I went out on Friday and a stranger guy approached me and gave me his number. He seemed decent/nice and cute. I talked to him on the phone today and he seemed nice. He said he's 30 years old, even though he looked younger and I'm 18 and he said he's attracted to me and that's why he gave me his number. Is it a good idea to go out with him? I never went out with anyone before. And to those who just say no, please think that no men approached me before especially my age. I never dated and I'm pissed off that the the boys my age just stare at me and sometimes smile but don't ask me out. Don't tell me they never dated either, I saw them all lovey dovey with the geeky/nerdy girls with glasses and bad hair and with mean/slutty girls who ends up sleeping with other guys and flirting. And this happened since I was 16. I guess the feminine classy girl with seductive edge isn't IN for people my age. Maybe that's why he approached me. He seems decent... So should I go out with h
2007-12-04 21:24:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
definitely. i mean, at first, i was going to say "no, he's way to old for you" but then i thought back to my own relationship history (actually my familys) and u know what? my aunt is married to a 50 year old man and shes only 31. and they are the best couple they love eachother so much. i think you should go for it, but be cautious.
2007-12-04 21:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by mcr_fanatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go out alone with him. Meet him in a public place for lunch, or ask him to meet you somewhere you have friends that will keep an eye out on you. Try to get him to bring his friends around too, so that you can see the type of people he hangs with. Once you have done that enough, that you feel comfortable, then it is safe to go out.
2007-12-04 21:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your name here is seductive girl but you have "never dated before"?????
I don't see the problem, if you liked him and want to go out with him, call him. If not, don't. If you do, meet him somewhere public & safe, don't invite him to your house until you get to know him.....
2007-12-04 21:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by Rottluver 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't! What kind of a 30 year old guy just walks up to an 18 year old girl and gives her his number!?
2007-12-04 21:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Aydin 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i'm no pro either.. but its safe to say thats ot prime dating material concidering ur age.. even tho he may look tho. think of ur future. i know this phrase is used alot but really.. there are plenty more fish in the sea.. and dating issues.. nothing to worry bout.. ppl understand.. we are human.. even tho some are materialistic
2007-12-04 21:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i guess if he's a nice person then it's ok but please you still have to be careful cuz u still don't really know him... maybe just wait a little bit to make sure he's really in to you...
2007-12-04 21:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by greenleaf_1789 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey I am agree with Paggys and Aydin don't trust him
2007-12-04 21:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by neeli d 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He's a pedophile.
2007-12-04 21:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by Brutally Honest 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋