes awake, because i'm really shy, but i find i can do it if hes not aware. He caught me once, and told me thats a odd way of waking up with me fondling his penis (oh was i embarrassed, but he didn't seem to be upset)
But it really turns me on with hearing him sigh and all that in his sleep. When we have sex, i'm never able to orgasm because i'm so tense, so i seem to be always horny, which makes me want to fondle him even more :(

Is this some form of sexual abuse/disorder?

2007-11-30 23:03:05 · 9 answers · asked by bishi4me 2

Ok so basically we flirted couple of times at work, playful arm hitting, me calling her cute, making flirty bets, just the basics.

Then we were assigneed back to our old station (where her boyfriend works next door) so we didnt flirt as much. Today she had to go take a College Entrance Exam, so she did not show up for work, i texted her "Your gonna do well dont sweat it! Good Luck!" she replied 5 minutes later with a "thank you hehe"

This is were it gets weird, yes i do have feelings for this girl i might be jumping to conclusions or i mnight not be, thats for u to decide, she calls me at aroudn 6:30 PM I said hey whats up "her name" she replied i just finished my exam!, i asked her if she did any well she replied with a ya i did pretty well.. then it went in a weird silence... she asked me if i was busy.. i told her yes i was etc.. another weird silence, then she said ok well see you tomorrow, and i hung up..

We never previously called each other over the phone

2007-11-30 23:02:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i was getting drinks at the bar, i smiled to a blond who was waiting 2 and we got into harmless and friendly talk. During the talk i looked several times towards my girl to check if she was still there. the whole talk took to long. now my girl is angry coz i kept her waiting and didnt pay attention and want to know what i was thinking doing that? a naive answer would be fine. Does some one has a good naive explanation for keeping your girl waiting in bar by getting drinks and talking to another girl?

2007-11-30 22:52:31 · 7 answers · asked by Boyfriend 1

im a bisexual guy and 2 guys at school asked me out i dont know who to go with my friend luke hes my best friend or jay hes also my best friend

2007-11-30 22:49:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was with a girl for the past eight months, she has a 2 year old mixed race child. We got on fantastically we were inseperable. So we decided to get engaged and move in together. we did and she changed, we faught coz she grew cold, cut a long story short she decided she needed a break. Then a week later I took them both out for the day and all she did was cry and tell me how much she's in love with me. And how she didn't want it to end this way but we hurt each other too much, a day later I went around there again and found out she's interested in this other guy. I wanna know how can someone say they're in love with someone but wanna try someone else?

2007-11-30 22:48:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-30 22:44:30 · 10 answers · asked by cool d 1

Theres this girl I like. In the past and now I always run into her, I always walk around campus for exercise and fresh air... Anyways in the past I look at her briefly and walk pass her without a word or looking at her (I didn't like her back then). Now I just introduced myself to her. I saw her at the train station too. Just today I said hi to her when I saw her. Ok I never meant to run into her so many times...

Some girls earlier accused me of being stalkerish when this is all coincidence... now it makes me want to avoid that girl for good. I guess its my fault for attending the same school, same class, and using the same transportation right? Is it stalkerish? How?

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-30 22:43:31 · 22 answers · asked by Closed 5

There is a guy who I am kinda interested in. He works in the cafe of my office building and I never noticed him before until over the past few weeks, I noticed he smiles a lot at me, winks at me when he sees me and is generally friendly. However, as he works in a cafe, maybe this is just the way they are to everyone?
He usually asks how I am, etc but he doesn't ask anything personal like my name or etc.
I feel he is attracted to me physically, but due to the fact that I am probably a little older than him and work in an office, perhaps he is not interested in me.

I haven't really shown interest coz I don't want to show my feelings in case he is only being friendly n not interested? Or do u think becasue of our work positions, he may not think I am interested in him unless I make more visible effort?

2007-11-30 22:35:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a man has a big penis, does it hang in the toilet when they pee. Is this unhygeinic for them and do they have to clean it

2007-11-30 22:13:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i jus wanna knw if it's safe to marry a gal workin inIT..?.... so pl...

2007-11-30 22:06:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so basically we flirted couple of times at work, playful arm hitting, me calling her cute, making flirty bets, just the basics.

Then we were assigneed back to our old station (where her boyfriend works next door) so we didnt flirt as much. Today she had to go take a College Entrance Exam, so she did not show up for work, i texted her "Your gonna do well dont sweat it! Good Luck!" she replied 5 minutes later with a "thank you hehe"

This is were it gets weird, yes i do have feelings for this girl i might be jumping to conclusions or i mnight not be, thats for u to decide, she calls me at aroudn 6:30 PM I said hey whats up "her name" she replied i just finished my exam!, i asked her if she did any well she replied with a ya i did pretty well.. then it went in a weird silence... she asked me if i was busy.. i told her yes i was etc.. another weird silence, then she said ok well see you tomorrow, and i hung up..

We never previously called each other over the phone

2007-11-30 21:51:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyf and i have been together for 11monthd and to start with, it was constant butterflies, kisses, hugs, and his mates wld joke that he was 'under then thumb' because he so into me.
we are still in love and we live together. we tell each other we love each other every day. we both want a future together.
However, as we are now settled, the hands on part of our relationship has dwindled, as expected. he no longer wants to kiss me every 5 seconds and is quite happy to leave me to my own accord when we go out, whereas before he used to want to show me off to the world as his girlfriend. he used to call me sweet names like beautiful, sexy baby, gorgeous, princess etc but now just calls me babe.
i spoken to him about it as i feel i miss the closeness. i understand what we have is still special and i dont expect it to stay full on forever, but would like a bit more of wot we used 2 b like. he says we are settled and he wants our relationship to be about understanding......

2007-11-30 21:50:28 · 12 answers · asked by millayhighsociety 2

2007-11-30 21:37:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK.. me and my girlfriend are trying to take it to 3rd base. We arent exaxtly like as freaky as the others at school, but i was just wondering what is the best way to finger my girlfriend like during a movie without being noticed or in class because we sit @ a table against the wall together. we are really in love with each other but we dont want to have sex yet because it can ruin a relationship @ our age. and im not a virgin but she is and i dont want to make her first time un special. any pointers on how i can get good with fingering her and moving up to having sex??

2007-11-30 21:32:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

at night and not but naked so everybody could see

wrapped in a sleeping bag, thats what i want to do with my gf this weekend im going to set it all up what do you think

2007-11-30 21:25:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 49 , she,s 31 but im not sure she knows how old i am.
i am expecting mixed reactions to this question.
But i would like some advice as to what to do. do i forget it or go for it. everybody,s advice is much welcome !
thankyou.

2007-11-30 21:23:51 · 6 answers · asked by john h 1

Do men become evil overtime if they can't get what they want in their feelings? On all aspects? Isn't it true that love makes the world go around?

2007-11-30 21:03:29 · 4 answers · asked by Zabanya 6

how do you tell if a girl is interested in you while she is at work

2007-11-30 21:01:02 · 6 answers · asked by Chris W 2

I decided to put in Nine Ninch Nails "The Fraglie", man it rocks, and I'm blasting it!

2007-11-30 21:00:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, well this heckka cute guy at my school that is a 7th grader that i like. im an 8th grader. i would just like to get to know him better because i've never talked to him before. well my friend whos a 7th grader is friends with him suggested today that on monday we go and sit with him at lunch so i can talk to him. but i have a really hard time thinking of things to talk about with people. he played football and is playing basketball for the school. he is shy around girls according to my friend, so what can i talk about with him? i need help please. thanks in advance

2007-11-30 19:34:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

he wants to take me to the Coach store. I am 99% sure that he wants to buy me a Coach necklace [or other jewelry item]... The problem is, is it weird for me to go WITH him and say "I want this" or "I like this"...??

I would much rather prefer he just go ALONE and then later surprise me with a gift... how do I say that w/o sounding ungrateful..?

Also: he has already bought me 2 beautiful bags from Coach... and yes, I did pick them out myself... but I am just starting to feel weird about it...
Any suggestions...?
:)
Thanks!

2007-11-30 19:31:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

and no i PROMISE he is no where close to being a gay man

2007-11-30 18:17:18 · 13 answers · asked by Larry morrow 2

I'm really REALLY confused, please help me out

I feel somehow sad and unsatisfied with him though he's really good to me. Sometimes I just can't stand talking to him and I try to argue out of nowhere. I have been feeling unsure about whether I should be with him ever since I met him ( 1 month and a half ago). We see each other 3 times a week btw...


I just don't feel that he's the one. I often day dream about "true love", "the real romantic passionate love that I WILL meet in the future"...

I don't know if I'm being unrealistic ?? The guy is really good to me but I just can't feel it. The only time I feel that I love him is when he's extremely good to me and we're having fun .. once I'm by myself or away from him I feel the opposite or I just feel careless about him
btw I've been thinking about breaking up or at least about not getting too involved in this relationship ever since we met (weeks ago)

should I break up? or should I just stay cauz he's a good person ?

2007-11-30 18:10:03 · 6 answers · asked by leave me alone 1

she wants it one day then the next day i cant even touch her.

2007-11-30 18:05:25 · 15 answers · asked by Beny G 1

A lot of people wish they could have waited longer or simply gave it to someone other than the person they were with.Do you regret your first time? If so why?

2007-11-30 17:55:17 · 15 answers · asked by saconners1 6