Singles & Dating - 4 December 2007

I broke up with her 4 years ago. I havent dated anyone since, and when I heard this news from my mom, I acted like I don't care, but I feel a little sad.

Will I be OK?

2007-12-04 09:13:49 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really like this guy but i am to scared to talk to him. i keep thinking that if i say something it will be stupid and he will never want to talk to me again. i am really shy and it is extremely hard for me to talk to hot guys but i really want him to ask me out so i have to talk to him but i cant i have no idea what to say. help me?

2007-12-04 09:11:29 · 27 answers · asked by xoAmanda 1

My girlfriend of roughly 2 months sent me an e-mail that she just wanted the weekend alone, after we had made plans to hang out this weekend a while ago. I know there have been some instances when my joking around has come off as being an asshole and i have really upset her with that...those were never my intentions and now i'm afraid to lose her. Please help...tips, advice, i don't want to lose her over me being an idiot. I know not to do it anymore and i know i wont, i just need another chance....again, tips, advice, anything

Thanks in advance...Please help!!! :,,,,(

2007-12-04 09:10:19 · 23 answers · asked by Bob G 1

Not the ghetto and uneducated black girls. I am not like that or the typical African-American girl. I was born in the U.S., but my family is from the carribean. I'm just curious...i'm an artsy girl too. I love to paint and draw. I love reading and writing..I'm a sexy, dark-skinned NERD...Not that nerdy though (haha)

2007-12-04 09:07:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do latino man like dark skin black woman

2007-12-04 09:05:09 · 6 answers · asked by NarcolepticNancy 1

Would you hate the other woman???

2007-12-04 08:56:57 · 8 answers · asked by My Sharona 5

good songs for a breakup? my boyfriend lied to me and said that he wanted just to be friends, but he was just waiting to ask out another girl. im in a funk, and music is the only thing that helps me through it.
:/

2007-12-04 08:54:18 · 6 answers · asked by Alicia S 2

I really like this guy and we're really pretty close. Sometimes I don't know what to say to him though and I think it is the point in our friendship that we either stay friends or progress. I don't know what to do or say. He's just so nice and I don't want to get hurt again. Would getting him a christmas present be a good idea? How about asking him to "hang out over break" in a christmas card? Please help!

2007-12-04 08:53:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok why do i get like this? like ill say something or ask something on msn then i get a response i dont expect then i get all worried about talking to that person the next day..

ex. ill ask like whats wrong? whats with that sad smiley face?
then she'll say something like ' nothing...' or 'dont worry about it.,,

then i just get like nervous about seeing them the next day..

2007-12-04 08:52:28 · 2 answers · asked by John 1

I have two lovers. They are both far away from each other. One lives a reasonable distance from me, another far. The one who lives nearer is older and I met him a year ago. He wasn't really that serious but we enjoy each others company and have a good spark. But he made it quite clear at the begining he did not want a deep realtionship. He was still smarting from another relationship that had just ended.
The far away i know very little about his life away from me, and he comes to me at weekends now and then, we go out a little, but mostly we enjoy one another here at home. I have known him for 6 months. I thought the other man was not very into me. They are both extremely different in their approach to me and as people. I feel bad (and many of u say 'so you should') but it happened that way because all of us were indecisive. Now both want to be with me on a more serious level. I have never,ever, two timed, and suddenly I feel awful about it all. Has this ever happened to you?.

2007-12-04 08:45:56 · 14 answers · asked by dunwerse 4

This girl and i have been best friends for about a year in a half and we tell each other absolutely everything and trust each other with everything, and like i'm always there for her whether its 3am and shes crying and needs someone to talk to or its just simply help around the house im always there. the problem is about two months ago, she got this boyfriend that i'm extremely jealous of. so last week i told her how i felt and she was really happy and hugged and was like you should of never kept this from me and told me i should have told her before her boyfriend. so what do u think i should do?

2007-12-04 08:41:28 · 19 answers · asked by Pirate84 1

im considering putting her name then mine and then the date we started going out do you think that is good enough? or should i say something else?

2007-12-04 08:40:05 · 19 answers · asked by S$ 1

Some girls at work treat me real bad
what should i do? i told my gf and she said she is going to kick there a s s but i dont think thats a good idea...What should i do....

2007-12-04 08:37:39 · 38 answers · asked by SMILEY 2

you just can't get the hang of it.

2007-12-04 08:37:34 · 14 answers · asked by louise d 6

Ok...I think My boyfriend is planning to get me a ring or necklace for Christmas, And i have no idea what to get him. I really need some help and i don't have much time. P:s. I'm 13. Anyway what could i get him? [not too expensive] thanks.

2007-12-04 08:35:46 · 11 answers · asked by s a v v y. 1

My boyfriend doesn't understand what I want or he just not willing to give it. I've told him from the beginning the kind of closeness I want, which is to be around him a little at least every day. That is who I am, and I can't change it. He's brought up the subject of us living together, and he's even answered strangers with "Not yet" when asked if I'm his wife. Now the signals I'm receiving are saying "back off." Not only do I not want to, I don't understand what's happened. He's told me "I'm way more simple than you're think." I know that's probably true, but we had an extremely rough start, so I can't help but doubt. He was alone for a long time after an engagement ending badly, and he was planning on being alone until I came along. He dropped the L-bomb first, and he's initiated many other milestones. What to do?

2007-12-04 08:34:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and I are both freshmen at separate colleges who see eachother a few days every 3 weeks as well as during vacations.
We recently had a conversation in which she said that she 'isn't a horny person' and that she's never been horny in the sense of wanting sexual gratification at random times. According to her, we'll start fooling around because I want to and then a 'little lightbulb' will switch on, usually after I've touched her hoo-ha. When ever we mess around, she clearly has fun, and it's not difficult to get her to orgasm, but I can't help feeling like it's a favor to me, and that all I'm doing is tickling her nerve endings without anything really occurring in the sense of an actual sort of feeling. She's never masturbated a day in her life and it seems like she just isn't horny at all unless there's a hand already down her pants.
Is she really not horny, or is she just not assertive? And does that situation generally change with age/time? Is there anything I can do?

2007-12-04 08:32:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

IS it best to give them space and let them come to you whne they're ready? he says i'm his rock and all and then he pulls away and shuts me out. should i let him come to me when hes READY? AM I JUST BEING STUPID. he says he has more respect for me and that if there was someone else he would tell me and i really have no reason to think otherwise. he is not a dog and i have never been given a reason not to trust him. could he just need space and he's pulling away like guys sometimes do? we go through this occasionally and it ***** me up every time. i call it the fishing game and its when i get to o close he casts me back out to sea again and when i get too far away...thats when he realizes i might just leave and he reels me back in. wht do i do? is this **** normal?

2007-12-04 08:21:59 · 14 answers · asked by LMD 4

think to yourself why is it that I am even trying to figure this out?

2007-12-04 08:16:10 · 6 answers · asked by ღKrissyღ 5

Would you prefer your new bride to be a woman who has had sex with alot of other men, only 1-2 other men, or be a virgin? Why is this?

I'd prefer a woman who's had sex with a few other men. That way, she'd know what she is doing. She would be able to communicate the things she likes and dislikes. And there is the added bonus that she won't be in agonizing pain on our wedding night. IMO, women who have safe sex with men they truly love with are the most mature and best lovers.

Nobody wants to marry a slut, I think.

But I think it would be pretty bad to marry a virgin. The girls I know who are virgins are very ashamed of their sexuality, and have very low sex drives. Some of them don't like ANY kind of physical touch from a guy! Many virgins tend to be prudish and unknowledgeable about sex, and what they like. They don't want to try new things, because they think sex is a gross thing. One virgin I know doesn't even like to think about having sex. It would also hurt her the first time.

2007-12-04 08:15:33 · 4 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3

Do you think this is wierd!!!! Rate my housemate Yes or No?
He is 32 and still rents a roon in a shared house

he goes on the sunbeds more than any female i know and asked me if I thought he was naturally that brown..when i said i didnt really think about him that often he went quiet.

He called me a witch both when he was drunk and sober..he walked in from work and he said to the pet rabbit whilst i was stood there "did the witch not feed you"

He broke up with his girlfriend and has taked over 2 weeks off work he said he has a bug but was well enough to go to the gym and for a sunbed- and then moaned that he would get in trouble when he goes back to work???

what do you think!!

2007-12-04 08:14:42 · 1 answers · asked by racheal m 1

Fill in the blanks folks.

2007-12-04 08:14:19 · 6 answers · asked by kharilli 5

Theres this guy that I like and he told me he liked me too but, his best friend likes me too. He says he dosent want to hurt his friend. What can I do? I mean Should I talk to his friend or should I try to get over him? I don't really know what to do.

2007-12-04 08:12:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know all of you are gonna say yes of course he likes you but I want to know what you think anyway. Just mature answers.

I have known this guy for many months since the end of April. We have only been friends. But just the past couple months we have started making out and all that. We have not had sex though. So what do you all think? Should I just ask him? because I am confused right now.

Thanks.

2007-12-04 08:10:31 · 14 answers · asked by hev_1985 4

This guy I know is a very kind person but he doesn't look all that great. I mean it's not his body, just his face. I mean it's alright but he's just not that goodlooking. But his voice is hot and deep. What should I do? :'( He really means a lot to me and I keep escaping from him and making all these excuses and he's not buying it. I don't know why I'm running away. =(

2007-12-04 08:10:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there any men that are 16-18 yrs. old out there? I've had some boyfriends but they all turned out to be jerks. Please answer if you are NOT a jerk and if you are cute. Thanks SO much!

2007-12-04 08:08:29 · 17 answers · asked by Oda Mea 1

My bf and I are not having sex as much as I would like

I would love it everyday but limit myslef to every other day

SO if you have a woman like this why would you deny her sex but go to internet porn sites while she is at work?

No I am not ugly either and he says the sex is awesome so what gives?

2007-12-04 08:07:30 · 5 answers · asked by ღKrissyღ 5

It's just that I really thought I'd found "the one" in Crispy (after the 3,000 or so no-hopers) - but over the past few days he's told everyone that I:

Have big, hairy feet
Smell
Can't cook
Cheat on him with the neighbours dog (okay, that's true, but he didn't have to TELL everyone).

I don't think he loves me at all. Do you?

2007-12-04 08:04:25 · 20 answers · asked by Ms Minger 3

2007-12-04 08:03:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i meet this girl last week at a party. had a really good time with her. went back to her place hung out till like 530am so we werent drunk. We eventually hooked up that night and she told me during that she had a good time hanging out with me, i told her i did too. sunday i txted her because i forgot to give her my number after she gave me hers. and was just like we should hang out. and she was like ya. and then i said i had a really good time with her that night. but i never got a response from her about that was wondring if that means back off or she is tryign to play hard to get, which i doubt, or she just was busy. Im probably over think this bc thats what i tend to do and i think of the worst possible cenario. I dont want to hang out with her again just to hook up with her again, i ligitimally had a good time hangin out.

2007-12-04 08:03:02 · 3 answers · asked by Dan 1