Singles & Dating - 4 December 2007

Men should stay our of holes that they do not have a license to enter... So many men crawl into any hole available and women let them.....How dumb is this?

2007-12-04 23:19:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

She'll be 19. She complains about how since her birthday is right after Christmas, it never feels special.

Keep in mind I'm a college student who doesn't have a ton of cash.

I know 11 months isn't a huge deal, not quite a year, so I probably won't make too much out of it, but the rest...

2007-12-04 23:02:34 · 6 answers · asked by madman90001988 1

been with bf for almost 3 years. been up and down due to me having pmdd that i struggle with (seeing a counselor and take meds). i also have 3 kids that i care for part-time. i'm 28 and he's 29-no kids,never married.

we've discussed living together-marriage and said one way or the other things had to be figured out by this Feb when my apt lease is up. so far, plan is for me to move in with him (my cat and over half my stuff is at his house now)

got into a little tiff today mostly due to me being a little moody and tired. things seemed ok when we left for work but he won't email or call me back.

a friend of his back home in IL emails him from time to time and emailed him to see how things were w/his life and w/me.

he emailed back not saying anything about me so the friend asked again. he emailed the friend back saying he didnt mention me the first time b/c things are the same-one week good, the next bad. more below and important-please read!!

2007-12-04 22:46:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 13 nearly 14 and i am going out with this guy and i often sleep over his house his mum sleeps around and he is trying to make me have sex. he doesn't have a condom and i sneak out he is saying that he will use the pulout method as safe sex is that a safe sex method?

2007-12-04 22:36:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

didnt people say dont be clingy...but be there for her and give her lots of attention

um...how does that work? how can u be in the middle

2007-12-04 22:32:26 · 6 answers · asked by -{s0c}- 2

She has a boyfriend for almost 5 years. He is away and she madly falls inlove with another guy with really strong feelings. They go through fantastic moments. Moments and feelings she sais she never went through before.
She loves her boyfriend though and tells him the truth. He wants to try for their relationship and she agrees even though she is inlove with someone else. She wants to try and get the new guy of her mind. Will her relationship ever be back to normal and will she be able to fall back inlove with her boyfriend and lose her feelings for the new guy?

2007-12-04 22:29:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i been with my boyfriend for around 5 months but i fancied him for a year before we got together.
I think about him all the time, i miss him so much when he isnt around and when we are spending time together i never wana leave him, he makes me so happy..and i feel so much for him..i love him more than life itself and i dont ever wanna lose him.
he says he feels the same as well. everytime i see him my heart skips a beat..before he wanted a break for a few days and i cried day and nightt..and now we are back together i cudnt be happier.
i feel like im the luckiest woman in the world
am i in love?

2007-12-04 22:16:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-04 22:13:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-04 22:09:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i know that the majority of people will say you need to have individual activities when you're in a relationship and you should not be together all the time. However, in my circumstance my boyfriend and i have always done everything together. we still talked to our friends and everything but when we would go out we would go out together to hang out with them. we basically spent every spare moment together and we have classes together in college. we were like this until over the past few months, hes suddenly been wanting to go out with his friends alone and gets mad if i want to go. also this goes along with my last posted question go read it to further understand. but im just wondering if im crazy for being concerned about this sudden change?

2007-12-04 22:01:41 · 15 answers · asked by amy 1

infact I think I have fallen inlove with him, now the problem
we work in the same company, both of us have agreed that we will keep it quite. but it is killing me, i dont know how to act around him. we kiss alot around the office when nobody is looking. what should i do? weekends are great, i either go to his place or he comes to my place . weekdays we are strangers around our colleuges. help me please

2007-12-04 21:52:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Many times, if some guy has a girl sitting behind him in his bike or next to him in his car, he will be driving dangerously; Overspeeding, changing lanes at will, honking more and loud. My question is do girls like it and encourage it? And those who don’t like it, do you ever tell your guys to behave when they do such a thing?

I personally try to drive more safely when I am with a loved one, so this behavior puzzles me

2007-12-04 21:43:56 · 16 answers · asked by Gulab 6

I think this is a common quotation but it really hurt me a lot after I saw it somewhere after an incident which occured to me recently.
The saying goes thus,

"To love is nothing"
"To be loved is something"
"To love and to be loved is everything"

What occured to me is something very common but the problem is when it happens to you only you know how hurt you would be!!! I had a crush on a girl and I expressed my love to her recently but she rejected it. I took the risk and asked about it but I forgot everything after she rejected me but there was pain of mind. Later I saw her with my friend and I came to know that they have become lovers!!! That really hurt me and also worse of all, my friend knew that I was interested in this girl!!!
These are my expressions of sorrow but I know that you would ask me to wait for someone new but you know the pain of mind rejection causes has no bounds. Thanks to everyone for your attention. Help me to come out of this sorrow...tks..bye..

2007-12-04 21:37:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

it's almost a year that we've never seen each other..yet he's still texting me, he already asked for my forgiveness and begged me to give him another chance..but i used to stay away from him.
because for me..i cannot forgive him if the pain is still there.
now..i'm confused.because i always find myself..longing for him..what will i do now? the pain is still there...but i really missed him.do i have to set these things free..and move on with my life w/o him?or give him another chance eventhough, my trust for him is already gone?

2007-12-04 21:30:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

think the problem really is he cheated on me though i have forgiven him i think somehow in my mind it always rings a bell. i love him so much and i do not know what i should to make to achieve an orgasm. we have tried different positions but it does not work.

2007-12-04 21:29:04 · 11 answers · asked by Sandra Melody M 1

My boyfriend has been acting differently over the past month. He's obsessed with the show the pickup artist on vh1 and even has downloaded cds on how to pickup women. when i asked why he would want to know that when he has me, he responded by saying it was to become more social and popular. He had been texting one of my friends which is a girl. He gets mad if i read his text messages and even ripped the cell phone out of my hands and deleted his messages before i could read them. finally he's never liked myspace but he recently got one. He asked me if he could add his ex and i said fine because i didnt want to be one of "those" type girls. I dont think he is cheating yet but it does make me mad hes doing all this stuff, it seems as though he is wanting to cheat or find someone else. am i crazy for being nervous about this?

2007-12-04 21:27:01 · 6 answers · asked by amy 1

I went out on Friday and a stranger guy approached me and gave me his number. He seemed decent/nice and cute. I talked to him on the phone today and he seemed nice. He said he's 30 years old, even though he looked younger and I'm 18 and he said he's attracted to me and that's why he gave me his number. Is it a good idea to go out with him? I never went out with anyone before. And to those who just say no, please think that no men approached me before especially my age. I never dated and I'm pissed off that the the boys my age just stare at me and sometimes smile but don't ask me out. Don't tell me they never dated either, I saw them all lovey dovey with the geeky/nerdy girls with glasses and bad hair and with mean/slutty girls who ends up sleeping with other guys and flirting. And this happened since I was 16. I guess the feminine classy girl with seductive edge isn't IN for people my age. Maybe that's why he approached me. He seems decent... So should I go out with h

2007-12-04 21:24:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've never had a boyfriend. Never been asked out. It's very frustrating and I have been very depressed because of it. I've asked out guys before but only to be rejected. I don't think I'n ugly but...I could be wrong. Is there anything I can do to find some one to be with?

2007-12-04 20:38:16 · 5 answers · asked by scarlettxfoxx 2

our "thingies" attractive.
I mean would u like just go an grab it..if yah got half the chance?

2007-12-04 20:29:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend has been acting differently over the past month. He's obsessed with the show the pickup artist on vh1 and even has downloaded cds on how to pickup women. when i asked why he would want to know that when he has me, he responded by saying it was to become more social and popular. He had been texting one of my friends which is a girl. He gets mad if i read his text messages and even ripped the cell phone out of my hands and deleted his messages before i could read them. finally he's never liked myspace but he recently got one. He asked me if he could add his ex and i said fine because i didnt want to be one of "those" type girls. I dont think he is cheating yet but it does make me mad hes doing all this stuff, it seems as though he is wanting to cheat or find someone else. am i crazy for being nervous about this?

2007-12-04 20:28:49 · 8 answers · asked by amy 1

Hi i have a boyfriend who means a lot to me , i need help with getting him a gift this year, i have no idea what guys like him want as a gift , a lil about him
hes a serious gamer he got a x-box 360 last year and about 3 or 4 moths ago he got Final fantasy online ,and o-yea i play just as much as he do , whats hot this year for guys , i really need a guys answer on this pleeeeessss

thanks a lot

2007-12-04 19:50:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-04 19:40:23 · 29 answers · asked by deepak57 7

what kind of person is unforgiving, and will always try and get you if you screw up with them once.

2007-12-04 19:20:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

We agreed two years ago that we would save money and move to nyc so I can try and make it as a writer. Now that I have a job interview, he has changed his mind and wants to stay here in Nevada since he fell in love with his job (a job he can do anywhere.) He is now upset that I have this interview and wont talk about it. I am 32 and carer and relationship time is both ticking. What do I do?

2007-12-04 18:51:10 · 8 answers · asked by natalie R. 1

this guy i work with in a restaurant, called the gm this morning and said , hey because its tuesday and not too many people come in, can i have the day off?? the gm said he never heard anything like that before. is there something wrong with this guy

2007-12-04 18:46:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-04 18:33:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was having a cup of cofee with my gf, and we were discusssing different topics when she said "you know I can learn a lot about a man, by the way he treats his mother." Do you find this statement true, and what patterns do you look at to see how the mom is being treated?

2007-12-04 18:22:15 · 7 answers · asked by hsingh86 2

My boyfriend is very caring and loyal. One day he admitted that when he saw me from afar, he thought to himself "oh my god, she has a nice ***,"not knowing who I was. From that moment on, my female instincts have been annoying the heck out of me. I am jealous of all attractive girls, I am determined to look my best, and I am worried that my boyfriend looks at other girls.

Men (and women) look at eachother to determine whether the other one is attractive, as an unwritten rule I guess. Lately, a lot of people I personally know have cheated on their significant others. It seems that women are doomed. There will always be another attractive woman out there for my boyfriend. I want to stay comfortable in my own skin, but I am now insecure.

Advice? Consolation? Shut me up?:(

2007-12-04 18:17:05 · 6 answers · asked by mmmoatmeal 1

i got in contact with this old girlfriend from highschool she was nuts about me, but i wasnt that much into her so we just kinda drifted, we are both recent grads now, and we always plan to meet, then she cancels and then im like f it, and do my thing, then she called me once, but said it was an accident , so then tried to meet up with her again, but she keeps doing it. why will she talk to me and stuff over aim, but she scared to meet me?

2007-12-04 18:07:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I occasionally hang out with a girl I like. She knows I like her, but I've never told her how much, I kind of just hint at it. So the reason why I hint is that every time we go out, she flirts with other guys and she does it in front of me. At first I thought she liked me because she did the same thing to me. At the end though she still keeps hanging out with me. What do you think, do you think she's punishing me for not being aggressive enough or is she just a chronic flirt and doesnt really like me?

2007-12-04 18:04:28 · 2 answers · asked by terminallyalone2007 1