I'm really REALLY confused, please help me out
I feel somehow sad and unsatisfied with him though he's really good to me. Sometimes I just can't stand talking to him and I try to argue out of nowhere. I have been feeling unsure about whether I should be with him ever since I met him ( 1 month and a half ago). We see each other 3 times a week btw...
I just don't feel that he's the one. I often day dream about "true love", "the real romantic passionate love that I WILL meet in the future"...
I don't know if I'm being unrealistic ?? The guy is really good to me but I just can't feel it. The only time I feel that I love him is when he's extremely good to me and we're having fun .. once I'm by myself or away from him I feel the opposite or I just feel careless about him
btw I've been thinking about breaking up or at least about not getting too involved in this relationship ever since we met (weeks ago)
should I break up? or should I just stay cauz he's a good person ?
2007-11-30 18:10:03 · 6 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave before he gets too involved. if you dont feel that spark, you cant force it. you dont have to always be in a relationship ya know :]
2007-11-30 18:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i know is that i wish i had what u dont want. if the guy is good to u try and relax and let it go with the flow. but its hard when u are not feeling it. i know. but i wish i had a guy that was good to me. sometimes lust is not the important thing. its hard to find a good guy these days. only thing i know is to tell him u need more time and that if he can back off a little and just start over as friends.
2007-12-01 02:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi There
I am a guy, and although I liked the attention I got from my ex's who like you weren't in it for the long haul, but it hurt a lot when they finally decided to move on. So do your self and your so-called b/f a favor end it and be his Friend be for you really hurt him or he becomes to attached then it will be harder on both of you.
Good luck ,There and have a happy holiday season.
....cya....
2007-12-01 02:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by tmin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of his life, if you don't want him, before you break his good heart. He sounds like a good man, but if your heart does not feel happy to see him all time, gently go out of his life.
True Love is rare, it finds you if it wants to. 95% of us live and comparmise and learn to if not love , to at least like one another.
2007-12-01 02:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by mx. know it all 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you arent in love with him then dont stay...its not fair to you or him! if you leave while its still early in the relationship it will be a lot easier for the both of you. and if you do breakup with him..take it easy on him. maybe ya'll can still be friends after.
2007-12-01 02:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by hunny_bun19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is something you should be discussing with your boyfriend.
2007-12-01 02:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋