My boyfriend and I have been together 6 years. In that time, naturally, his friends have become mine and vice versa. At the least, we all get along. However, one couple we know (friends that were his before our relationship) seem not to include me in their friendship. They just had kids and so, they don't really hang out anymore. So, he'll go to their house for dinner spontaneously. But, I only hear of it after the fact. The latest is, they sent him an invitation to their party. I usually get mine in the mail the same day, but did not. I moved a year ago. The excuse will be that they don't have my new address. They didn't ask for it either. When I mention this strangeness to my boyfriend, he says that there's no diabolical reason behind it. Still, I can't help but feel like they just... dismiss my existence. The relationship my boyfriend and I have is great. This isn't about him - it's them. I just need a way to put this in perspective. How should I deal with this?
2007-12-04
04:38:44
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