my boyfriend has about 15 videos downloaded on his computer plus about 2 full pages saved into his favorites on the web browser. plus he watches it daily on a forum he is registered to.. the forum ones he looks at even when i'm sitting right next to him. as soon as theyre posted he checks it out. is this a normal amount for guys or could he be a little obsessive? the porn itsself isnt whats bothering me, it's the amount that he has.
2007-12-04 05:00:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is more than a bit obsessive.
If he can not or will not change he will lose the ability to maintain a real life relationship!
2007-12-04 05:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it might be a little obsessive.
When my boyfriend and I first started dating he had a lot of porn...it kinda gave me a complex and made me think a lot.
What I finally realized is as long as he's not spending all of his money on porn or replacing your all's sexual relationship with porn it's pretty normal. Guys like sex, and when they can't have it they watch it. It's better that you know rather than having to catch him jerking himself to all of it.
And at least if you ever decide to watch porn you'll have a big selection. My boyfriend and I watch porn together and it's a fun time...plus you learn new techniques. It takes the edge off.
2007-12-04 05:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the man. For some, too much isn't enough. If it's interfering with your relationship, then it's time to have a talk with him. You won't get a "normal" response to this question, because there are varying amounts in just about any man's collection. Some have none, some have all. The only thing that matters is it's not hurting you.
2007-12-04 05:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by angelsinspiration 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a little obsessive, but you should appreciate that he doesn't hide it from you. You could tell him that his watching it all the time makes you feel uncomfortable and that you accept that he watches it (can be fun to do as a couple sometimes) but that he needs to tone it down around you so you don't get a complex about it. He should be able to accept that from you. And if he can't then he's not a keeper anyway and move on.
2007-12-04 05:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by greeni707 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man and i think it's a little obsessive. i love the looks of a woman's curves and the beauty because every woman has its own unique look .when god made woman he created an art form. i work for a magazine distribution company . and i see all the porn a man can see it's great . but there's only so much you can take. maybe it's a phase he is going through. maybe he's trying to get your attention.
2007-12-04 05:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ron B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that something is missing in your relationship I think porn isn't good ......I'm sorry ...I feel deeply about this subject I hope are next generation doesn't have to decide on something that should have never been out there in the beginning .....sensor ...sensor...are children are watching and next if this keeps up there going to have on t.v HOW YOU CAN KILL YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER STEP BYE STEP...make love to a person do not have sex .I know this generation is hard but lets try next we have a chance to become what we are inside us not outside of us ..its more fulfilling than anything you can imagine
2007-12-04 05:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by saveitok 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a lot in my opinion. He could have an addiction that he's unable to break. Ask him to not look at it for a week or 2 and see how he handles that idea. If he can't then thats the sign that proves he has a problem. Good luck!
2007-12-04 05:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a little much!! Porn don't bother me either but to watch it everyday that would drive me crazy!! Sounds like an obsession to me!!
2007-12-04 05:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he runs out of place to put it then that is too much. So if he has to add more memory to his computer or build a second wing on the house to store it all, then that is too much. Otherwise it is fine.
2007-12-06 13:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by Leroy J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if he is doing it everyday, that is kind of weird. Even if someone has a lot and watches it once in a while that is fine, but if he has a lot and watches it a lot, he has some problem or addiction.
2007-12-04 05:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by Ferocious Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋