Some girls at work treat me real bad
what should i do? i told my gf and she said she is going to kick there a s s but i dont think thats a good idea...What should i do....
2007-12-04 08:37:39 · 38 answers · asked by SMILEY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont take ****...thats your job...your tryna get ahead....if theyre playing dirty...you play dirtier...when people act out in a professional setting you go to your supervisor...they can close their mouths or get fired? go for it.
2007-12-04 08:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by beandestroyer 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yeah, i know it sucks when people are like that, but it's not just women. i've meet some pretty mean jerk guys as well. mostly when people are mean, it's cuz they expect people to treat them a certain way bcz they're rich, or they think they're super hot, or better than others. another reason is they're may be impatient. you didnt explain what the circumstances of them being mean toward you were. so i'm going to guess, are you new to this job, maybe when you keep asking them questions about the computer program or the files or whatever you may need to ask questions about, they get iritated bcz you keep taking them away from what they have to do. or, if you're new and they give you attitude, maybe they feel threatened, that you may be promoted befor they do. lastly, they could also be on PMS. it's true, right before a period, you feel all edgy and things get on your nerves faster than any other time of month. dont worry, if that's the case, then it goes away after about 4 days. hope that helps.
2007-12-04 08:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by sqpantsgirl103 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your picture dude, lose those glasses and pick up some like mine, the gals love me!!!
It has been my experience that most people will try to treat the people around them in much the same manner that they are treated. There are some exceptions. If I were you I would keep my GF away, because she might hear more than you want her to. They must feel like you are not nice to them or that maybe you are a sexual threat.
If I feel like someone doesn't like me I will just ask them why?
This approach does seem to work.
Yoda out
2007-12-04 08:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by Yoda 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just smile, Smiley, know that they really are not important in your life, and ignore the negative comments. If you are still bothered after trying this, then read Don Miguel Ruiz's "The Four Agreements", and practice the Second Agreement, which is not to take anything personally. Just having that wisdom will make life so much easier.
2007-12-04 08:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm a women and i spend most of my working day with lads and i know women can be bitchy thats why I don't spend my time with them! if your really being bothered by these women you should speak to your boss and please don't feel weak because your a man! it is a good idea not to let your g friend near coz she might end up in trouble herself and you infact through work. Either that or pulling them aside and talking to them your self and be honest tell them your not happy with the way your being treated! if I know girls they will back off as their guilty concience will almost certainly kick in
good luck mate hope my advice works :)
2007-12-04 08:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girls do that to people, because they feel too bad about there selves that they feel that making fun of someone else will take their mind off of it. Also, if they direct the attention on you, then they won't be made fun of for their inperfections so they choose you. If you just ignore them for a while they'll pick a new victim, you could also try confronting them, maybe they think that it's just a joke between you.
2007-12-04 08:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well first of kicking there *** isnt going to prove ne thing. and what are they being meen to you for? have you been haressing them or nething? if you have then there is your answear if not, well just ignore them, i meen how are they being mean? are they makeing fun of the way you look? way your dress? way you talk? what? if thats the case they are takeing there own insecuritys out on you .. if thats not the case and they are just laughing behind your back or sometihng then they probably like you and are being stupid. eaither way ignore both situations its not worth it to stress about at work.. its work your there to make money and that is it.. who really cares what others think of you... go in there with that attitude the next time you work and see what happens... keep that attitude and watch... they will soon get board of makeing fun of you cause they will think it doesnt effect you ne more and move on to the next tihng.
2007-12-04 08:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by nessie86 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People who are mean usually do not have a good life. It is a shame that people have to feel like taking it out on others. It is not just women, there are men like that too.
2007-12-04 08:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman and I can tell you that sometimes women have a problem with males because they are insecure just ignore them I am sure that your a great guy let it go in one ear and out the other.
2007-12-04 08:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by Kim M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine women being mean to men unless maybe you don't get the hint and they have to be mean for you to get it. Why don't you try asking them instead of causing trouble for your woman. Maybe theyll be glad to tell you and then you can fix the problem theyll in turn be nice and you all will be happy win, win, win situation
2007-12-04 08:42:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kj 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes girls are just really insecure about themselves so they find someone to pick on so they feel better.
If you act like you dont care or ignore them then they probably go away.
2007-12-04 08:41:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋