Singles & Dating - 4 December 2007

Hate the thought of feeling sorry for myself & find it near impossible to tell others how I feel so I'm going to write on here.I'm 24 FM, used to model, used to be addicted to cocaine, used to have an eating disorder & have been in two bad relationships. I am now with a guy I used to think loved me for me & thought he & I would make an excellent team but now I just feel hurt all the time & cry as I write this!I don't like myself much mainly for all the wrong decisions I've made in the past. My bf often reminds me of these things when we argue & I probably deserve it but I would love to beable to love myself again.I hate feeling so bad, I feel bad for all the people I've hurt & always feel v bad when my bf ~& I argue for hurting him.He makes me feel (not on purpose) so insecue by saying about other girls being hot, telling me I've made plenty of mistakes and asking me to kiss his gf when he's drunk.He's real popular & I think maybe I should just try get along & bow down.

2007-12-04 02:20:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

do guys like girls who talk alot?
Because when i'm around this one guy at work i can't shut up!
I need advice!!!!!
please.

2007-12-04 02:15:45 · 39 answers · asked by christina j 1

well my boyfriend and I have been fighting because his ex calls him at late hours of the night (1-3am) and i told him i don't really like that and he got upset and said "well she is just a friend. I always stay friends with my exes....and i am not going to turn my back on her" so I was ok with that, didn't really like it but I accepted it, but the thing i have a problem with is her calling at the times she does... so of course I'm going to tell him but all we do is fight about it because he doesn't understand where I am coming from... do you think I am in the wrong for getting upset about how late she is calling him and what not? what should I do? because he always sticks up for her... I am so confused.

2007-12-04 02:13:22 · 31 answers · asked by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4

I want to know what men find as a a turn off in the bedroom. What about a woman would make you never want to have sex with her again?

2007-12-04 02:10:32 · 1 answers · asked by happydawg 6

My boyfriend got locked up in feb and I wanna know should I stay with him, we have been together for 4 years. I dont no if he is writting other females and he hasn't wrote me in a month. Is he talking to someone else and over me or what?he asked me to marry him 2 months ago should i say yes? I really love him though.!

2007-12-04 02:02:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

The other day my boyfriend (who's an army recruiter) told me about a training conference he had to go to for a whole weekend and had to wear his dress uniform. Then the next day he says its a ball but its mostly training and he is dreading having to go. It sounded as if he was trying to hide that it was a ball and I got upset and questioned him on it. He explained and said he wouldnt go if he didnt have to and I gave him the silent treatment and the doubting "uh hum" like I didnt believe him. The next day he sent me text first thing in the morning and asked me if I trusted him and said he cant stand to be checked up on and if i felt that way i shouldnt pursue this relationship and that his exwife did that to him and he wouldnt let it get out of control like that again and he will not be put in check . Is what I did that bad? Isnt he going overboard with the defensiveness. I havent responded to any of the texts yet because I'm upset that he said that and want to calm down first.

2007-12-04 02:00:38 · 10 answers · asked by ms_sweet_real 2

From a survey done recently about 46% people had pre-marital sex relationship. what u think about it?

2007-12-04 01:58:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well my bf the ***** that he is broke up with me over text!
I mean how lameeeee
I hated him and everything, and i didnt even cry when he said it
Actually i laughed....
Because he has no courage to at least call me or say it to my face!
Guys are such....Jerk offs
Not all of them, just most
Sometimes i wish he was dead but other times i just wanted him to hold me!
He said that he didnt want to hurt me because we were
apart so much, I think that hes just afraid of commitment
I mean he was a horable bf, never listened to me, never just held me and said he loved me, hardly talked to me, ignored my feelings, and other mean shyat that he would do and did.
I will get my revenge sooner or later!
I should make him feel bad or somthing
I'm not over him, But I'm not into him
I just hate to be alone, I like knowing that someone loves me
Or that i have someone to hug my tight and tell me everything will be alright!
=]
What should i do?

2007-12-04 01:57:07 · 18 answers · asked by Robin 3

So i met a new friend online a few days ago. I logged on to a website for a local radio station and it is some what like Myspace, facebook etc. I said I was tired of the searches for new people on myspace so I am on here looking for new local friends or maybe more.

So this woman replies and said she works near where I live and that maybe I could buy her lunch or dinner one day, if you are looking for a new friend. I replied sure tell me more about you.
Well things have led to text messaging and a possibility of taking her out to dinner next week. I still have not talked to her on the phone and we only recently exchange pic over text messages. From the get go, she has been calling me sweetie and lately has turned into baby. She just text me saying "just wanted 2 let you know I am thinking of you"

She is 32 and has 3 kids (I am 27 with no kids). which I don't have a problem with but it is not what I am looking for at the moment. It is kinda of wierding me out. What do you think

2007-12-04 01:56:56 · 3 answers · asked by Flipper 3

i have even online dated and met people in person and they don't like me AFTER i've told them how big i am... one guy even told me he loved me (over the phone) but when he met me he didn't say much except goodbye.....

2007-12-04 01:56:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. When i first met him, he was respectful, kind, thoughtful, tidy, affectionate, reserved man. He respect me as a woman, never agrued with me when we had a conflict. He was very laidback and reserved when we was together. He bought me things for the holidays and wasnt a bum, always had neat clothes on. Always was affectinate to me whenever and wherever. He was my love.. It got to the point where we was in love. Thats when he started acting different to me. I was shocked because me and him was so closed to be a family... In my eyes i thought we was gonnna make it... he stopped being faithful to me, he began puttin his friends before him, he was always busy, he stopped seein me, stop taking me out, he became mean and rude. I cried that day we split up for two hours listening to Neyo.. I dont understand what i did but he changed so bad.... and the thing bout it was he was going to be rich and take me with him and he end up changin why idk ?

2007-12-04 01:44:13 · 12 answers · asked by Tasha aka Tee G 1

and i am 24

2007-12-04 01:38:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't weigh alot and i am not that attractive. how do i get a boyfriend? ??

2007-12-04 01:23:13 · 13 answers · asked by KateLyn M 1

A weak pesky turd fights with guns while a real man fights one on one with his hands?

2007-12-04 01:21:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm a senior in high school and i'm datin a 23 year old guy . hes a senior in college . he barely talks to me and always says that hes not a phone person but tells me that he loves me ! everytime he talks to me its to ask me for money or sex . and he wont even let me even touch his phone, not that i ask for it ! and i even be buyin him jordans all the time !! we've been together for 6 months and he hasnt bought me anythin !! i spent more than two thousand dollars on him over the summer !!! what should i do ?? am i gettin played ??

2007-12-04 01:04:26 · 54 answers · asked by DaMoDeL 2

2007-12-04 00:59:07 · 16 answers · asked by CaramelKitten 3

i have two boys one whos name is brandon and just turned 9 also he has a brother who just turned 2 his name is jason . i dont know what im going to do i have no money to give them a chirstmas does anyone know where i can get help with giving my boys a chirstmas?????

2007-12-04 00:52:55 · 30 answers · asked by flower0069 1

i am in love with a guy who is excellent with his heart.i have proposed him recently.he also likes me but he is concentrating in his career.he is a 3d-animator & is very busy with his life.he says " i am a busy person in my life,if i involve in love i cant concentrate on my work but i will remember u for ever,if my parents are intrested on u then i will marry u".but he is not confident.i dont want to loose him at all.what to do ?

2007-12-04 00:48:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, so my boyfriend and i have been dating for one year and i want to make him dinner. im a pretty good cook and im under-age so burgers and beer wouldnt work out too well :/ someone suggested finger foods so we can feed each othe but i still have no idea what to make. i want it to be something kind of sensual, relaxing, and exciting. any ideas?

2007-12-04 00:46:05 · 17 answers · asked by Alyssa 2

I would like to settledown.. as my ex boyfriend never believe in marriage yet actually he's having an affair behind me... a nurse indeed... Never knew a nurse will snatch what belongs to others.
Advise please...

2007-12-04 00:41:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Girlfriend normally does the cooking at our appartment.

It all started when I thought I'll get my family together. Bad decision.
My girlfriend brought a dish, etc. and people started comparing food, just toying with her. But she didn't take it as a joke.
That was yesterday.
Now she's putting on her 11y/o girl tantrum all day and always reminding me about yesterday's get together. She's starting to bear-hug my leg - and not letting go!

What do I with her?
Are you jealous of your in-law's cooking?
Any stories about past experiences?

2007-12-04 00:35:33 · 9 answers · asked by Curious about the World 3

then sits ther silently listening to you say" HellO" and doesnt speak.

2007-12-04 00:22:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm single & have lived alone for 18 yrs. I'm unemployed & doing SOME housecleaning making VERY little money to get by. I have NO family to loan me money & NO assets to sell for cash & a '94 Civic that's NOW needing various repairs. Rents due & I DON'T have it & have NO place to go. I asked a girlfriend I've known for 30 yrs to move in & SPLIT the rent, etc., for a couple of months to avoid eviction. My girlfriend agreed since she too has money issues BUT, she HAS family whom have given her thousands, a 2004 PT Cruiser, 2005 fully loaded Ford Focus, a Harley Davidson, lots of nice jewelry, an earth contact home she's waiting to move into as soon as her ex-husband moves in 2 months, IRA's & retirement savings & a marine gentlemen whom she practically lives with PLUS she makes approx. $700 or more doing internet real estate AND she has a 17 yr son.
My girlfriend & I agreed ONLY she would move in while her son lives with a classmate until he graduates H.S. next May.
Without 1st discussing with me, she's moving her son in too BUT tells me she is paying $250 of the $500 rent & HASN'T found the time to arrange the cost of her paying half (1/2) of ALL the utilities PLUS cable/internet. ALL my furniture including my washer/dryer will be used EXCEPT for her son's bed.
I have MY ex boyfriends laptop & plan to sell his laptop to help pay a portion of my rent due. I have counted on selling it since I have NO other assets. etc., to get some cash I DESPERATELY need. My girlfriend WANTS the laptop for her son & says she will give me $75 BUT I can get $150. I've told her this, it pissed her off so she contacted MY ex boyfriend (BEHIND MY BACK), Now MY ex boyfriend says he'll just let her son "use" the laptop.
I'm EXTREMELY pissed since she has been FULLY aware of my plans to sell the laptop for DESPERATELY needed cash & unlike her, I DON'T have big assets NOR family NOR a marine boyfriend---I HAVE NOTHING.
*** I have the laptop in MY possession and MY ex boyfriend does NOT & has NOT cared I have his lap top. I've budgeted $150 & decided NOT to sell her the laptop since she wants to pay me ONLY $75 for it even BEFORE she went behind my back to MY ex boyfriend & I DON'T care if this pisses her off. Am I in the wrong? How would you feel?

2007-12-04 00:21:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-04 00:10:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

like a bloke to be genuine when he's trying to chat you up? Or would you sooner him come out with the real him? Do you like it when he tries to impress you with his job, his moter,his education, the number of birds he has been out with and all the other things? What would you think if he told you the truth? That he was selfish, inconsiderate, had a lousy job and had a hard time pulling a bird? Would you admire him for his honesty or would you just give him the elbow?
Tell me now and tell me true.

2007-12-04 00:01:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous