2007-12-04 05:00:38 · 32 answers · asked by sweetie23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of times the accuser is actually the one cheating. beware
2007-12-04 05:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by ziggywit420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen two different reasons for this. Either he's insecure and you're giving him some vibe that he's not "enough" for you, or he's the one cheating. Has this been happening since the start of the relationship or just recent? Are you spending more time at work or with friends than usual? Have you seen him be insecure about himself? The best way to find out why he's doing this is to ask him. See if he's feeling insecure or neglected and work on those issues. If he's got a guilty conscience, then get rid of him!
2007-12-04 05:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by angelsinspiration 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a variety of reasons from his insecurity to guilt for something he has done.
I suggest that you sit him down and in no uncertain terms reaffirm your answer then ask him if he doubts you. Tell him that it bothers you that he continually asks and you want to understand why.
Being able to have a discussion about an issue is an important cornerstone of a relationship. Beware if there is resistance to resolving this.
2007-12-04 05:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi maybe its because his confidence in himself is very low and so he always feel that he is not good or strong enough to keep you this has to be hard to deal with all the time. You really need to talk to him tell him how much you love him but you are getting fed up with this distrust in you, and that sooner or later it is going to destroy the relationship.If you have never given him a reason to feel this way then he has a slight problem with is self worth and don't allow him to keep doing this to you if you love him help him seek help for his low self esteem.
2007-12-04 05:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several reasons
1 Maybe he has low self esteem.
2 Maybe you have a "past" and he's trying to reassure himself that you're true to him - see #1.
3 Maybe he's cheating on you.
Either way - that's not a question to ask your loved one.
Consider this a warning sign honey. It won't get any better, either.
I say move one to a nicer guy.
2007-12-04 05:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he's insecure about your relationship and himself.... I would be skeptical of this kind of behavior because a lot of times it can snowball into some pretty abusive situations
have you tried to talk to him and explain that a) you're not cheating on him b) how it makes you feel when he's accusing you of something you haven't done and c) his behavior is only going to push you further away???
2007-12-04 05:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by miss_nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactally what I was thinking, most quilty parties try to shove the blame onto their partners. It's just basic psychology, maybe you should start asking some questions. Either way paranoia doensn't get better, it can only get worse.
2007-12-04 05:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your guy is either a control greak or an insecure momma's boy. No matter what it is, you should tell him to stop and just trust you. If he can't then dump his him. He'll constantly be making you feel on edge.
2007-12-05 05:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
low self esteem is a possible...or maybe he had a girlfriend that cheated on him in the past. men seem to think whatever their last girlfriend did to them the next one will too...just look him in in eyes and tell him over and over everyday that you love him and only him...and hopefully sooner or later he'll get the hint!! Good Luck :)
2007-12-04 05:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by colleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) he's cheating or has cheated in the past
b) you're cheating or have cheated in the past
c) he's really insecure
d) his bff tells him you're hot for him
e) all of the above
2007-12-04 05:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by Amazing Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋