it's almost a year that we've never seen each other..yet he's still texting me, he already asked for my forgiveness and begged me to give him another chance..but i used to stay away from him.
because for me..i cannot forgive him if the pain is still there.
now..i'm confused.because i always find myself..longing for him..what will i do now? the pain is still there...but i really missed him.do i have to set these things free..and move on with my life w/o him?or give him another chance eventhough, my trust for him is already gone?
2007-12-04 21:30:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are reasons why you made him your ex, right? He's had his chance. Go on without him. Find somebody that's worth it.
2007-12-04 21:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He must have done something bad? Why don't you meet up with him to see if he has changed but do not let your guard down when you see him. I went through something similar and if you meet him and talk it out at least you can make a decision after it about what you want, if you keep going the way you are you will never know. I do know that time is the best medicine and just meeting new guys, don't be convinced that he is the one for you especially since he obviously hurt you alot.
It does sound like you still have feelings for him but it may not mean love. You will know when you meet up with him.
2007-12-05 05:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probly cheated on you (which sux) or for what ever reason..
for me i have rules in relationships...
he cheats he's gone even how hard it will be on me!
but if the love is stronger than ever i do think there are second chances...
the thing is that if you do give him a chance again, will you forgive what he did to you? are the feelings still gonna be there... then i think it wouldnt be so good for you to end up with that person again! it will just make you miserable!!!
make the right choice
xoxgood luck
2007-12-05 05:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is a big part of a relationship without it you cant really move on, you have to decide whether you can instill that trust back into that person, and if not for your own good you have to walk away....if you feel you can't..see him, one time...and see how you feel. Sometimes it takes looking into that persons eyes to make or break the longing.
2007-12-05 05:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by platinumplaiigrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without trust there can be no true love. Don't go back to him until you are sure that you are able to feel trust again. If you can't, you will live a miserable life with no real future.
2007-12-05 05:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the most important thing in a relationship if you cant trust someone what do you have to stand on.if you dont trust this guy all your gonna do is question your relationship the whole time.its hard to let go but it has to happen.you need another guy in your life someone to take your mind off all that negative stuff.You deserve someone you can trust.Everyone does.
2007-12-05 05:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Lillian L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not be with someone if you do not trust them. Don't even set yourself up for the pain. It will hurt worse the second time around
2007-12-05 05:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by Nae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If after this much time it's still causing you this much stress, i don't think its good for you to put any more trust in him. I don;t think you're wanting him particularly, maybe just what you got from him. Might be time you tried dating someone else?
2007-12-05 05:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people make mistakes in life just like me and you. Or maybe your ex just di some mistake without thinking about the consequence. If I were you, I would give your ex one more chance.
2007-12-05 05:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him another chance to ruin ur life once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-12-05 05:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by neeli d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋