OK.. me and my girlfriend are trying to take it to 3rd base. We arent exaxtly like as freaky as the others at school, but i was just wondering what is the best way to finger my girlfriend like during a movie without being noticed or in class because we sit @ a table against the wall together. we are really in love with each other but we dont want to have sex yet because it can ruin a relationship @ our age. and im not a virgin but she is and i dont want to make her first time un special. any pointers on how i can get good with fingering her and moving up to having sex??
2007-11-30 21:32:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know how to do it but your asking questions about a finger?
In school? Are you crazy?
(I guess I used to think about it, but it was JUST a fantasy)
Its an ARRESTABLE OFFENSE on school grounds and the STATE will probably enforce the case and press some kind of RAPE charges on you EVEN if she contests (fights) it in court and tries to defend you.
Hows that for making it UN special?
why can't you do it at home? if your only seeing each other at school, then how will you be able to do the final act?
You should work on HOW CAN I MAKE IT AS PRIVATE AND AS SAFE AS POSSIBLE.........FIRST!!!!!........... then move on to bigger and better goals.
WHOA WHOA..........don't listen to sicko. you really want to stay on the outside for now. Look near the top, right under the pubs. the area that looks like an upside down V. That wedge in the V is the hood. if you look under the "hood" on the outside (not inside her), you'll find a little flesh "bead" that looks like a pearl (whitish or purplish) thats the clitoris!!
THATS your best friend!! be soft, and gentle. and later you can get a "little" firmer. mix it up a little, but don't focus on in and out.
don't worry about inside just yet. the clt is more important. in time you'll learn what a woman really enjoys
2007-11-30 21:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mercury 2010 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Alright man...first of all...your NOT avirgin...and you dont know how to finger...... thats...kinda wierd....but w/e, not my concern.....lets see, best thing to do, is when your in a make out session, you on top, you start makin out wit her pasionatly, ryt, then you start feelin her up, like massage her boobs, you know...the works, slowly move down to her thighs, carress them, then go for the sweet spot and rub it...now the whole actually fingering her...thats all you, sum people are good at it sum people arent, if anything my advice would be to not curl your finger and try to find the G spot....you might hurt her........ive done it.....so best case scenario....get it so that you are pretty much parallel with hr head, a STRAIGHT FINGER, is always a good finger
2007-11-30 21:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Finger her in private not in a public place would be a good start. Also your girlfriend has to find out what she likes sexually and then she can tell you so you know how she likes it and can do it that way.
2007-11-30 21:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I recommend doing it while skydiving. That is the best way to do it. When fingering, you will need to find some fingers first. You can cut them off of others or do whatever. Next, you will need a funnel. Once you decide to start fingering, stick the funnel up your gfs vagina or asshole. Next dump the fingers in. You may need to push the fingers to get them all in there. Then, remove the funnel and stick your own fingers into the desired hole. Once your fingers are in, stick your hole hand in, then your arm then legs, then your other arm, and finally your chest and your head. Once that is done, you are free to swim around and do whatever you want :)
2014-10-07 13:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
dude..u cant finger your virgin gf in a public place like school/movies etc. get a room. make her comfortable. take her in front of a window. tell her to see how beautiful the sky. then grab her slowly from the backwards and make your finger active in a slow and teddy way.
2007-11-30 21:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
wow um... 1st u shouldnt finger her at skool because thats makin they both of u look bad. tha movies....idk onli if shes okay with it if not then her house ur ur house would be the best place. now fingerin her i think u would have to make ur realli comfy and go for tha bait. but u would wanna start off slow since shes a virgin
2007-11-30 21:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Class of 2010 BITCHES! 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
In the class?
what are you thinking?
movies...if your at home or theres not many ppl around.
remember if shes a virgin she would probably be a bit uncomftorble with people around.
just take it slow. and when youre alone.
2007-11-30 21:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
WHY DONT YOU ASK HER, shes the one thats got the hole drilled in her, we dont know the road map.
2007-11-30 21:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋