Flirting while out with girl?

Question

So I occasionally hang out with a girl I like. She knows I like her, but I've never told her how much, I kind of just hint at it. So the reason why I hint is that every time we go out, she flirts with other guys and she does it in front of me. At first I thought she liked me because she did the same thing to me. At the end though she still keeps hanging out with me. What do you think, do you think she's punishing me for not being aggressive enough or is she just a chronic flirt and doesnt really like me?

Answer 1

Okay, here's a dumb question: how can she really know that you like her if you haven't told her!?!?

What if she is interpreting your behavior as just another guy who's flirting with her?

It's flattering when people flirt with you, and for most people, it's natural to want to flirt back.

So before you give up on her, go and tell her how you feel or ask her out. Stop wondering why she is flirting with those other guys because she is waiting for you to work up the courage to ask her out ... My advice? If you like her, don't let her get away.

Good luck.

Answer 2

She's just a flirt. The guys flirt back. I don't think she's punishing you specifically. She's just used to interacting with guys like that.

So ...

If you like her and if you want her to like you - perhaps you need to do something a little different.

My suggestion is that you go with STRONG rather than with whiny. Be strong. Give her the impression that you are confident. Swat her on the butt and scold her mildly for being a naughty flirt and a tease.

Take her away then to a place where you can be alone.

See what transpires!

I would guess it would be a HUGE turn off for this girl if you were to dissolve into a whiny puddle of trying to lay guilt on her.