What should i do if my girlfriend is cheating on me?

Answer 1

Dump her......

Answer 2

If someone cheats on you, you will probably be very hard pressed to ever feel like she is really "into" the relationship. After someone cheats on someone else, the trust is lost, and its almost impossible to gain back. Anyways, anyone who cheats on their boyfriend or girlfriend shouldn't be going out with someone in the first place. Dump her, and find someone who won't do that to you, because once it happens, it destroys the relationship even if you want it to keep going.

Answer 3

..........Well....... first of all you need to figure out what is actually going on.
1.Confront her, ask some questions.
2. Go with your "gut instinct"
3. What are the boundaries of your relationship? Have you both committed to only being with each other, or is exclusivity only an assumption?
4. Figure all of these things out and go from there.
If you do or did have guidelines and she has broken them, then you do definitely have a problem, is she willing to give this other person up?...and can you forgive her?
Once you answer those questions you will know where you stand.
Good luck; relationships are the biggest, most difficult dance we do in life.

Answer 4

Confront her, and unless she has a "good" reason. (I'm not sure what constitutes a good reason, but there may be one), dump her. People who cheat once are likely to cheat again.

Answer 5

If your girlfriend is cheating on you, confront the problem...and then dump the poor white trailer trash!...lol")

Answer 6

Break up with her.
and the best thing you can do is
MOVE ON.
do not go back to her or let her come back to you.
good luck to you.
you really don't need someone like that in your life.

Answer 7

Dump her and find someone new that wont cheat on you.

Answer 8

If you want to save the relationship- and it sounds like you do- you need to sit her down and have a talk with her. If she is cheating on you, but has not broken up with you, there's some indication that she is looking to hold on to the relationship, as well.

That doesn't change that what she is doing is immature, selfish, and simple-minded, but it does give you a foothold to opening conversation.

There is the chance that she is staying in the relationship for other like immature, selfish, and simple-minded reasons, and I'm sorry that you have to risk finding that out in even approaching her on the subject, but at least (and it is very little, as consolation goes), you'll know where you stand.

If she is staying in the relationship for real reasons, though- and this is more probable- you need to be open to hearing why exactly she has turned elsewhere. Again, it may have everything to do with her, and nothing to do with you, but- chances are- if you love her, you're quite acquainted with her character flaws already and will be able to sort out from her complaints what she needs to work on, and what you need to work on.

As far as approaching the conversation, do exactly the opposite of what most girls do when they whip out the "We need to talk," face. Make her a simple dinner, or heck, just make her coffee, and tell her (as calmly as you can) you need to talk. Bring up your suspicions, tell her you want to keep the relationship together, but that you need to know what is going on with her.

If she starts stringing out a long list of your faults, incapacities, and bad habits, you can try asking her again what- in her view-is missing between you. Unfortunately, though, if she is blaming you for what she is doing, that is a good indication that you are in a relationship with someone who does not really want to be in a relationship.

In that case, you either need to be prepared for a long, heart-rending series of conversations and counter-conversations, with the chance that- in the end- she will still jump ship; or break it off. I've seen numerous friends go that route, and the results are about 50/50, with some great relationships, and some horrible breakups- and very little gray area between them.

If she actually responds to your question in a mature way, though, and tells you what is really bothering her, you need to be prepared in this situation not only to take on what- to her- is impeding your part in the relationship, but also to take on rebuilding your trust in her. She is the one who cheated on you, though, and she is the one who needs to be putting in major effort to earn back your trust. In truth, the nature of your relationship will need to fundamentally alter in order for it to work out after this.

Not knowing the details of your relationship, it is hard to say who is going to come out of either situation better, but assuming that you are a decent, caring guy who loves your girlfriend, there is no excuse for her stepping out on you. That doesn't mean that she doesn't have reasons that seem logical to her for doing so, but those reasons need to be approached by two faulted human beings- as human faults- for any kind of solution to come out of this.

In honesty, my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago, and though it was horrible at the time, it took something of that magnitude to show us how superficial our relationship had really been before then. We hashed it out in one painful conversation after another, but at the end of it, we both ended up stronger people, and now have an absolutely wonderful friendship and relationship. I hope the same for you & take care.

Answer 9

Cheat on her!!

Answer 10

Drop her like a hot rock.

Answer 11

get rid of her even though that is easier said then done you have to do the best thing for you and being used is not the best thing for anyone